Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[Redlin5_v1legacy]

No sex for me yet. Not only am I against it based on my religion but also because I do not see myself as a good father nor do I have the desire to be a father yet. It will happen, just not yet.

[sub]I'm 19 btw.[/sub]

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

im extremely surprised so many people lost it when they were like 14 or 15

to me thats a bit extreme.

i have a hard time believing that all of you guys are intellectual prodigies and were mature enough to know what you were doing or what the consequences were.

the later you lose it the better, i say.

Maturity is relative, and as long as both parties don't regret doing it at a young age, I don't see what the problem is, eh?
A 14 year old can be a lot wiser than a 24 year old as far as sex is concerned sometimes, right?

I did at 14, and I'm very mature in my opinion. I knew exactly what I was doing, I don't regret it for a minute, and there were no consequences:]

As i'm 15, I wonder if it's against forum rules if I said i'm not a virgin (Not saying i'm not, just pondering) as the age of consent is 16 in the UK.

No, I don't think it is:].

 

[Nimcha]

No sex for me. Not only am I against it based on my religion but also because I do not see myself as a good father nor do I have the desire to be a father yet. It will happen, just not yet.

Out of curiosity, which religion would that be?

 

[DefunctTheory]

Yes.
She saw this porno movie and wanted to "try something".
It was weird, hurt at times and was waaay too brief.
I didn't really get to do anything; It was all her.

I thank God that all girls aren't like her!

I love when women take over, but they need to be careful.

one wrong move and SNAP your twig is busted.

Also... well, too late now. never, ever try anything from porn. EVER.

No sex for me. Not only am I against it based on my religion but also because I do not see myself as a good father nor do I have the desire to be a father yet. It will happen, just not yet.

Out of curiosity, which religion would that be?

Your religion is against the propagation of the species?

This is new.

or do you mean sex WITHOUT propagation (Which, I would guess, means your Catholic or a Witness)?

 

[The Funslinger]

Yeah, under 16

just the one person, a few times

went through the bases, used a condom due to easy access.

I was one of the first people in my generation (for lack of a better word) round here to do it. A lot of guys round here seem to be very dickheaded/cocky/stupid/obsessive about trying to get laid. I don't really feel I have that problem beyond the fact that it's been a while. I guess once you've done it, it's the initial experience done and you can be more relaxed about it.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Don't worry, I had a hard time guessing too:/ DAMN YOU CONNALL, AND YOUR RIDDLES!

Lesbian Detective Mystery.
There are no words xD <3.

Mystery novels about a lesbian detective. The author I'm most familiar with is Katherine Forest, although most of her books are from the 90s and out of print now.

The mysteries usually revolve around the gay/lesbian community, so they can be a bit outside some people's comfort zones. Also, the mysteries are a little short (they tend to be novellas rather than novels). Still, I like em. But then, I like mystery novels in general.

And we're really moving away from the topic at hand. Hm.

Oh, I know. Since some new items were added to the OP.

No, I didn't tell my parents. Particularly since I didn't want them to know I was dating another girl.

 

[The Ambrosian]

As i'm 15, I wonder if it's against forum rules if I said i'm not a virgin (Not saying i'm not, just pondering) as the age of consent is 16 in the UK.

No, I don't think it is:].

Then I lost it at 14, don't regret it. Feel slightly ashamed to tell people though as it was pretty early. I'm not that type of person either.
People expect me to not do all that well with girls but I do alright, but it's getting dangerously close to bragging so i'll move on.

Yeah, but I wouldn't change it if I had the chance so take that age of consent.

(No flaming for my age please D

 

[AgDr_ODST]

HEHE BOOBIES X3...jk
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Have you had a 'sexual encounter'?
nope Im a virgin
Have you had sex?
see above
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
see question 1, nothing to tell
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
nope
How many people have you slept with?
0
What are your views on 'casual sex'?
not in favor of it personally. im looking for a lasting/committed relationship thats about more than sex(yes I am looking for 'love')
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
nope, infact just to be safe I'd use two
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
I like the idea and I'll go down on her if she will 'do the same' to me(state of her area may turn this into a no). don't know yet. no
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
yes I do...makes me feel dirty
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
to any girl's who have experienced it. whats so great about Anal?

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

Mystery novels about a lesbian detective. The author I'm most familiar with is Katherine Forest, although most of her books are from the 90s and out of print now.

The mysteries usually revolve around the gay/lesbian community, so they can be a bit outside some people's comfort zones. Also, the mysteries are a little short (they tend to be novellas rather than novels). Still, I like em. But then, I like mystery novels in general.

And we're really moving away from the topic at hand. Hm.

Oh, I know. Since some new items were added to the OP.

No, I didn't tell my parents. Particularly since I didn't want them to know I was dating another girl.

Totally might give one a read haha!

Yeah xD. If there are any other topics you reckon I should stick in there, lemme know.

Do your parents now know you've been with girls?

 

[jamesworkshop]

Virgin, so most questions are unaswerable or hypothetical

Why does the internet insist on reminding me of the sex i'm not having.

 

[MonstersInMyCloset]

im extremely surprised so many people lost it when they were like 14 or 15

to me thats a bit extreme.

i have a hard time believing that all of you guys are intellectual prodigies and were mature enough to know what you were doing or what the consequences were.

the later you lose it the better, i say.

Maturity is relative, and as long as both parties don't regret doing it at a young age, I don't see what the problem is, eh?
A 14 year old can be a lot wiser than a 24 year old as far as sex is concerned sometimes, right?

I did at 14, and I'm very mature in my opinion. I knew exactly what I was doing, I don't regret it for a minute, and there were no consequences:]

As i'm 15, I wonder if it's against forum rules if I said i'm not a virgin (Not saying i'm not, just pondering) as the age of consent is 16 in the UK.

No, I don't think it is:].

yeah a 14 year old smart kid could be more mature than a 24 year old dumb person. but on the whole, id say its consistent that a younger developing body and mind approaches things a certain way.

 

[WOPR]

No, 17.

I've never been asked or remotely considered as a sexual or romantic possibility for anyone in my entire life.

This has turned me into a bitter, agoraphobic bastard with a superiority complex.

Why lie?

Dang you sound like me
only a year younger

I try and keep happy but people seem to get mad at me when I am happy asking me what's wrong with me

then when I'm a dick they call me a douche (which is completely different, people!)

either way, I'm sure you'll find someone eventually.

 

[michiehoward]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' Yes.
Have you had sex? Yes.
How old were you when you first did? I was about to turn 14.

Wanna tell us about your first experience? To be perfectly frank it sucked, I had more pleasure with the bathtub edge at that time. And I tell this to any young person, and this scenario applies to most people, you generally for the first time have sex with someone close to your own age 9 time out of times 10 IT WILL SUCK, why lack of know how, not knowing your body or that of the opposite sex. Teens are selfish creatures at heart (sorry but I was one too) so the idea of satisfying your partner might not occur to them.

Do your parents know? I'm 27, and my parents still don't know what age I lost my virginity.

How many people have you slept with? 8 sex partners, if we include all sex acts ummm more then 8.

What are your views on 'casual sex' As a woman who has in the past enjoyed sex without real relationships not really in the position to poo poo it.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Yes I have done with 2 boyfriends but only because I knew their sexual history.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? LMAO back in the day when I lacked brain power and reasoning I thought I would never give a man oral sex, thought it was below my dignity and demeaning. Well its all about your state of mind, and suffice it to say I no longer agree with my 15, 16, 17 year old self.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? No, no need.

...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

I would but I would sound all preachy about knowing yourself, learn from yourself and partners, giving can be better then receiving, listen and appreciate your partners desires, while letting them know what you will or can do. And always when finding yourself faced with the situation of having a sexual encounter PAUSE AND THINK, will you smile at yourself in the mirror the next day.

 

[WOPR]

Virgin, so most questions are unaswerable or hypothetical

Why does the internet insist on reminding me of the sex i'm not having.

Same, but that picture just made it all worth it

 

[Thundero13]

No (Because i'm underage, and gay so it's unlikely i'll find someone to have sex with.)
No (Isn't this the same as question 1?)
N/A (Because i'm a virgin.)
N/A (Because i'm a virgin.)
0
I wouldn't mind doing it but the first time I have sex I want it to be with someone I love.
N/A (Because i'm gay, but if I wasn't then I wouldn't.)
I'd try oral sex just like i'd try the other types, but I suppose being gay that makes this question a bit different.
Yes (But the internet is the only place I would reveal this.)
Wouldn't mind having sex if I had a boyfriend who didn't mind either but being gay and 14 it's unlikely for that opportunity to come around anytime soon.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Yeah xD. If there are any other topics you reckon I should stick in there, lemme know.

Do your parents now know you've been with girls?

I told my sister right after it happened.

My Mother I told when I was 19.

My Dad... I told later. Much later. Mostly becuase I couldn't hide it anymore. I wanted to bring my girlfriend home for christmas and, well, there really isn't any way to hide that.

 

[Redlin5_v1legacy]

No sex for me. Not only am I against it based on my religion but also because I do not see myself as a good father nor do I have the desire to be a father yet. It will happen, just not yet.

Out of curiosity, which religion would that be?

The religion of common sense.

No sex for me yet. Not only am I against it based on my religion but also because I do not see myself as a good father nor do I have the desire to be a father yet. It will happen, just not yet.

Out of curiosity, which religion would that be?

Your religion is against the propagation of the species?

Ah, I'm not against sexual reproduction, I'm against the mindlessness misuse of it. I believe there is more to a romantic relationship than sex and that one should not lightly jump into something that may produce a kid.

I will edit my original post to include that "yet."

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

To be perfectly frank it sucked, I had more pleasure with the bathtub edge at that time. And I tell this to any young person, and this scenario applies to most people, you generally for the first time have sex with someone close to your own age 9 time out of times 10 IT WILL SUCK, why lack of know how, not knowing your body or that of the opposite sex. Teens are selfish creatures at heart (sorry but I was one too) so the idea of satisfying your partner might not occur to them.

And always when finding yourself faced with the situation of having a sexual encounter PAUSE AND THINK, will you smile at yourself in the mirror the next day.

A genuinely great bit of advice:]. Wisesoul, you:].