Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
Yeah, I have friends who talk about sex and from what I've heard condoms are kind of uncomfortable for both parties.

Woah, hold up. Condoms should not be uncomfortable for men if they are wearing the correct size. There may be some loss of sensation, but they shouldn't be uncomfortable.

As for being uncomfortable for the receiving party... I honestly have no idea why this would be happening. But it sounds like an issue of not enough lubrication.

Maybe I'm just misinformed and my friend is an idiot then (actually, the 2nd part is right... he's a moron)

If she's on the pill then I'll take the chance of no condom. I know it decreases the chances of pregnancy more, but by how much really when theres already one form of contraceptive in place.

personally i have had this talk with many friends before (and i have a few friends who are meat head hump machines, so they get around) and we all agreed that condoms really are not preferred in any sexual encounter, personally i have not had sex without a condom, but god dammit i want to, i'm sick of wearing that god damn thing and not getting half the fun feeling out of it! (really though, you only feel about...halfish i would say on what you should be feeling, at least when i've gotten a few good handjobs and blowjobs they felt a billion times better than having sex with a condom on. so take that for whatever its worth i suppose.)

If you are losing half you feeling with a condom, something is wrong. You are either wearing the wrong condom, or your friends are exaggerating.

Personally, the amount of feeling lose is practically nil. I have noticed though, that you lose more feeling the looser the... uh... 'port' is, the larger the feeling gap is.

So its more likely your friends are just sleeping with whores/women who don't exercise down there. Or they have a small willy.

Also, hand jobs/oral usually do feel better than sex, but only because you're using only your penis. obviously, you focus more on it, so you feel more. Since sex is a full body experience, the feeling in a particular spot is dimmed in comparison to what your whole body is feeling.

EDIT: I've met more FEMALES that hate condoms then males. Something about how the male climax (ejaculation) feels better when its all over the place, compared to when its just filling up a balloon.

i've worn multiple types of condoms (not the cheap shit either), and while once it was pretty damn tight, and the other times it felt just right having it on, it still didn't feel that great, and like i said my roommate and quite a few guys i know get around, and the ones that have had it with girls who are on the pill, they said it felt alot better, to the point they baby gravy'd in around half the time, (hell my best friend from high school said the first time he did it with his 4 year girlfriend without a condom, he came in 3 minutes it felt that much better, so i'm going to believe/trust my friends probably on this) so im pretty sure its the fact there is a condom there.

and considering 3 of the 4 girls that i have slept with were virgins..holy hell that almost hurt trying to get in there, it was so bloody tight (pun intended)

and i suppose they have gotten with a few whores, but when they have slept with 20+ girls (yes, that many different girls have been in our dorm in the past few months alone) i would argue they aren't loose, especially a few of them that were 5'2 weighing in at near 110 pounds you could swear.

 

[ham and red bull]

I have not yet encountered a living(?) being that suited my taste. I have no idea what kind of person (object?) I would want to have sex with, but I'm not really searching... I guess I'm just kind-of waiting for a suitable subject to fall into my open arms or something... I just hope its a human, female, alive and something I can handle.

Just for giggles:

Spoiler

I hope my quest for love ends better than that person's. Lol.

"I said i was looking for WHORES not a HORSE!!!"

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

LOL aah, someone else that knows how it feels><.

See, it wasn't going anywhere so I actually had to help her finish business, and it was the most uncomfortable...conclusion...ever. Ahman. But yeah, at least she was happy after, bless.

And we had great sex the day after, so all is well.

haha that is pretty damn awkward, she left immediately after because her parents were wondering where she was (lol =P ) so i went to finish after that.

haha hey, as long as the girl leaves happy, then i consider that a win for the day/night

well lucky you for that kind of ending, i hardly talk to my casual sexy's anymore =\

 

[supermariner]

mine was on valentines day actually when i was 16
it wasn't a romantic thing
perhaps it could have been if after 13 glorious minutes it wasn't all over
but hey, first time, let it go. the average has jacked up since then

 

[Daggedawg]

I had my first sexual encounter last year, I was 19 years old, and was in Japan, where I met my girlfriend. It was great, everything just felt so right. We still keep in touch, and she is coming to visit me in a few weeks.

I have only had sex with her, and we were both virgins when we first did it, so if she takes the pill I'm good without a condom. I think that approach works if you are in a longer relationship with only one sexual partner.

Oral sex? Love it, both giving and receiving. Feels good man.

Casual sex? Hmm, I don't think that's for me. Sex and love are quite closely connected in my opinion, and having sex without love, or having a one night stand just doesn't feel right to me.

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

haha that is pretty damn awkward, she left immediately after because her parents were wondering where she was (lol =P ) so i went to finish after that.

haha hey, as long as the girl leaves happy, then i consider that a win for the day/night

well lucky you for that kind of ending, i hardly talk to my casual sexy's anymore =\

Oh GOD that's even worse haha!

Wheee for wins ^_^.

Haha yeah><. She stayed over that night though and my Dad went out the next day so we were like...why not xD.

Strange thing is, me and her have been mates for like, 4 years prior to that. And we meet up like nothing happened. It's great, in a way o.o. Gotta love the 21st century:'].

Also, 700h post. YAY:'].

 

[Yureina]

1. Possibly.
2. No
3. N/A
4. 0
5. Casual does not interest me.
6. Irrelevant, since I can't make a girl pregnant for obvious reasons.
7. Not really interesting to me, but...

Personal reasons keep me away from sexual encounters, and intimate relationships in general. "By choice" rather than "by default", basically. Eventually... things will change, but for now I simply do not feel very comfortable with the idea right now. I have received plenty of offers throughout my life, but I have rejected all of them. Until my personal reasons are overcome, I have no intention, unless it is with someone I truly love, to break this pattern.

I'm 23, by the way. I also am not (really) ashamed of my status.

 

[Braonan]

ESCAPIST. Sup guys:].

Right, sex. More specifically, virginity.

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

Yes

Yes

15, parents were in Tahiti for a month, and my girl at the time spent most of that time with me. We both missed a months worth of school and we tried everything our youthful minds could think of.

50-?

People are free to do what they wish.

Yes I have, not always when we were committed, I know I have been foolish.

I love it, and I am a true giver.

 

[PrototypeC]

No to all of the above-I have no shame left in admitting that YES IT IS NOW MY TOP PRIORITY. The only reason I haven't just gone to some bar for a one-night stand (I'm confident and not a bad dancer so it wouldn't be that hard) is that I really don't want my first time to be like that. A concious decision from a desperate guy to just do the do with a stranger in some meaningless and loveless act? That wouldn't exactly be a proud memory, now would it?

My patience has just run out, OK? Porn is boring and stupid. It's just not scratching that particular itch anymore, and probably never did. I feel ashamed having to resort to it so often. Besides, I just don't want sex, I want love. Even if it doesn't last, even if it hurts and ends up one-sided, I don't even care anymore.

Back to the list, I obviously don't have a problem with sex before marriage and even sex between strangers, but it just... isn't my thing. Not from a moral high ground or anything. The first part I thought about for a while but I've already waited long enough, and I don't really fear religious consequences. I don't think pill without condom is safe enough for me, but I guess it would depend on how much I trusted the girl to not secretly be a psychopath. In terms of oral... apparently I'm in the minority in not having a crippling fear of vaginas, so I'd be cool with doing it. Of course I want to try getting it myself too, but it's not a big deal. I like giving presents more than receiving them, if you see what I mean. Hehe.

 

[WrongSprite]

oh and on the whole "oral" experiences, I'm sorry, but a good 4 or 5 girls i've been with, had no fucking idea what they were doing down there, it almost hurt more than it actually felt good, so ladies, if you think you have an idea on what you are doing, double check, because those are sensitive parts down there.

and for girls, I've given a couple girls oral, but you better be fucking trimmed like fresh cut grass down there or I'm not going near it. (or baby fresh, that's even more preferable)

Cannot agree with you more haha! One 'oral' encounter lasted...man I don't even know. Was so damn awkward, and she was too determined to give up.

Ah, bad times xD.

Thirded, shit just hurts if she's a tad eager O_O

Off topic, your avatar has been bugging me this entire thread, but I think I got it! Drop dead yes?

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

Thirded, shit just hurts if she's a tad eager O_O

Off topic, your avatar has been bugging me this entire thread, but I think I got it! Drop dead yes?

Damn straight><.
YES it is:]. Get all...literally all...my clothes from there.

Cuz am laik, all em0 n sceen n all tht.
-_-''.

BUT THEY DO DELICIOUS CLOTHES(L).

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

haha that is pretty damn awkward, she left immediately after because her parents were wondering where she was (lol =P ) so i went to finish after that.

haha hey, as long as the girl leaves happy, then i consider that a win for the day/night

well lucky you for that kind of ending, i hardly talk to my casual sexy's anymore =\

Oh GOD that's even worse haha!

Wheee for wins ^_^.

Haha yeah><. She stayed over that night though and my Dad went out the next day so we were like...why not xD.

Strange thing is, me and her have been mates for like, 4 years prior to that. And we meet up like nothing happened. It's great, in a way o.o. Gotta love the 21st century:'].

Also, 700h post. YAY:'].

haha oh well, i ended up happy before sleepy time so i was satisfied enough

haha dang, thats pretty cool, my last girlfriend (which i guess she is the first one i was actually dating when we had sex) me and her are actually really good friends, and get along just fine, so i know what you mean, and yes, since I've moved out i have been enjoying life 100x more than i used to, so 2011 ftw

 

[Palademon]

Virgin. Never been on a date. Never had a kiss. so I can skip a few questions.

Nothing wrong with casual sex, aslong as people know it is. I personally probably wouldn't be able to do it because I'm the jealous type and I'd get attached. I get annoyed when I see a decent girl that I'm not even interested in, with a guy I don't particularly like.

Probably would if they were on the pill and I trusted them.

Unlike some posts I cannot claim my virginity is due to lack of interest, but lack of anyone to be with. In my entire life, nobody but damaged girls on the internet have claimed feelings towards me, and I've only ever asked out one girl. The one girl I saw hope in. Didn't go well.
I'm a bit sick minded, but probably see sex as more personal than most people seem to.

And I'm 16 so I suppose in the grand scheme of things it's not very bad, despite the suprising amounts of underage sex that this thread has admitted to.

 

[ICantBelieveItGoesBoom]

Only got to manual sex so far. Not bad for 15?

I don't see anything wrong with casual sex and if they're on the pill I wouldn't feel the need to use a condom unless they asked me to.

 

[JUMBO PALACE]

I lost my virginity when I was 17 to my first girlfriend. We didn't use condoms for the 2 years we were together because she was on the pill. It was awesome.

I would definitely engage in casual sex. I find that most of the people who are against it are virgins :X

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

I can't think of why a condom would be uncomfortable for recieving - I don't really notice a difference. The reason I sometimes like to go without is because I've noticed that I am more careful when my partner has a condom on, cause I'm worried about breaking it. When my partner isn't wearing one, I tend to be more wild. I know it's silly - nothing I do down there is going to damage a condom - but I worry anyway.

But uncomfortable? I just don't see it. I also don't see how it could be uncomfortable for the guy either - wearing latex gloves doesn't make my hand hurt.

You can break a condom with the kind of SEX you have?

I've done pretty much everything imaginable with a condom on, and I've never broken squat. And then you say this... I'm intrigued. What are you doing that could break a condom?

Seriously, what? Its going to bother me all day and I want to try it![/quote]

^^;; I said it was a silly fear. Though, to be fair, I did break a bed once. Well, the box spring anyway. The frame and matress were fine.

But, as to what I was saying before, it's just an irrational thing. Rationally, I know there's no way I could break it, and if it's already damaged then no amount of care will stop it from breaking, but that doesn't stop me from being worried. I'm that good at being pointlessly paranoid. ^^

Also, condoms sometimes fall off, particularly after the male as finished once. I had a real scare once when the guy started with a condom, but it was missing by the time we were done. Aside from being really embarassing having to find it, I was also worried about possibly having just gotten pregnant. I didn't - thank the gods - but it did make me even more paranoid than I was before about condoms.

That said, I still use them when I'm not on the pill, or when the guy I'm with hasn't been tested lately. And I enjoy myself. I just enjoy myself slightly more when I can go without.

 

[The Afrodactyl]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter'? Yes, multiple times but with only a single partner.

Have you had sex? See above (5 or 6 times)

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? 15, and no.
How many people have you slept with? 1. Might be 2 before the end of the year (new gf! )

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? Bad. Don?t do it.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) No, I prefer to double up. Less risks that way.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? Over-rated. Also, mouths are disgusting.

 

[s0denone]

Only got to manual sex so far. Not bad for 15?

I don't see anything wrong with casual sex and if they're on the pill I wouldn't feel the need to use a condom unless they asked me to.

I assume the comment about the condom is in regards to casual sex.
Use a condom, mate. A lot of STDs floating around. Not worth the risk.

 

[Sicram]

Turning 20 and still a virgin in every way. How? The last 3+ years have been school with a mjority of classmates being guys. Why? I wouldn't be a virgin if I wouldn't be so damned "borderline" obsessed with having a first time with someone I really like. Also, me being a bit picky on the girls looks doesn't help much, either.

Also, haven't activly pursued the goal of loosing my virginity.

 

[ICantBelieveItGoesBoom]

Only got to manual sex so far. Not bad for 15?

I don't see anything wrong with casual sex and if they're on the pill I wouldn't feel the need to use a condom unless they asked me to.

I assume the comment about the condom is in regards to casual sex.
Use a condom, mate. A lot of STDs floating around. Not worth the risk.

Oh, I assumed it meant in a relationship. Then yeah I'd definitely use a condom, I probably wouldn't believe that they're on the pill either.