Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[DefunctTheory]

Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

The pill is statistically worse at keeping your junk from growing warts and discharging pus.

When all is considered, condom beats pill every fucking time (And Pill+Condom rules the universe).

But I'm the sort of person who would only sleep with someone I REALLY Trusted, so for me that would not be a problem. I suppose for someone with a different mindset yes, condom over pill, but no-one's exactly the same an different things are priority with different lifestyles.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_papillomavirus

HPV - A disease everyone has. Remember this: You could give a girl CANCER because you didn't know you had that type of HPV.

But, of course, you TRUST these girls. So viral infections will respect that.

Of course, your only 15. Your moral compass is no where near fully developed yet (Yes, I know, you are a perfect person now and will never change. Bravo). I suggest you get into a habit of using a condom now, before you realize sex CAN just be sex and start drinking too much around women of questionable character. A condom reflex could potentially save your life at that point.

I must honestly ask, what did I do to deserve so damn much angry quoting??? Half of you telling me to lighten up and the others saying the opposite. WHAT DID I DO???

If you knew me well, you would know for a fact that I'm not going to get drunk in a bar and get it on with a woman of questionable character.

Also when I say really trust, I mean it, someone I would not just trust with my life, but with the lives of my friends too. And I'll see about the condom advice, although I can't see myself needing it within the next year at least.

I do have to apologize for that. I forgot your age, typed up an angry post, realized you were 15, and was too lazy take the time to fully edit the thing.

Someone with your lack risk management at the age of 21 deserves such a post. You do not. I apologize (Though I stand by my advise, but in a much less angry, forceful way).

Of course, incoming probation for me. Woot.

 

[ultimateownage]

Why does the 'no' option in the poll have a sad face? Maybe some people aren't sad that they haven't had sex?
O.T. No, I haven't had sex. Fourteen is way too young for sex in my opinion, and even if I felt I was old enough I wouldn't be in a hurry to try it.

 

[CatmanStu]

Yes I have had a sexual encounter; no I haven't had full sex.
Casual sex, I believe, is something that a lot of people wouldn't condone until they had the opportunity themselves. If there are people out there who can HONESTLY say that they wouldn't go for it if an attractive partner was offering it on a plate, you have more will power than I have. I like to claim my virginity is down to 'enlightened morals', but the reality is that, sometimes, I would bang the crack in a plate if it talked dirty to me.
Condoms? I think unless you are ready to take on the burden of parenthood, you are a moron to forgo any form of contraception; the more simultaneous methods used the better (within reason; you don't want it feel like a science experiment).

Unless that's what you're going for. You might have a thing for science, who am I to judge.

But seriously, if you set up Bunsen burners and shit, you might need help.

 

[Togs]

Still a virgin with very little interest in sex- I like the thought of it but in practice it just looks messy and awkward

 

[NotYetForsaken]

No. All the women I meet repulse me. Not in the physical way either. They are attractive, but I just hate all humans now a days. I am not gay either. Men repulse me to.

I think I'm just latently afraid of the act. That or I'm just gonna grow up to be a mass murderer or revel in my own insanity. Or both.

My views on Sex: I don't see why you should. Artificial insemination is much more effective, and other forms of physical release are much more effective.

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

I find it odd some people say casual sex is without emotion. For me when I engaged in casual sex I did it out of lust, mostly. Isn't that an emotion?

This is indeed a good point!

Why does the 'no' option in the poll have a sad face? Maybe some people aren't sad that they haven't had sex?
O.T. No, I haven't had sex. Fourteen is way too young for sex in my opinion, and even if I felt I was old enough I wouldn't be in a hurry to try it.

Then they should choose the 'nah' option:].

 

[Shockolate]

Can't say I have had sex.

Though something about oral really unnerves me. The thought of kissing a girl who's had my wang in her mouth is a major turn off.

It's possible I'm ever so slightly homophobic.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

I find it odd some people say casual sex is without emotion. For me when I engaged in casual sex I did it out of lust, mostly. Isn't that an emotion?

Yeah, I agree. Casual sex isn't emotionless. It just isn't romantic love.

Casual sex can be passionate, lustful, silly, friendly, kind, meloncholy, or any number of other emotions - often more than one.

I've said before in other threads, but I usually sleep with friends. Yes, that makes me a bit odd, but it's one of the ways I express trust and friendship. I wouldn't sleep someone I didn't like and respect - but that doesn't mean I want to spend my life with them. I just enjoy having fun and sharing something special.

 

[Wertbag]

Yes, when I was 21. I'm 34 now and had sex with 5 different girls (had sexual fun with 2 others that never turned into full sex). I'm all for causal sex, as long as its two consenting educated adults then its all good fun.
As for the pill, I have relied on it in the past until I had a pregnancy scare with one girl. It was at that point that I realised you can't see if its actually working or not and its far too easy to forget or counter act. I would never risk it again. Thankfully my current girlfriend uses the IUD, can't forget that, cheap, lasts 5 years and no condoms required, I would highly recommend it.

 

[Perryman93]

Yes
yes
15
1
I used to disagree but now have no problem with it
yes, ive had sex with and without condoms, with a girl who was on the pill. and had sex with no protection at all... bit risky though!
Yea i have no problem with giving or receiving oral sex, i quite enjoy giving it

 

[natster43]

1. No.
2. No.
3. Still a virgin.
4. Zero.
5. I have no problem with casual sex.
6. Sure, why not.
7. It sure is oral sex.

 

[DefunctTheory]

No. All the women I meet repulse me. Not in the physical way either. They are attractive, but I just hate all humans now a days. I am not gay either. Men repulse me to.

I think I'm just latently afraid of the act. That or I'm just gonna grow up to be a mass murderer or revel in my own insanity. Or both.

My views on Sex: I don't see why you should. Artificial insemination is much more effective, and other forms of physical release are much more effective.

Artificial insemination is costly, and has the added effect of causing an abnormal amount of multiple births, two things some people cannot afford.

Sex is free (With the exception of cheap pills, cheaper latex, and energy).

Name one form of physical release that is superior to sex TO EVERYONE. I dare you.

 

[Proverbial Jon]

WOOORRDDSSS.

You know, I totally had the exact same feelings as you. I thought I knew what love was, and thought sex was something very sacred and stuff. But when I had my heart broken, *sobstory* all that kinda went out the window. I have to admit though, the time I did engage in 'casual sex', it didn't feel 1/10th as good, or special, as when I did with my ex.

And I just feel that, if the opportunity to have casual sex presents itself, you should take a step back and make sure you want to go through with it. But...uh *brainfrazzle* I get what you're saying I think, and I suppose you're right.

Ha, sorry, I just read that all back and didn't realise how preachy I sounded. Didn't intend for that. I guess we all do what we can to get through life, it's not my place to say how anyone should go about that.

I'm sorry to hear about your heartbreak, you're intitled to your sobstory, who hasn't been there? I know roughly what you mean however. I had a girlfriend a few years back who I also fell in love with, I pretty much got to the stage I'm at now, ready to have sex and comfortable with doing so. I broached the subject several times but she wasn't ready, something I respected. She dumped me after 9 months and broke my heart in the process. I guess I really dodged a bullet there. However, seeing the sort of person she is today... yeah looks like I dodged TWO bullets!

EDIT: Wow ok this time I sound really bitchy! I mean her personality changed, as we all do at that age I guess. We were just no longer compatible.

ANOTHEREDIT: Blargh, sorry about my British slang. Basically, as in 'slept with', I mean had sex with, not literally sleeping with xD.

I wasn't aware that term was a British only thing... then again, I'm British too so I guess I wouldn't have known either way!

 

[Nimcha]

I find it odd some people say casual sex is without emotion. For me when I engaged in casual sex I did it out of lust, mostly. Isn't that an emotion?

Yeah, I agree. Casual sex isn't emotionless. It just isn't romantic love.

Casual sex can be passionate, lustful, silly, friendly, kind, meloncholy, or any number of other emotions - often more than one.

I've said before in other threads, but I usually sleep with friends. Yes, that makes me a bit odd, but it's one of the ways I express trust and friendship. I wouldn't sleep someone I didn't like and respect - but that doesn't mean I want to spend my life with them. I just enjoy having fun and sharing something special.

I suppose that is a bit odd, though I have had a similar arrangement in the past. It is indeed an act of trust, and it can be a lot fun. For me it's a lot different when I do it with someone I'm actually in love with. I like being able to make that distinction.

 

[Macgyvercas]

1) Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)

Nope.

2) Have you had sex?

Nope

3) How old were you when you first did?

See answer to question 2

4) How many people have you slept with?

See answer to question 2

5) What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in
a relationship)?

6) I personally think sex should mean something to the participents. Mindless sex is just stupid, imo.

7) Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

No. Too risky for my blood.

8) What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?

Never had it, but the thought doesn't bother me.

 

[Brandon237]

Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

The pill is statistically worse at keeping your junk from growing warts and discharging pus.

When all is considered, condom beats pill every fucking time (And Pill+Condom rules the universe).

But I'm the sort of person who would only sleep with someone I REALLY Trusted, so for me that would not be a problem. I suppose for someone with a different mindset yes, condom over pill, but no-one's exactly the same an different things are priority with different lifestyles.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_papillomavirus

HPV - A disease everyone has. Remember this: You could give a girl CANCER because you didn't know you had that type of HPV.

But, of course, you TRUST these girls. So viral infections will respect that.

Of course, your only 15. Your moral compass is no where near fully developed yet (Yes, I know, you are a perfect person now and will never change. Bravo). I suggest you get into a habit of using a condom now, before you realize sex CAN just be sex and start drinking too much around women of questionable character. A condom reflex could potentially save your life at that point.

I must honestly ask, what did I do to deserve so damn much angry quoting??? Half of you telling me to lighten up and the others saying the opposite. WHAT DID I DO???

If you knew me well, you would know for a fact that I'm not going to get drunk in a bar and get it on with a woman of questionable character.

Also when I say really trust, I mean it, someone I would not just trust with my life, but with the lives of my friends too. And I'll see about the condom advice, although I can't see myself needing it within the next year at least.

I do have to apologize for that. I forgot your age, typed up an angry post, realized you were 15, and was too lazy take the time to fully edit the thing.

Someone with your lack risk management at the age of 21 deserves such a post. You do not. I apologize (Though I stand by my advise, but in a much less angry, forceful way).

Of course, incoming probation for me. Woot.

Apology accepted, and I will keep the advice in mind for when it is actually a concern, thanks I guess?

And if it means anything I won't report and I don't really see any reason why anyone else would.

 

[DefunctTheory]

Spoiler

Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

The pill is statistically worse at keeping your junk from growing warts and discharging pus.

When all is considered, condom beats pill every fucking time (And Pill+Condom rules the universe).

But I'm the sort of person who would only sleep with someone I REALLY Trusted, so for me that would not be a problem. I suppose for someone with a different mindset yes, condom over pill, but no-one's exactly the same an different things are priority with different lifestyles.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_papillomavirus

HPV - A disease everyone has. Remember this: You could give a girl CANCER because you didn't know you had that type of HPV.

But, of course, you TRUST these girls. So viral infections will respect that.

Of course, your only 15. Your moral compass is no where near fully developed yet (Yes, I know, you are a perfect person now and will never change. Bravo). I suggest you get into a habit of using a condom now, before you realize sex CAN just be sex and start drinking too much around women of questionable character. A condom reflex could potentially save your life at that point.

I must honestly ask, what did I do to deserve so damn much angry quoting??? Half of you telling me to lighten up and the others saying the opposite. WHAT DID I DO???

If you knew me well, you would know for a fact that I'm not going to get drunk in a bar and get it on with a woman of questionable character.

Also when I say really trust, I mean it, someone I would not just trust with my life, but with the lives of my friends too. And I'll see about the condom advice, although I can't see myself needing it within the next year at least.

I do have to apologize for that. I forgot your age, typed up an angry post, realized you were 15, and was too lazy take the time to fully edit the thing.

Someone with your lack risk management at the age of 21 deserves such a post. You do not. I apologize (Though I stand by my advise, but in a much less angry, forceful way).

Of course, incoming probation for me. Woot.

Apology accepted, and I will keep the advice in mind for when it is actually a concern, thanks I guess?

And if it means anything I won't report and I don't really see any reason why anyone else would.

Every time I go out of my way to apologize for something, I get probation. It doesn't matter the the apology is literally 3 inches below the offensive post.

Mods hate me.

 

[Wade-DeadPool]

18
yes
With a girl i meet online. She was juts a sexy girl and the sex was good...I think soo, she did not complain.
8-10
Well.. I'm sort of in one right now.. soo it is okay, as long as both ppl think soo.
You should not lie or anything, and say that someday you might be in one.
Yes i would, IF i knew the girl well.
I love it! I love to give it too girl's and it is not repulsing in anyway.