Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[DefunctTheory]

I know it sucks but in the end you will find someone I am lonely but I tough it out think of other things, play game and spend some alone time in my room . Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

What, masturbate?
Noones said the word, but it has been implied. At the end of the day, you'll always be there for yourself.
The subject of masturbation is also kinda taboo tbh o.o. Don't get why.

While I would never share or let on that I masturbate to school chums or family members I am not ashamed of it everyone does it at one point or another and doesn't bother me. I have had someone walk in on me but we had a small talk about it and never talked about it again was I embarrassed? a little but I knew that they would never tell anyone else but my family is a little messed up because some family members view it as wrong but if I wanted to I could confront them with their internet history but I don't because it is what I do and what they do there are some people who view it as a joke and feel the need to mock people who do it but in the end you are probably the best person because you know what you want. But my attitude is "If it feels good do it."

Everyone knows I beat off. Its usually part of my end of the day farewell.

For example: This is what I said to everyone when i went home Thursday:

"Fuck you guys, I'm going home to recklessly masturbate. Yeah, recklessly; without regard for the safety of myself or other."

Friend: 'So your going to get chaffed and bleed all over the place?'

Me: "If I had a plan, it wouldn't be reckless. We'll see what happens."

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

While I would never share or let on that I masturbate to school chums or family members I am not ashamed of it everyone does it at one point or another and doesn't bother me. I have had someone walk in on me but we had a small talk about it and never talked about it again was I embarrassed? a little but I knew that they would never tell anyone else but my family is a little messed up because some family members view it as wrong but if I wanted to I could confront them with their internet history but I don't because it is what I do and what they do there are some people who view it as a joke and feel the need to mock people who do it but in the end you are probably the best person because you know what you want. But my attitude is "If it feels good do it."

LOL, don't worry about it, I'm pretty sure almost everyone does. Also, it's so not wrong; it's perfectly natural in my opinion. Besides, guy's need to release sexual tension somehow, right?!

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

Goddamn I feel so horrible having to double post but my editing is all messed up.

Everyone knows I beat off. Its usually part of my end of the day farewell.

For example: This is what I said to everyone when i went home Thursday:

"Fuck you guys, I'm going home to recklessly masturbate. Yeah, recklessly; without regard for the safety of myself or other."

Friend: 'So your going to get chaffed and bleed all over the place?'

Me: "If I had a plan, it wouldn't be reckless. We'll see what happens."

That...was damn hilarious xD. We always say 'furious', but I'm gonna be using reckless too now, haha.

Pure genius mate<3.

 

[TheScottishFella]

I know it sucks but in the end you will find someone I am lonely but I tough it out think of other things, play game and spend some alone time in my room . Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

What, masturbate?
Noones said the word, but it has been implied. At the end of the day, you'll always be there for yourself.
The subject of masturbation is also kinda taboo tbh o.o. Don't get why.

While I would never share or let on that I masturbate to school chums or family members I am not ashamed of it everyone does it at one point or another and doesn't bother me. I have had someone walk in on me but we had a small talk about it and never talked about it again was I embarrassed? a little but I knew that they would never tell anyone else but my family is a little messed up because some family members view it as wrong but if I wanted to I could confront them with their internet history but I don't because it is what I do and what they do there are some people who view it as a joke and feel the need to mock people who do it but in the end you are probably the best person because you know what you want. But my attitude is "If it feels good do it."

If you don't know what you enjoy, how will you ever be able to tell your sexual partners? The best sex, on a purely physical level, is the sex you want. Please your partner, obviously, but make sure you are gratified also!

As such, masturbation is key. It's healthy (especially for males), and good... research.

Why especially for males?

 

[Trivun]

Spoiler: UBER-SNIP

Finally, I have a little comment to make regarding casual sex, that may seem a little controversial, but I want to know what other people's opinions are. Not sure if it's common outside the UK, though apparently it's pretty common in the UK, but dogging is something that's seen by most of the public as a sick, vile thing that only weirdos and perverts do. Dogging, for those who don't know, is a meeting of various different people, usually with cars, at a secluded spot outdoors (often down a country lane or in empty, sheltered car parks), usually in the middle of the night so no-one happens to wander along and be offended, and then the people dogging proceed to have casual sex, mostly in the cars. Very common among gay guys, straight men, and swinger couples. I just wanted to know what other people's thoughts are on this? Personally, I have two opinions. Those who practice swinging in the daytime risk people seeing them, and often risk young kids or the elderly seeing, and that's something pretty much unforgivable. So I don't agree with that at all. But regarding proper swinging, at night, it's almost always done in places where there is almost no chance of anyone stumbling across them. It's all consensual, and there is almost zero disturbance to anyone in the area, most of whom won't even know what's happening. So as far as that's concerned, where's the problem? If people want to have sex outdoors and there's no chance that they can be seen, then surely it shouldn't be a problem, a least until someone sees them. The legal issue is pretty cloudy, because public sex in the UK is illegal if someone can see it and is offended, but dogging itself, and meeting for sex outdoors if no-one is offended, are perfectly fine. Usually the police only start arresting people if anyone starts complaining, otherwise they leave the doggers alone. So what does The Escapist think about all this?

...Never knew what it was. I FEEL EDUCATED.
At the end of the day, as long as it's away from kids, and everyone wants to be apart of it...then it's fine, in my eyes. Might add that into the OP, if you don't mind.

Marzipan?

That made me laugh so hard, thank you xD.

Go ahead, I'd be honoured to have you add it to the OP

 

[Amphoteric]

I haven't properly talked to a girl in about 6 years... Going to a Boys Grammar School and being socially intraverted does that.

 

[Stasisesque]

I know it sucks but in the end you will find someone I am lonely but I tough it out think of other things, play game and spend some alone time in my room . Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

What, masturbate?
Noones said the word, but it has been implied. At the end of the day, you'll always be there for yourself.
The subject of masturbation is also kinda taboo tbh o.o. Don't get why.

While I would never share or let on that I masturbate to school chums or family members I am not ashamed of it everyone does it at one point or another and doesn't bother me. I have had someone walk in on me but we had a small talk about it and never talked about it again was I embarrassed? a little but I knew that they would never tell anyone else but my family is a little messed up because some family members view it as wrong but if I wanted to I could confront them with their internet history but I don't because it is what I do and what they do there are some people who view it as a joke and feel the need to mock people who do it but in the end you are probably the best person because you know what you want. But my attitude is "If it feels good do it."

If you don't know what you enjoy, how will you ever be able to tell your sexual partners? The best sex, on a purely physical level, is the sex you want. Please your partner, obviously, but make sure you are gratified also!

As such, masturbation is key. It's healthy (especially for males), and good... research.

Why especially for males?

There is scientific evidence (http://menshealth.about.com/cs/prostatehealth/a/ejaculate_ptate.htm) to suggest regular ejaculation can help prevent prostate cancer.

 

[DefunctTheory]

I know it sucks but in the end you will find someone I am lonely but I tough it out think of other things, play game and spend some alone time in my room . Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

What, masturbate?
Noones said the word, but it has been implied. At the end of the day, you'll always be there for yourself.
The subject of masturbation is also kinda taboo tbh o.o. Don't get why.

While I would never share or let on that I masturbate to school chums or family members I am not ashamed of it everyone does it at one point or another and doesn't bother me. I have had someone walk in on me but we had a small talk about it and never talked about it again was I embarrassed? a little but I knew that they would never tell anyone else but my family is a little messed up because some family members view it as wrong but if I wanted to I could confront them with their internet history but I don't because it is what I do and what they do there are some people who view it as a joke and feel the need to mock people who do it but in the end you are probably the best person because you know what you want. But my attitude is "If it feels good do it."

If you don't know what you enjoy, how will you ever be able to tell your sexual partners? The best sex, on a purely physical level, is the sex you want. Please your partner, obviously, but make sure you are gratified also!

As such, masturbation is key. It's healthy (especially for males), and good... research.

Why especially for males?

Males build up more stress (By average) than females from lack of sex. This can lead to aggression, loss of concentration, and reckless behavior. Masturbation can be used to avoid this.

There's plenty of other reasons, but this is a big one.

There is scientific evidence (http://menshealth.about.com/cs/prostatehealth/a/ejaculate_ptate.htm) to suggest regular ejaculation can help prevent prostate cancer.

Stuff like this.

 

[TheScottishFella]

I know it sucks but in the end you will find someone I am lonely but I tough it out think of other things, play game and spend some alone time in my room . Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

What, masturbate?
Noones said the word, but it has been implied. At the end of the day, you'll always be there for yourself.
The subject of masturbation is also kinda taboo tbh o.o. Don't get why.

While I would never share or let on that I masturbate to school chums or family members I am not ashamed of it everyone does it at one point or another and doesn't bother me. I have had someone walk in on me but we had a small talk about it and never talked about it again was I embarrassed? a little but I knew that they would never tell anyone else but my family is a little messed up because some family members view it as wrong but if I wanted to I could confront them with their internet history but I don't because it is what I do and what they do there are some people who view it as a joke and feel the need to mock people who do it but in the end you are probably the best person because you know what you want. But my attitude is "If it feels good do it."

If you don't know what you enjoy, how will you ever be able to tell your sexual partners? The best sex, on a purely physical level, is the sex you want. Please your partner, obviously, but make sure you are gratified also!

As such, masturbation is key. It's healthy (especially for males), and good... research.

Why especially for males?

There is scientific evidence (http://menshealth.about.com/cs/prostatehealth/a/ejaculate_ptate.htm) to suggest regular ejaculation can help prevent prostate cancer.

The more you know.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

What, masturbate?

While I would never share or let on that I masturbate to school chums or family members I am not ashamed of it everyone does it at one point or another and doesn't bother me. But my attitude is "If it feels good do it."

Oh, the word was Masturbate. Damn - all my guesses were wrong.

Yeah, sure I masturbate. It's good fun, particularly when pared with a nice new romance novel. Or a nice old romance novel. Or a lesbian detective mystery (yes, this is a real genre).

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

What, masturbate?

While I would never share or let on that I masturbate to school chums or family members I am not ashamed of it everyone does it at one point or another and doesn't bother me. But my attitude is "If it feels good do it."

Oh, the word was Masturbate. Damn - all my guesses were wrong.

Yeah, sure I masturbate. It's good fun, particularly when pared with a nice new romance novel. Or a nice old romance novel. Or a lesbian detective mystery (yes, this is a real genre).

Don't worry, I had a hard time guessing too:/ DAMN YOU CONNALL, AND YOUR RIDDLES!

Lesbian Detective Mystery.
There are no words xD <3.

 

[searron]

--Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Oh yes.
--Have you had sex?
Yup
--How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
I was 18, it was thanksgiving break and I was home from college. The girl I was dating and I were in the mall, she grabbed my hand and led me to this dingy back hall way of said mall. And from there you can figure the rest.
--Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
I'm going to a assume yes, but I try to avoid talking to parents about my sex life. I'm 25.
--How many people have you slept with?
Some where in the high 20's
--What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
I love it!
--Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
It depends on the girl, and the relationship in question. If we are dating, then yes I do it. A one-night stand: no.
--What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
I love giving it. As far as receiving it: In theory I love it, but in reality, I have had far to many girls use their teeth to even think of asking for it.

 

[duchaked]

one person, first at 18
guess I'll leave it at that

 

[CosmicCommander]

Meh, I'm still in schooling, so I'm not up for it yet- then again, I'd bet the average age people here lose their virginity s 14; I live in a rough area. I don't want to really have sex for a long time- it complicates matters intensely, and I'm extremely Conservative on these sorts of matters- I believe in it occurring with in Love/Wedlock; maybe I've got a subconscious correlation between debauchery and stagnation/poverty/failure from here.

Anyway, even if I wanted to, I probably couldn't- I'm far from attractive, I'd probably never be able to get hints, I'm guessing I'd be bad at it, and I'm a pain to talk to.

On Casual Sex; I don't like it- I've saw it and it's effects all around me- the promiscuity, the phenomenal rates of STIs, the lack of moral backbone, the general feelings people who commit it possess; no, I'd perceive it as a bad thing. Note that these are morals apply to me only, I'd never prevent anyone from doing it- my entire belief system revolves around being laissez faire on other people's actions; I just think that committing it harms not only the individuals who are directly in the act, but others around them.

I'm fine on teenage/underage sex, surprisingly- maturity is a relative thing, after all. As long as the parties are committed, loving, in a stable environment, and mature, it's fine. A good friend of mine, a year my junior, is in an active sexual relationship of the qualifications- and he surprisingly shares the same sentiments as I.

 

[biggles1]

in the UK the age of consent is 16, I lost my virginity to my girlfriend when I was 15 and 10 months.....
She lost hers with me too, so it was an experience for both of us.
We are still together 8 months on

 

[Mahha]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.) Yes
Have you had sex? Yes
How old were you when you first did? 17
Wanna tell us about your first experience? It wasn't that interesting
How many people have you slept with? 2
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? I have no opinion... Personally I don't really have the need to engage in sexual activity so there's no need for casual sex
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
Depends on the girl, I guess
Better than normal sex? I dunno.
Does it repulse you? The whole sex business is pretty repulsive to begin with.
Also, do you masturbate? Not really. If not, why not? I don't feel the need to do so.

 

[MonstersInMyCloset]

im extremely surprised so many people lost it when they were like 14 or 15

to me thats a bit extreme.

i have a hard time believing that all of you guys are intellectual prodigies and were mature enough to know what you were doing or what the consequences were.

the later you lose it the better, i say.

 

[The Ambrosian]

As i'm 15, I wonder if it's against forum rules if I said i'm not a virgin (Not saying i'm not, just pondering) as the age of consent is 16 in the UK.

 

[Nimcha]

Or a lesbian detective mystery (yes, this is a real genre).

Well I've learned something today!

 

[JochemDude]

I lost my virginity when I was 16 in a tent at a weekend long metal festival. It was my first girlfriend (We where together for like 2 years) and it still is my girlfriend today. We were already halfway through a full weekend of headbanging and drinking lots of cheap festival we started to feel very tired and went to our tent's that my brother had brought us only to find out that he didn't brought her tent... We started making out end from one came the other. We had made out countless times before, but never really went all the way. So yeah in that small hot sweaty tent (intended to only fit one person)I lost my virginity with Iron Maiden playing The Trooper in the background. I have a very open relation with her, I am totally fine with her having sex with some else and so is she. She is not into giving oral sex, I'm totally into receiving it, but hey you can't have everything. I personally don't mind doing it and it is often a kind of foreplay for us. We don't use condoms all the time, if we are going out then she wears one ( you know the female version of a condom ) and always have a few handy as well. She used to use the pill, but her medicine for ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder same as myself) don't really mix well together.
Anything else... Yes actually here's a link to a you tube vid from the almost dead on time I lost my virginity http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W4GZE6I_zac