Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[DefunctTheory]

...you can break a penis with the kind of sex you have.

have bruised it before.

Just don't use vaseline as lube (EVER))

Found out hard way.

and make sure you're not... uhm, going at it until you're as raw as a cheese grater

Found out hard way.

Maybe if your kegels are enough to snap steel...

Been there. See first top of post.

and the chances of the condom breaking are very slim.

I know! Thats why I want to know what she's doing that could possible break a condom. Its either awesome or dangerous, and I want to do it one either way.

 

[CatmanStu]

Hah. Some of the posts here are hilarious (in the good way). Just goes to show that the best conversations about sex are the ones that realise you can't talk about it without being at least a little immature.

 

[DefunctTheory]

Hah. Some of the posts here are hilarious (in the good way). Just goes to show that the best conversations about sex are the ones that realise you can't talk about it without being at least a little immature.

In my experience, sex is more silly than romantic. Its both, of course, but my partner and I laugh more than we say 'I love you' (If we say that at all).

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

Have you had sex? Yes
How old were you when you first did? 16
How many people have you slept with? 4, that i know of at least =P
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? It doesn't bother me really, surprisingly all 4 times i wasn't going out with the girls.. but generally i have to have a few good drinks before I'm okay with the idea of it, i like to keep sex in a somewhat "meaningful" place, not just for whenever my dick feels like it (which it does a lot, unfortunately)
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) as a male, i would most definitely, no offense ladies but I've tried a different condom every time and god dammit it really doesn't feel that good at all, and when your there moaning and enjoying the hell out of it, it kinda pisses me off that i don't get an equal feeling.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about? hm..personally i would prefer to be in a relationship for sex but hey, its your vagina/penis, go for it.

oh and on the whole "oral" experiences, I'm sorry, but a good 4 or 5 girls i've been with, had no fucking idea what they were doing down there, it almost hurt more than it actually felt good, so ladies, if you think you have an idea on what you are doing, double check, because those are sensitive parts down there.

and for girls, I've given a couple girls oral, but you better be fucking trimmed like fresh cut grass down there or I'm not going near it. (or baby fresh, that's even more preferable)

 

[Ashendarei]

yes, 16.

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

Hah. Some of the posts here are hilarious (in the good way). Just goes to show that the best conversations about sex are the ones that realise you can't talk about it without being at least a little immature.

Agreed, I've got to say this is one of the most interesting threads I've seen in a while. And I'm really glad everyone's being sensible about it!

 

[CatmanStu]

Hah. Some of the posts here are hilarious (in the good way). Just goes to show that the best conversations about sex are the ones that realise you can't talk about it without being at least a little immature.

In my experience, sex is more silly than romantic. Its both, of course, but my partner and I laugh more than we say 'I love you' (If we say that at all).

As long as they are laughing WITH you

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

oh and on the whole "oral" experiences, I'm sorry, but a good 4 or 5 girls i've been with, had no fucking idea what they were doing down there, it almost hurt more than it actually felt good, so ladies, if you think you have an idea on what you are doing, double check, because those are sensitive parts down there.

and for girls, I've given a couple girls oral, but you better be fucking trimmed like fresh cut grass down there or I'm not going near it. (or baby fresh, that's even more preferable)

Cannot agree with you more haha! One 'oral' encounter lasted...man I don't even know. Was so damn awkward, and she was too determined to give up.

Ah, bad times xD.

yes, 16.

No more input, sir?

Had sex when I was 16 (I'm from the UK, y'see). It was a calculated decision with somebody I loved very dearly. It was amazing and I wouldn't trade it for anything. Whenever I talk to people younger than me (or my friends who haven't lost their virginities yet) I tell them to wait rather than throw it away. Hope that doesn't sound patronising.

Not at all, I do the same. Real 'lovemaking' trumps mindless sex any day><.

 

[IAmTheVoid]

Had sex when I was 16 (I'm from the UK, y'see). It was a calculated decision with somebody I loved very dearly. It was amazing and I wouldn't trade it for anything. Whenever I talk to people younger than me (or my friends who haven't lost their virginities yet) I tell them to wait rather than throw it away. Hope that doesn't sound patronising.

 

[Ignatz_Zwakh]

Yes
Yes
I'd turned 16 a week prior
2
Whatever floats your boat. My first encounter was entirely casual, and I enjoyed myself. Most people yearn for something more though.
I dunno...I'm rather paranoid. If I knew her well enough.
I enjoy it(Receiving and giving it). I wouldn't call it better than normal intercourse..maybe sometimes.

 

[Joepow]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)No
Have you had sex? No( I'm currently 19)
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?I'm looking for something more, but as long as you're careful, feel free to go nuts
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)As long as you know your partner doesn't have any STDs, why not? They are more effective than condoms.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? It doesn't repulse me. For more information you'll have to wait a little ( or find me a girlfriend)

 

[harknesssimm]

yes
yes
15
2
i have no problem with casual sex as a rule but prefer a more emotionally fufilling experiance.
yes and have
and i dont find it as fulfilling as normal sex

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
Yeah, I have friends who talk about sex and from what I've heard condoms are kind of uncomfortable for both parties.

Woah, hold up. Condoms should not be uncomfortable for men if they are wearing the correct size. There may be some loss of sensation, but they shouldn't be uncomfortable.

As for being uncomfortable for the receiving party... I honestly have no idea why this would be happening. But it sounds like an issue of not enough lubrication.

Maybe I'm just misinformed and my friend is an idiot then (actually, the 2nd part is right... he's a moron)

If she's on the pill then I'll take the chance of no condom. I know it decreases the chances of pregnancy more, but by how much really when theres already one form of contraceptive in place.

personally i have had this talk with many friends before (and i have a few friends who are meat head hump machines, so they get around) and we all agreed that condoms really are not preferred in any sexual encounter, personally i have not had sex without a condom, but god dammit i want to, i'm sick of wearing that god damn thing and not getting half the fun feeling out of it! (really though, you only feel about...halfish i would say on what you should be feeling, at least when i've gotten a few good handjobs and blowjobs they felt a billion times better than having sex with a condom on. so take that for whatever its worth i suppose.)

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

snip.

yepp, know that EXACT feeling, same case, the girl was desperate to do it right but i swear it just got worse, to the point i basically lost my wood.

i was kind of grouchy after that, she was as pleased as could be and i was sitting there with half a woody and the only satisfaction i had was that she was satisfied (which isn't bad, i always strive to make my partner happy, but it was casual sex so i was a little peev'd)

 

[s0denone]

Not at all, I do the same. Real 'lovemaking' trumps mindless sex any day><.

I find that the best sex is found in casual sex.
Both of you are just there for the moment, making the most of your brief encounter.

On a more intellectual "bond-making" level, sex with one you love is better (of course) - but I don't think the *best sex* is to be had in a relationship. For me, it has been the contrary anyway, and no, I haven't dated people who were crap in the sack.

 

[DefunctTheory]

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
Yeah, I have friends who talk about sex and from what I've heard condoms are kind of uncomfortable for both parties.

Woah, hold up. Condoms should not be uncomfortable for men if they are wearing the correct size. There may be some loss of sensation, but they shouldn't be uncomfortable.

As for being uncomfortable for the receiving party... I honestly have no idea why this would be happening. But it sounds like an issue of not enough lubrication.

Maybe I'm just misinformed and my friend is an idiot then (actually, the 2nd part is right... he's a moron)

If she's on the pill then I'll take the chance of no condom. I know it decreases the chances of pregnancy more, but by how much really when theres already one form of contraceptive in place.

personally i have had this talk with many friends before (and i have a few friends who are meat head hump machines, so they get around) and we all agreed that condoms really are not preferred in any sexual encounter, personally i have not had sex without a condom, but god dammit i want to, i'm sick of wearing that god damn thing and not getting half the fun feeling out of it! (really though, you only feel about...halfish i would say on what you should be feeling, at least when i've gotten a few good handjobs and blowjobs they felt a billion times better than having sex with a condom on. so take that for whatever its worth i suppose.)

If you are losing half you feeling with a condom, something is wrong. You are either wearing the wrong condom, or your friends are exaggerating.

Personally, the amount of feeling lose is practically nil. I have noticed though, that you lose more feeling the looser the... uh... 'port' is, the larger the feeling gap is.

So its more likely your friends are just sleeping with whores/women who don't exercise down there. Or they have a small willy.

Also, hand jobs/oral usually do feel better than sex, but only because you're using only your penis. obviously, you focus more on it, so you feel more. Since sex is a full body experience, the feeling in a particular spot is dimmed in comparison to what your whole body is feeling.

EDIT: I've met more FEMALES that hate condoms then males. Something about how the male climax (ejaculation) feels better when its all over the place, compared to when its just filling up a balloon.

 

[Primate]

Not sexual intercourse, isit?

Where does that leave lesbians?

Virgins?

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

yepp, know that EXACT feeling, same case, the girl was desperate to do it right but i swear it just got worse, to the point i basically lost my wood.

i was kind of grouchy after that, she was as pleased as could be and i was sitting there with half a woody and the only satisfaction i had was that she was satisfied (which isn't bad, i always strive to make my partner happy, but it was casual sex so i was a little peev'd)

LOL aah, someone else that knows how it feels><.

See, it wasn't going anywhere so I actually had to help her finish business, and it was the most uncomfortable...conclusion...ever. Ahman. But yeah, at least she was happy after, bless.

And we had great sex the day after, so all is well.

I find that the best sex is found in casual sex.
Both of you are just there for the moment, making the most of your brief encounter.

On a more intellectual "bond-making" level, sex with one you love is better (of course) - but I don't think the *best sex* is to be had in a relationship. For me, it has been the contrary anyway, and no, I haven't dated people who were crap in the sack.

Actually, that's a very interesting point. Okay, let me revise my opinion.
The best sex is during casual encounters.
The more meaningful, and mentally nicer, is with a person you're in a relationship with.
But I guess that's obvious xD.

Very good point though, mate.

 

[John the Gamer]

I have not yet encountered a living(?) being that suited my taste. I have no idea what kind of person (object?) I would want to have sex with, but I'm not really searching... I guess I'm just kind-of waiting for a suitable subject to fall into my open arms or something... I just hope its a human, female, alive and something I can handle.

Just for giggles:

Spoiler

I hope my quest for love ends better than that person's. Lol.

 

[Creator002]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?

Never had sex or any kind of sexual encounter.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?

My views on casual sex are that it's fine as long as both parties recognise and have an understanding of what they're doing. For example, setting rules within the encounters would be alright.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

I'd probably have sex without a condom regardless, because I suspect I wouldn't get as much pleasure with one and, also, I have another form of "protection" against diseases. I've sort-of made a silent pact with myself to never have sex with someone if I know they have STDs. Conditions do apply, however. EG. Marriage.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?

Oral sex repulses me. Why? I have absolutely no idea. I just don't want to do it and the thought sickens me.

And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?

Well, when I had a girlfriend, she (and I) were Christian, so we didn't have sex due to that. Other than that, I don't really look for another person with whom I could have sex or a relationship with. Why? No desire and I'm quite self-centered. I know I'd get bored of a relationship fairly quick. Even quicker if I wasn't gaining anything from it.