Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[crudus]

ESCAPIST. Sup guys:].

Right, sex. More specifically, virginity.

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

Yes
Yep
15, not really.
Don't think so.
two
Ok, that always ends badly but it fun during. I'm short-sighted so I'm fine with it.
I have before
I find it boring. It doesn't have the same energy as sex. It works as foreplay and that's it.

 

[xqxm]

Yes

Yes

I was 17. Despite that they won't admit it, that's pretty much standard for men in Sweden. The girl in question was 14, which sort of makes it illegal, but then again Sweden never enforces statuotory rape laws if there's consent. She sort of filled a void for me after i got dumped for being too sexually insecure, and consequently we shagged on the second date since i didn't want to make the same mistakes again.

Yes, they do.

Five.

I can't recommend it. Someone will inevitably grow feelings, and there's nothing harder than having a casual sex-mate leave you to be in a "real" relationship, if you're not dead inside that is. Besides, the Sex really isn't that great if the love isn't there.

Yes, my girlfriend is on the pill and i regularly engage in coitus with her.

It's okay. I can enjoy it a lot. Being on the receiving end makes me feel a bit bad though, since the girl leaving satisfied is kind of a big deal to me. Performing it and seeing her enjoy it is very rewarding.

If i can say something else, let it be this: Never have sex for the sake of having sex. It's not good at all. And never get so drunk that you'll wake up beside an ugly girl twice your age.

 

[DefunctTheory]

The guys are desperate. This girl is the ugliest, nastiest, most unappealing (Physically, morally AND mentally) woman I have ever met.

Seriously, she's so ugly you'd need to triple bag her, and so stupid you can hear air whistling through her ears. Someone once joked that I slept with her, and I actually got physically ill. I got ILL at even the thought of sleeping with her.

Hell, I feel sick now.

Haha, that shit gave me the chills.
All the more reason to wear a condom, and all the more arguably their own fault!

Perhaps so.

To those who perhaps still don't get the picture: I am at the point where I can eat my lunch, and have desert, while sitting in a morgue with a man who's been torn in half by an RPG and not feel queasy. This woman gives me the willies.

 

[astrav1]

19, still a virgin, but have had many a proposal made by many lovely, yet sadly skanky young women. I want to like casual sex myself but it just wouldn't feel right, as for other people if they both enjoy it and know it's casual, I have no reason for hatred. I wouldn't wear protection if we decided to have a child. As for oral sex, I'm sure it would be wonderful, but I would probably end up feeling bad or lazy if she was doing all the work.
I'm still a virgin because I am waiting for a woman I can love who also loves me.

 

[Aetera]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?
Yes to both.

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
I lost my virginity at 18, which was the final nail in the, "definitely gay, not bisexual" coffin. It was horrible. D: I lost my sex-with-a-girl virginity the next year.

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
I think that they do, but I'm not sure. We haven't talked about it directly, but it's been implied.

How many people have you slept with?
Three.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
I think that it's fine, as long as both people are aware that it's just casual sex.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
Uh, I don't think that pregnancy is an issue with me, so yeah. xD

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
I like it.

 

[MassiveGeek]

I've not had any other type of sex except for the regular sex, as I suppose it can be refered to, and I've had sex with two people, one of them being my current boyfriend.
I lost my virginity at age 16, no regrets. I'm not going to tell you about it, because it isn't very interesting. Yes my parents know, I keep no secrets from them.
I don't have anything against other people who can handle it having casual sex, but it's not for me - besides I have a boyfriend to have sex with, I don't need to have casual sex.
Me and my boyfriend have an agreement - no oral sex, at least not in a while. We both aren't very interested in it or find it particularly appealing. It was his suggestion and I agree. But if you like it, good for you!
I'm in a distance relationship so I don't feel it's necessary to go on pills, I already take medicine for my diagnose. And condoms are the safest way, and they're not at all as much trouble as people make them out to be. At least haven't been for me.

... Nothing else to say really. Maybe, that having sex is to me an act of really being close to someone, it's a big step from just regular cuddling and I think it's important that it feels right, wheter it's just 'casual' or in a relationship. Don't rush it just to have it as quickly as possible - it's a lot more lovely if you have it when you're comfortable having it.

 

[Lizmichi]

Lets seem I was 19 when I lost is, I'm 21 now.
Yes I had sex.
First time was like.... well not amazing. Being a girl and having her first time sucks ass.
Hell my family still doesn't know and they really don't need to.
I have only had sex with one person but I'm not with him anymore so meh.
The idea of casual sex just isn't my thing. To me sex is to be saved for someone you love and trust deeply. Having sex just to have it is pointless.
Outside of marriage yes I would have unprotected sex if I was engaged to them first. I have once and it ended up as a pregnancy scare.
Oral is fine by me but I'll still take sex over oral. Sex is more intimate and close then any other as far as I see it.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Your boyfriend is so fucking lucky.

As for the losing a condom thing.... wait, what? Condoms can fall off?

He isn't using Magnums to make himself feel better, is he?

No, normal size.

Basically, he "finished" once, but I wasn't done yet, so he stayed put and we went again. When we were done, he wasn't wearing the condom anymore. It was because of the slight size change between time one and two.

Basically, when we kept going, I pulled it off of him and it got lost. At the time it was terrifying and embarassing, but looking back on it, it's kinda funny now. ^^;;

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

I personally did it so young because my girlfriend at the time was 2 years older than me, so I thought why not.

Mate, never, ever listen to the pressures. Seriously. Save it for someone special, okay? :]

 

[spartan1077]

This thread makes me sad <<

Me too

To answer all the questions...No...and casual sex doesn't affect me but personally I wouldn't want to do it...
I'm surprised how many people here lost their virginity when they were 15/16...and now I feel lonely.

 

[DefunctTheory]

Your boyfriend is so fucking lucky.

As for the losing a condom thing.... wait, what? Condoms can fall off?

He isn't using Magnums to make himself feel better, is he?

No, normal size.

Basically, he "finished" once, but I wasn't done yet, so he stayed put and we went again. When we were done, he wasn't wearing the condom anymore. It was because of the slight size change between time one and two.

Basically, when we kept going, I pulled it off of him and it got lost. At the time it was terrifying and embarrassing, but looking back on it, it's kinda funny now. ^^;;

Ah.

Pro Tip: Condoms are, in general, on use only objects. Not one sexual session, but one 'ejaculation' per condom.

You're supposed to replace them as you blow loads into them, is what I'm saying. Even if it didn't fall off, chances are he would have been pumping the stuff out the base of the condom every stroke.

This thread makes me sad <<

Me too

To answer all the questions...No...and casual sex doesn't affect me but personally I wouldn't want to do it...
I'm surprised how many people here lost their virginity when they were 15/16...and now I feel lonely.

Don't worry, the majority of those people are lying.

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

...and my post above was a quote of someone, and I can't edit it.
SOMETHINGS MESSED UP O__________O

This thread makes me sad <<

Me too

To answer all the questions...No...and casual sex doesn't affect me but personally I wouldn't want to do it...
I'm surprised how many people here lost their virginity when they were 15/16...and now I feel lonely.

Maaate c'mon sillypus:]. You're still young, if the age on your profile is anything to go by.
Just look forward to it, yeah:]. And until then, just...take care of your own business. Just don't feel pressured into doing something you might regret after, yuh?

 

[spartan1077]

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Well, if my school is anything to go by, I should have already done something more than kissing...
*is still lonely*

 

[PrototypeC]

This thread makes me sad <<

Me too

To answer all the questions...No...and casual sex doesn't affect me but personally I wouldn't want to do it...
I'm surprised how many people here lost their virginity when they were 15/16...and now I feel lonely.

This is supposed to be my year for a lot of good things... only right now there's no relationship and if July hits and I turn 21 (technically) then I swear to GOD... I'll be very sad. Personally and from an outside perspective.

It would be different if it was a personal choice not to, but it isn't! I want to! I've wanted to since 11 years old for Christ-sake!

 

[ripdajacker]

I was 15 when I lost my virginity, and that's quite normal in Denmark as far as I have experienced.

To answer all the questions:

Yes I've had sex.

My parents knew not many months after I started having sex.

Yes I have done it without a condom throughout several relationships and a few random one-nighters.

Casual sex is really a 50/50, if both parties can manage keeping it casual then I say: go for it. The moral issues are the way of the past, at least here.

The first encounter was with a girlfriend, it was quite ackward and not that good. We since had sex regulary for a couple of months.

Oral sex is, like casual sex, a 50/50. If she knows her stuff it can be great, otherwise it's just.. meh.

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

Well, if my school is anything to go by, I should have already done something more than kissing...
*is still lonely*

There is no 'should', you fool:].

Besides, if it's that much of a problem for you, make it your priority to get out there, socialise, meet some girls, go to some parties, just get your thing on, man!

 

[DefunctTheory]

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Well, if my school is anything to go by, I should have already done something more than kissing...
*is still lonely*

Still wouldn't worry about it.

Even if everyone is doing it in school (I assure you, most of them are lying too), they all blow at it, and you're just not missing out on much.

 

[TheScottishFella]

...and my post above was a quote of someone, and I can't edit it.
SOMETHINGS MESSED UP O__________O

This thread makes me sad <<

Me too

To answer all the questions...No...and casual sex doesn't affect me but personally I wouldn't want to do it...
I'm surprised how many people here lost their virginity when they were 15/16...and now I feel lonely.

Maaate c'mon sillypus:]. You're still young, if the age on your profile is anything to go by.
Just look forward to it, yeah:]. And until then, just...take care of your own business. Just don't feel pressured into doing something you might regret after, yuh?

Yeah it was my post if anyone comes across this. But you are quite right however I suppose this sort of thing was expected on a thread like this.

 

[spartan1077]

Besides, if it's that much of a problem for you, make it your priority to get out there, socialise, meet some girls, go to some parties, just get your thing on, man!

And that's the reason why I haven't done anything. For one, I'm more interested in men which is frowned upon by a LOT of people, and I'd rather not go to parties and watch a bunch of wasted and stoned people...although I'd get something from it, I'd feel bad for taking advantage of someone.

Even if everyone is doing it in school (I assure you, most of them are lying too), they all blow at it, and you're just not missing out on much.

I hope you're right :/
But still...
<---lonely

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

Even if everyone is doing it in school (I assure you, most of them are lying too), they all blow at it, and you're just not missing out on much.

I hope you're right :/
But still...
<---lonely

Bollocks. Well mate, all I can say is just...wait until the moment comes, okay? And you know, accursed couldn't be more right, I promise you.

Your time'll come, and you'll meet someone special kay:].

BESIDES, don't be lonely; we're here for you yeah>:].