Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[Bara_no_Hime]

Basically, he "finished" once, but I wasn't done yet, so he stayed put and we went again. When we were done, he wasn't wearing the condom anymore. It was because of the slight size change between time one and two.

Basically, when we kept going, I pulled it off of him and it got lost. At the time it was terrifying and embarrassing, but looking back on it, it's kinda funny now. ^^;;

Ah.

Pro Tip: Condoms are, in general, on use only objects. Not one sexual session, but one 'ejaculation' per condom.

You're supposed to replace them as you blow loads into them, is what I'm saying. Even if it didn't fall off, chances are he would have been pumping the stuff out the base of the condom every stroke.

^^;; Yeah, that was how I learned that very important lesson. In the years since, I have been far more careful.

 

[Willwillwritehiswill]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)

Yep

Have you had sex?

Oh yes.

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?

21. Semi random encounter. Both of us were pretty clueless but he was this cute-as-anything Asian guy and I couldn't resist.

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)

My dad doesn't know I have sex with guys, if that counts.

How many people have you slept with?

Three. One i'd much rather forget about.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?

Nothing wrong with it. We all have urges, and if they can be released in safe, random bouts, then so be it.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

No. I always wear a condom. Always. I'm wearing one right now.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?

I'm not too keen on receiving oral sex (or giving for that matter) Don't know how to describe it. I can never really get in to it.

 

[A Raging Emo]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.) Yes.

Have you had sex? Yes, I have.

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? I was 14. We both did love each other very much, and we did it a lot after that.

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.) Yes.

How many people have you slept with? Three.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? Personally, I'm fine with it. I have had casual sex, and it was good fun Obviously).

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) Yes, and I have, although I'm not proud of it, because she wasn't even on the pill.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? I'm fine with it, although normal sex is better.

 

[TheScottishFella]

Besides, if it's that much of a problem for you, make it your priority to get out there, socialise, meet some girls, go to some parties, just get your thing on, man!

And that's the reason why I haven't done anything. For one, I'm more interested in men which is frowned upon by a LOT of people, and I'd rather not go to parties and watch a bunch of wasted and stoned people...although I'd get something from it, I'd feel bad for taking advantage of someone.

Even if everyone is doing it in school (I assure you, most of them are lying too), they all blow at it, and you're just not missing out on much.

I hope you're right :/
But still...
<---lonely

I know it sucks but in the end you will find someone I am lonely but I tough it out think of other things, play game and spend some alone time in my room . Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

 

[spartan1077]

I know it sucks but in the end you will find someone I am lonely but I tough it out think of other things, play game and spend some alone time in my room . Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

That's what I do
Still lonely but games can stop that <.<
And what M word? Masculinity? Marzipan?

 

[saruman31]

I get the impression that not just on this forum but in general that people lie a shitload about sex

QFT

 

[Trivun]

ESCAPIST. Sup guys:].

Right, sex. More specifically, virginity.

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?

Okay, seriously guys, let's keep all of this mature and within forum rules, okay:]..

And as OP, it's only fair if I answer myself:

Spoiler: ...(edited)

Yes, I lost it when I was 14. I'm a very jokey kind of person, and we had a good laugh with it ^_^. Was really lovely, too. Have no regrets, and yeah, it's a memory I'll always hold close to my heart.
2, and I have had sexual experiences with 4.
Absolutely fine, as long as you have no regrets.
Yes, I have. Which was probably risky business.
In my opinion, oral sex is a lot less hassle, and it can feel better on some occasions. And I don't mind giving it to girls as long as...that area is well maintained, let's say.

So there you go, and once again, let's keep this civil:].

Edit: Mkay, there's all this debate about oral sex and all that. So basically, I'll add a 'sexual encounter' option in to the poll, and the little question prompts(Y)
...and it won't let me add it in to the poll. Oh well:].

Edit2:Alsooo, please take people's feelings into account, and show respect for their morals and opinions on certain things, kay:].

ANOTHEREDIT: Blargh, sorry about my British slang. Basically, as in 'slept with', I mean had sex with, not literally sleeping with xD.

ANDAGAAAAIN:Right, to cater to our lesbian community- just keep it to first sexual experience, then. Seen a lot of debating about what 'lesbian sex' actually is, so let's keep it simple and broad:].

...><:Also, please feel free to let me know what else I should add in to this OP.

I've had oral sex before, but never full sex. So yes, technically, I'm still a virgin, I've merely managed to reach third base but no further. With regards to casual sex, I personally want to lose my virginity when I'm in a proper committed relationship, but aside from that, I have no problem with casual sex, provided that everyone is willing and consensual, and no cheating is taking place. If someone wants to have casual sex and they're in a relationship, I see that as being fine too, provided that their partner knows and is okay with it. Swinging, and that sort of thing, is perfectly fine to me.

If I knew a girl was on the Pill, and knew that she wasn't infected with any sort of STD, then yes, I'd have unprotected sex, but unless I could be certain about those then I'd usually use a condom. Which means that I would have to be in a relationship with the girl, or if it was a casual thing then she would have to be unexpectedly honest and up front about her sexual history or anything of concern, for me to have unprotected sex with her. It's fine if you trust someone, if there's no danger then fine, but I'm too smart to take chances with my health, sexually or otherwise. And I'm a student, I'm far too young to raise a kid, and can't afford to anyway...

Regarding oral sex, having done it and had it done to me, I can't say I have any problems with it. That being said, I don't know if standard sex is better, but then again I reckon it probably is, and all the stuff I've heard from people comparing the two suggests that standard vaginal (or indeed anal) sex is more pleasurable than oral. As I say though, I can't really comment myself on it.

As I said before, I am still a virgin, and for the record I'm a twenty-year old university student in the UK. Woo, big shocker, a university student who's never had sex. And no, this isn't for any particular reason. I just seem to be more of a guy who makes friends easily with girls than getting a girlfriend. I share a flat with two girls, and consider them both to be close friends, but I just can't really make that jump with girls and ask them out or anything. So it's pretty much a lack of girlfriend that means I'm still a virgin. The aforementioned oral sex has all been casual, none with a steady girlfriend, so yeah...

Finally, I have a little comment to make regarding casual sex, that may seem a little controversial, but I want to know what other people's opinions are. Not sure if it's common outside the UK, though apparently it's pretty common in the UK, but dogging is something that's seen by most of the public as a sick, vile thing that only weirdos and perverts do. Dogging, for those who don't know, is a meeting of various different people, usually with cars, at a secluded spot outdoors (often down a country lane or in empty, sheltered car parks), usually in the middle of the night so no-one happens to wander along and be offended, and then the people dogging proceed to have casual sex, mostly in the cars. Very common among gay guys, straight men, and swinger couples. I just wanted to know what other people's thoughts are on this? Personally, I have two opinions. Those who practice swinging in the daytime risk people seeing them, and often risk young kids or the elderly seeing, and that's something pretty much unforgivable. So I don't agree with that at all. But regarding proper swinging, at night, it's almost always done in places where there is almost no chance of anyone stumbling across them. It's all consensual, and there is almost zero disturbance to anyone in the area, most of whom won't even know what's happening. So as far as that's concerned, where's the problem? If people want to have sex outdoors and there's no chance that they can be seen, then surely it shouldn't be a problem, a least until someone sees them. The legal issue is pretty cloudy, because public sex in the UK is illegal if someone can see it and is offended, but dogging itself, and meeting for sex outdoors if no-one is offended, are perfectly fine. Usually the police only start arresting people if anyone starts complaining, otherwise they leave the doggers alone. So what does The Escapist think about all this?

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

I know it sucks but in the end you will find someone I am lonely but I tough it out think of other things, play game and spend some alone time in my room . Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

What, masturbate?
Noones said the word, but it has been implied. At the end of the day, you'll always be there for yourself.
The subject of masturbation is also kinda taboo tbh o.o. Don't get why.

 

[Brawndo]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?

Lost it at 19. The number of girl's I've slept with is my business, but it is in the double digits. I hate condoms, but they are a necessary evil. I actually prefer a bare blowjob to sex with a condom. I'm pretty liberal regarding my views on sex, but at the same time I'm pretty traditional with what I like to do in bed (no weird shit).

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

I know it sucks but in the end you will find someone I am lonely but I tough it out think of other things, play game and spend some alone time in my room . Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

That's what I do
Still lonely but games can stop that <.<
And what M word? Masculinity? Marzipan?

Yeah, what M word?

Motherhood? Maternity? Mating? Menstration? .... I can't think of other relevant words (apart from the ones already suggested) that start with M. Well, other than Menopause...

 

[JemothSkarii]

Have I had sex? Nope
Age? 18
Views on Casual sex? I'm not for t, but hey, I won't tell you what to do with your life.
Sex with pill but no condom? Uh, no. Condom please.
Oral? I'm looking forward to the idea (GF said she'd do it when we both feel ready.)
Anything else?: Haven't had sex yet because me and my GF want to wait till A. She's legal (she's 16) and B. There's 'that' moment. Personally I believe that sex is that special way of showing how much you care about someone and love them, so yeah...
Probably haven't had sex because of my disability; I worry about my performance and I don't want to disappoint her when the day comes. For the people who don't think I could wait two years: I'm very devoted to her, to the point I won't even cyber with other people (one of my friends keeps trying, he sticks to the sexually charged stereotype of the fur fandom).
Well, there's another reason why I can't have sex with her yet, but I won't mention it here...most people will think we're crazy...

Off Topic, but who here thinks the Soundtrack for WET is awesome?

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

Finally, I have a little comment to make regarding casual sex, that may seem a little controversial, but I want to know what other people's opinions are. Not sure if it's common outside the UK, though apparently it's pretty common in the UK, but dogging is something that's seen by most of the public as a sick, vile thing that only weirdos and perverts do. Dogging, for those who don't know, is a meeting of various different people, usually with cars, at a secluded spot outdoors (often down a country lane or in empty, sheltered car parks), usually in the middle of the night so no-one happens to wander along and be offended, and then the people dogging proceed to have casual sex, mostly in the cars. Very common among gay guys, straight men, and swinger couples. I just wanted to know what other people's thoughts are on this? Personally, I have two opinions. Those who practice swinging in the daytime risk people seeing them, and often risk young kids or the elderly seeing, and that's something pretty much unforgivable. So I don't agree with that at all. But regarding proper swinging, at night, it's almost always done in places where there is almost no chance of anyone stumbling across them. It's all consensual, and there is almost zero disturbance to anyone in the area, most of whom won't even know what's happening. So as far as that's concerned, where's the problem? If people want to have sex outdoors and there's no chance that they can be seen, then surely it shouldn't be a problem, a least until someone sees them. The legal issue is pretty cloudy, because public sex in the UK is illegal if someone can see it and is offended, but dogging itself, and meeting for sex outdoors if no-one is offended, are perfectly fine. Usually the police only start arresting people if anyone starts complaining, otherwise they leave the doggers alone. So what does The Escapist think about all this?

...Never knew what it was. I FEEL EDUCATED.
At the end of the day, as long as it's away from kids, and everyone wants to be apart of it...then it's fine, in my eyes. Might add that into the OP, if you don't mind.

Marzipan?

That made me laugh so hard, thank you xD.

 

[El Poncho]

Not yet, but on the bright side I'm only 16 and after my exams I'll have nothing keeping me back from finding someone.

 

[s0denone]

Finally, I have a little comment to make regarding casual sex, that may seem a little controversial, but I want to know what other people's opinions are. Not sure if it's common outside the UK, though apparently it's pretty common in the UK, but dogging is something that's seen by most of the public as a sick, vile thing that only weirdos and perverts do. Dogging, for those who don't know, is a meeting of various different people, usually with cars, at a secluded spot outdoors (often down a country lane or in empty, sheltered car parks), usually in the middle of the night so no-one happens to wander along and be offended, and then the people dogging proceed to have casual sex, mostly in the cars. Very common among gay guys, straight men, and swinger couples. I just wanted to know what other people's thoughts are on this? Personally, I have two opinions. Those who practice swinging in the daytime risk people seeing them, and often risk young kids or the elderly seeing, and that's something pretty much unforgivable. So I don't agree with that at all. But regarding proper swinging, at night, it's almost always done in places where there is almost no chance of anyone stumbling across them. It's all consensual, and there is almost zero disturbance to anyone in the area, most of whom won't even know what's happening. So as far as that's concerned, where's the problem? If people want to have sex outdoors and there's no chance that they can be seen, then surely it shouldn't be a problem, a least until someone sees them. The legal issue is pretty cloudy, because public sex in the UK is illegal if someone can see it and is offended, but dogging itself, and meeting for sex outdoors if no-one is offended, are perfectly fine. Usually the police only start arresting people if anyone starts complaining, otherwise they leave the doggers alone. So what does The Escapist think about all this?

Yeah...

I'm not fine with that at all.
Nothing against swingers or anything, but they better take that shit inside.

I'm sure some of us have enjoyed good times of public sex, but those times you do it in rather secluded areas, and you're certainly not more than two people.

Group sex? Get indoors.

 

[TheScottishFella]

I know it sucks but in the end you will find someone I am lonely but I tough it out think of other things, play game and spend some alone time in my room . Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

What, masturbate?
Noones said the word, but it has been implied. At the end of the day, you'll always be there for yourself.
The subject of masturbation is also kinda taboo tbh o.o. Don't get why.

While I would never share or let on that I masturbate to school chums or family members I am not ashamed of it everyone does it at one point or another and doesn't bother me. I have had someone walk in on me but we had a small talk about it and never talked about it again was I embarrassed? a little but I knew that they would never tell anyone else but my family is a little messed up because some family members view it as wrong but if I wanted to I could confront them with their internet history but I don't because it is what I do and what they do there are some people who view it as a joke and feel the need to mock people who do it but in the end you are probably the best person because you know what you want. But my attitude is "If it feels good do it."

 

[William Dickbringer]

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?

No in a relationship with a girl who believes in abstinence so no sex for me
casual sex I have no problem with and wouldn't have a problem doing it (unless I was in a relationship)
depends though if it's someone I really trust and been with for a while then maybe if it's just a one night stand than no
Oral sex I see nothing wrong with it (again never had it) but to me it doesn't appeal to me it would be all up to the girl if she wanted to

 

[badgersprite]

- Have you had sex?
Mhmm.

- How old were you when you first did?
Fifteen.

- Do your parents know?
No, and I'm twenty. I just don't like telling them about this sort of thing. I'm private, I guess.

- How many people have you slept with?
Technically, just the one person, my first girlfriend, but there have been "sexual encounters" with more.

- What are your views on 'casual sex'?
There's nothing wrong with it, but it's just not my thing. I'd rather be in some kind of a relationship, even if it's not a serious one. Know what I mean?

- Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
I'm a lesbian. Contraception isn't really an issue.

- What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Uh, I wouldn't be a very good lesbian if there was no oral sex involved. =P And how good it is depends entirely on the person doing it.

- Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
Yes. Of course. Not like every day or anything, but it's usually more than once a week. It's very handy when I need to get to sleep.

- What are your views on anal sex?
Not my thing. I don't desire it, and I'm not keen to give it, but I don't care what other people do.

 

[Stasisesque]

I know it sucks but in the end you will find someone I am lonely but I tough it out think of other things, play game and spend some alone time in my room . Is it me or has no one brought up th M word yet?

What, masturbate?
Noones said the word, but it has been implied. At the end of the day, you'll always be there for yourself.
The subject of masturbation is also kinda taboo tbh o.o. Don't get why.

While I would never share or let on that I masturbate to school chums or family members I am not ashamed of it everyone does it at one point or another and doesn't bother me. I have had someone walk in on me but we had a small talk about it and never talked about it again was I embarrassed? a little but I knew that they would never tell anyone else but my family is a little messed up because some family members view it as wrong but if I wanted to I could confront them with their internet history but I don't because it is what I do and what they do there are some people who view it as a joke and feel the need to mock people who do it but in the end you are probably the best person because you know what you want. But my attitude is "If it feels good do it."

If you don't know what you enjoy, how will you ever be able to tell your sexual partners? The best sex, on a purely physical level, is the sex you want. Please your partner, obviously, but make sure you are gratified also!

As such, masturbation is key. It's healthy (especially for males), and good... research.

 

[Sovvolf]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)

Yes.

Have you had sex?

yep

How old were you when you first did?

Around 14 I think.

Wanna tell us about your first experience?

Not much to tell other than it was just another drunken night around Locke Park and me and one of the girls from my class... Well... Did it.

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)

At the time? No, not at all... They'd have probably killed me.

How many people have you slept with?

Well it sort of depends on how you look at it. If I'm going by the times I've actually went to bed sober with a girl as part of a relationship then 4. If were talking about general sex with different women... I haven't really kept count, most of them where after or during drunken binges around the town.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?

I think its okay but it gets boring eventually believe it or not. Random casual sex is brilliant but its nothing compared to the relationship sex.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

Yes, and have. Had us both checked out first of course (I'm no idiot). I hate wearing condoms, however if its one of my drunken one night stands then I wear one... I might be drunk but I remember that at least.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?

Depends on the mood really... Some times I prefer sex and sometimes oral is good. Less work on your part really.