Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[DefunctTheory]

Not sexual intercourse, isit?

Where does that leave lesbians?

Hah, as if oral sex is the only thing we do.

So is tribadism sexual intercourse, and why is it different from oral sex? Digital penetration, is that intercourse or not?

I am a bit confused as to where your distinction lies.

I don't really care all that much. I know most people can't imagine sex without a penis, but trust me it's possible.

I know... tribadism is scissoring, no penis involved. It just becomes tricky to know where to draw the line on what is and what is not sexual intercourse, especially as over the years the term has broadened to incorporate oral sex, anal sex, fingering, tribadism, frotting and anything I might've missed.

Personally, I'd include them all (though I didn't in my original answer, I'd like to maintain some dignity).

Sex, as I see it, is any sexual act that carries with it a risk of bacterial/viral infection at all times (Cuts on fingers don't count).

But that just me.

 

[neil1990]

I get the impression that not just on this forum but in general that people lie a shitload about sex

 

[Nimcha]

Not sexual intercourse, isit?

Where does that leave lesbians?

Hah, as if oral sex is the only thing we do.

So is tribadism sexual intercourse, and why is it different from oral sex? Digital penetration, is that intercourse or not?

I am a bit confused as to where your distinction lies.

I don't really care all that much. I know most people can't imagine sex without a penis, but trust me it's possible.

I know... tribadism is scissoring, no penis involved. It just becomes tricky to know where to draw the line on what is and what is not sexual intercourse, especially as over the years the term has broadened to incorporate oral sex, anal sex, fingering, tribadism, frotting and anything I might've missed.

Personally, I'd include them all (though I didn't in my original answer, I'd like to maintain some dignity).

Sex, as I see it, is any sexual act that carries with it a risk of bacterial/viral infection at all times (Cuts on fingers don't count).

But that just me.

That seems a bit... glum.

 

[ham and red bull]

I get the impression that not just on this forum but in general that people lie a shitload about sex

I kind of doubt any 12 or 13 year old escapists (who are know for being socially akward nerds) were running around having sex, not saying anyone is a liar, I just think it's weird.

 

[Brandon237]

Haven't had sex, I'm only 15 and my gf and I have strong moral compasses...
That should explain the next few answers.
I tend to automatically think less of people who do have casual sex... I don't like the idea.
Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

 

[Retardinator]

19 years old soon, and no.
I stopped caring about women years ago. Sure there's days that are very bitter and lonely, but for the most part I'm happy for being so indifferent.
As for casual sex, I dislike it. If others wanna do it, it's not my business, but I try to evaluate potential relationships with women I meet and if it doesn't look like it would work out I just give up on any sort of romantic or lustful thoughts whatsoever.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Not sexual intercourse, isit?

Where does that leave lesbians?

Hah, as if oral sex is the only thing we do.

So is tribadism sexual intercourse, and why is it different from oral sex? Digital penetration, is that intercourse or not?

I am a bit confused as to where your distinction lies.

Well, the OP said "have you had sex" - and since oral sex and digital sex may not be "intercourse" but they are clearly sex - they are a specific catagories of sex.

As far as tribadism, it may not involve penetration, but it is one of the most intimate acts I can think of.

 

[ham and red bull]

Haven't had sex, I'm only 15 and my gf and I have strong moral compasses...
That should explain the next few answers.
I tend to automatically think less of people who do have casual sex... I don't like the idea.
Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

What's immoral about sex with the person you love?

 

[Lt_Bromhead]

"Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did?
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)"

Yes.
15.
8.
Absolutely fine. Due to several major...eh...errors in one relationship, I'm trying to stay as far away from them as possible. At least for the time being.(I do make people aware of my "no relationships" policy of course)
Seriously, it would depend on whether she knew she was clean. I know I am. If she's uncertain, it's condom time.

 

[DanielDeFig]

-No
-N/A (20 years old)
-N/A
-Disrespectful to your partner. Sex is intimate and serious, so there shouldn't be anything 'Casual' about it.
-No. The point of using both is so that if one fails, the other one is a backup precaution(condoms only being 97% effective and whatnot).

 

[HerrBobo]

in[/i] a relationship)? Its fine
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Yes
...Anything else you'd like to talk about? Dont think so.

 

[DefunctTheory]

Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

The pill is statistically worse at keeping your junk from growing warts and discharging pus.

When all is considered, condom beats pill every fucking time (And Pill+Condom rules the universe).

 

[Shiftysnowdog]

Yes
17
7 girls. 0 dudes
Absolutely, I'm currently in a Sexual NSA relationship right now. Anytime either of us wants to get busy we call the other one up.
I have, so saying I wouldn't would be mighty hypercritical wouldn't it? I've done it even when the girl wasn't on the pill. Needless to say, 6 of the 7 girls i have slept with have had pregnancy scares.


I'm only 19. I think in 7 girls in 2 years is an alright kill count, no?

 

[Nimcha]

Haven't had sex, I'm only 15 and my gf and I have strong moral compasses...

Moral compasses? What does that mean?

 

[Brandon237]

Haven't had sex, I'm only 15 and my gf and I have strong moral compasses...
That should explain the next few answers.
I tend to automatically think less of people who do have casual sex... I don't like the idea.
Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

What's immoral about sex with the person you love?

I'm only 15, it would just feel wrong, not at the time But afterwards. And we don't really feel any compulsion to do it at this time either, just making out leaves us a more than a little starry-eyed as is. So all is good...

 

[Phlakes]

Yes

19, went on vacation to Paris with my friends after graduating. Got a little more than I was expecting.

One. After getting to college, I've been too busy working and studying.

Fine with me.

Only if I'm positive she has no STDs.

 

[Brandon237]

Haven't had sex, I'm only 15 and my gf and I have strong moral compasses...

Moral compasses? What does that mean?

Feel guilty very easily, tend to what's considered more "right" by society even if it is annoying. A weak moral compass would basically mean "doesn't give a damn about anything else".

 

[ham and red bull]

Haven't had sex, I'm only 15 and my gf and I have strong moral compasses...
That should explain the next few answers.
I tend to automatically think less of people who do have casual sex... I don't like the idea.
Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

What's immoral about sex with the person you love?

I'm only 15, it would just feel wrong, not at the time But afterwards. And we don't really feel any compulsion to do it at this time either, just making out leaves us a more than a little starry-eyed as is. So all is good...

The average boy nowadays has sex at 15. There's more to a relationship than being "starry eyed", and what kind of kid doesn't want to get his goeff off? Do you get your relieve from online videos?