Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.
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Yes, I've had sex. I lost it when I was 18. Prime time to lose it, to be honest. I wanted it to be special but sod it, it's just sex, not a rocket launch. Good thing, too - cos my first time lasted 5 minutes and made me feel like a nervous wreck. The girl called me "pathetic" cos I failed to satisfy her.
My parents still think I'm a virgin and I'm 19. I might just randomly tell my mum one day. Maybe she needs to know. Not sure.
Only 1 person.
Casual sex... It's ok I guess. I think it would be fine to have sex with, say, you're best friend, but I think I personally wouldn't sleep with someone who I thought would go and tell everybody and their mum's about it. However, if you have massively thick skin and don't care what anyone says about you, go ahead and sleep with whoever you want. Just make sure it doesn't come back to haunt you in the future.
I would insist on wearing a condom every time, I'm afraid. I find that I lose sensation with one on, but I find sex a lot more comfortable with one on and I'm only 19 years old and don't wanna give up my university course to be a dad. I think I would make an exception for a long-term partner.
I've had oral sex before but I would say it's better than normal sex.
I'm a single guy at the moment and haven't has sex in 2 months, so yes, I do masturbate often. I find that I do it less often when I'm sexually active.
I don't think I could ever have a 3some or more than that. I'd rather just concentrate on one person and enjoy it. Having a 3some would be a bit weird for me.
Sorry about the length of this comment but oh well. Thanks for reading.
Yes, I've had sex. I lost it when I was 18. Prime time to lose it, to be honest. I wanted it to be special but sod it, it's just sex, not a rocket launch. Good thing, too - cos my first time lasted 5 minutes and made me feel like a nervous wreck. The girl called me "pathetic" cos I failed to satisfy her.
My parents still think I'm a virgin and I'm 19. I might just randomly tell my mum one day. Maybe she needs to know. Not sure.
Only 1 person.
Casual sex... It's ok I guess. I think it would be fine to have sex with, say, you're best friend, but I think I personally wouldn't sleep with someone who I thought would go and tell everybody and their mum's about it. However, if you have massively thick skin and don't care what anyone says about you, go ahead and sleep with whoever you want. Just make sure it doesn't come back to haunt you in the future.
I would insist on wearing a condom every time, I'm afraid. I find that I lose sensation with one on, but I find sex a lot more comfortable with one on and I'm only 19 years old and don't wanna give up my university course to be a dad. I think I would make an exception for a long-term partner.
I've had oral sex before but I would say it's better than normal sex.
I'm a single guy at the moment and haven't has sex in 2 months, so yes, I do masturbate often. I find that I do it less often when I'm sexually active.
I don't think I could ever have a 3some or more than that. I'd rather just concentrate on one person and enjoy it. Having a 3some would be a bit weird for me.
Sorry about the length of this comment but oh well. Thanks for reading.
A little light petting is about as far as I've gotBlueberryMUNCH said:
As long as it's concensual.
Maybe if I'd been with them for some time.
I'd like to experience it, giving and recieveing.
YES a lot, like twice a day minimum.
I'd like to try it, only if I were the "giver" though.
Not really sure though it is a fantasy of mine, I'd probebly uncomfortable with another of my gender.
... not really
I wasn't ready at the time I had the oppourtunity, I don't feel ashamed for waiting though I do wish I could have another chance.
Yes, well being a virgin, naturally.AccursedTheory said:
But like I said, I have a very romantic view of sex, for many a reason, and for me, BDSM doesn't fit that, it seems more lustful that loving. I suppose that's why it's so reportedly good.
Just a quick comment, that girls (at the very least sounds) a colossal ***** (not meanign to offend, but I presume she knew it was your first time, talk about harsh; also five minutes of sex in and of itself? Dude, that's really not bad for a first time, the (sexually experience) male average of actually intercourse is 3.5mins, I've read. Actually sod it, somebody got a fact on that one?Sendura said:
Another question from the OP. Let's see.BlueberryMUNCH said:
Could I? Yes.
Have I? Yes. Not as many times as I'd like, but yes.
I am comfortable with any combination of numbers and genders. One of the many benefits of being bisexual.
Edit: BDSM now? Okay.
I kinda like being tied up. I don't like pain though.
I've dated someone who was into it, though - recieving, I mean. Turns out, I'm pretty good with a crop, paddle, and tassle whip. Being the Dom doesn't really do anything for me, unless I'm in a bad mood, but I don't mind it either if a partner enjoys pain.
ick, romance. Romance GETS you to sex.McCa said:Yes, well being a virgin, naturally.AccursedTheory said:
But like I said, I have a very romantic view of sex, for many a reason, and for me, BDSM doesn't fit that, it seems more lustful that loving. I suppose that's why it's so reportedly good.
Sex is just something thats fun to do. Its meaning is entirely what you want it to be. I choose to see it as something pleasurable I do with females I enjoy the company of. that being said, I have rules, like you, though just less robust.
1. One sexual partner at a time (A period of time, not at one sexual encounter)
2. If I really do love someone, then yes, only them.
But really, sex is sex. You go on dates because their fun, and you do BDSM because its fun.
Christ, another one? how come I only notice this when you post your answer? Fuck.Bara_no_Hime said:
I have had a threesome before. it was miserable.
Such an event is possible, I suppose, if your not really romantically involved with anyone at the time. if you are romantically involved, it merely sparks jealousy. You end up spending half of the encounter thinking 'hey, I should be licking that!'
Would I do it again? Unlikely. Even if I didn't particularly care about exclusivity, or where everyone's tongue is, it's a complicated affair. At least for someone with the amount of brain damage I've sustained.
EDIT: My support of BDSM is well known to those who know me, and I've already mentioned it several times. I'm particularly fond of being tied up, teased, and light torture, among other things that probably shouldn't be mentioned.
Being probably the best opportunity to ask;Bara_no_Hime said:
Not that I'd ever would, but I'm curious. What are the politics of three(or more)somes? How does the opportunity arise? Do you know everyone? Are you in a longer term relationship with a single partner, is it recurring? (if so is it the same people). Just something I seek to cure my ignorance on.
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)--Yes
Have you had sex? --Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?--15 in an under construction staircase at a busy mall. I'm pretty classy. It was great. We only got walked in on once.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)--Unfortunately, yes.
How many people have you slept with?-- One.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?--Sure, why not? Basic mutual repect is a requirement, though.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)--I prefer other, non-intrusive methods of pregnancy prevention if I can help it (and I'm positive the girl's clean).
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?-- It's okay. Not as good as intercourse, but fun.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?--Yes.
What're your views on anal sex?--Fucking disgusting.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?--Yes and maybe.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?--Nope.
Have you had sex? --Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?--15 in an under construction staircase at a busy mall. I'm pretty classy. It was great. We only got walked in on once.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)--Unfortunately, yes.
How many people have you slept with?-- One.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?--Sure, why not? Basic mutual repect is a requirement, though.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)--I prefer other, non-intrusive methods of pregnancy prevention if I can help it (and I'm positive the girl's clean).
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?-- It's okay. Not as good as intercourse, but fun.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?--Yes.
What're your views on anal sex?--Fucking disgusting.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?--Yes and maybe.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?--Nope.
See my previous post as to how I see sex, and (to an extent) why it's important to me that it is a romantic thing. Nothing wrong with seeing sex as just sex mind you, it's just that frankly I can't see myself giving a damn in the world if there isn't somebody to love, and to me love is what sex is, a incarnation of intimacy, trust, pleasure and love.AccursedTheory said:ick, romance. Romance GETS you to sex.McCa said:Yes, well being a virgin, naturally.AccursedTheory said:
But like I said, I have a very romantic view of sex, for many a reason, and for me, BDSM doesn't fit that, it seems more lustful that loving. I suppose that's why it's so reportedly good.
Sex is just something thats fun to do. Its meaning is entirely what you want it to be. I choose to see it as something pleasurable I do with females I enjoy the company of. that being said, I have rules, like you, though just less robust.
1. One sexual partner at a time (A period of time, not at one sexual encounter)
2. If I really do love someone, then yes, only them.
But really, sex is sex. You go on dates because their fun, and you do BDSM because its fun.
If your the sort who finds the 'hopeless romantic' type a pain in the ass, you wouldn't like me at all.
Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
yes
Have you had sex?
yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
18, and there was this girl who really wanted to be with me and the thought was 'crap I'm already 18 time to lose my virginity'. It was about as romantic as I made it sound.
She was nice enough initially but as a whole, I regret it in retrospect. Guys and girls: save it for someone you like, really like. Worth the wait.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
indeed
How many people have you slept with?
Three people I think, depending on your definition.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
If it actually could work for you, more power to you. My experience has been that there's no such thing as casual sex in the long run.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
I have, so yes.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
It's pretty great. And, no. And no. Because it's pretty great. In that order.
It's such a pity that girls tend to not know what they're doing. Still, the sentiment is valuable, no?
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
I'm a human fucking being, okay.
What're your views on anal sex?
Sounds profoundly uncomfortable. I mean, putting an innie in an outie? Doesn't appeal to me in the slightest.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?.
I think the idea of a threesome is a lot more appealing than the practice. I've been in situations where a threesome might've been a possibility and truth be told, I pussied out. I mean, two women? I have my hands full on one, and then some. Too much performance anxiety.
fuck those are a lot of questions!
Also I heard this little bit about dogging? Same answer as with casual sex. If it ain't broke don't fix it. ^^
Also jeez this just might be the definitive sex thread.
yes
Have you had sex?
yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
18, and there was this girl who really wanted to be with me and the thought was 'crap I'm already 18 time to lose my virginity'. It was about as romantic as I made it sound.
She was nice enough initially but as a whole, I regret it in retrospect. Guys and girls: save it for someone you like, really like. Worth the wait.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
indeed
How many people have you slept with?
Three people I think, depending on your definition.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
If it actually could work for you, more power to you. My experience has been that there's no such thing as casual sex in the long run.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
I have, so yes.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
It's pretty great. And, no. And no. Because it's pretty great. In that order.
It's such a pity that girls tend to not know what they're doing. Still, the sentiment is valuable, no?
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
I'm a human fucking being, okay.
What're your views on anal sex?
Sounds profoundly uncomfortable. I mean, putting an innie in an outie? Doesn't appeal to me in the slightest.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?.
I think the idea of a threesome is a lot more appealing than the practice. I've been in situations where a threesome might've been a possibility and truth be told, I pussied out. I mean, two women? I have my hands full on one, and then some. Too much performance anxiety.
fuck those are a lot of questions!
Also I heard this little bit about dogging? Same answer as with casual sex. If it ain't broke don't fix it. ^^
Also jeez this just might be the definitive sex thread.
I wouldn't call myself a hopeless romantic, but I'm also a virgin who sees sex as something meaningful. I've decided not to engage in it until I've attained that profound a relationship.McCa said:
Also on the threesome question - I was having this conversation with a lady-friend the other day. She was completely open to anything like that, either gender involved, whatever. I was more uptight about it. I considered being with a girlfriend and another woman at the same time, and was at least potentially open to the idea, under very specific circumstances (i.e. I'd have to have almost as strong a bond with the other girl as my girlfriend, which seems unlikely to happen), but I absolutely couldn't stand the thought of another guy being involved. The idea of another guy making love with someone I was in an intimate relationship with just sickens me beyond reason. In the end, I'd probably avoid any threesome if it was a question of keeping things fair for both me and my partner.
McCa said:See my previous post as to how I see sex, and (to an extent) why it's important to me that it is a romantic thing. Nothing wrong with seeing sex as just sex mind you, it's just that frankly I can't see myself giving a damn in the world if there isn't somebody to love, and to me love is what sex is, a incarnation of intimacy, trust, pleasure and love.AccursedTheory said:ick, romance. Romance GETS you to sex.McCa said:Yes, well being a virgin, naturally.AccursedTheory said:
But like I said, I have a very romantic view of sex, for many a reason, and for me, BDSM doesn't fit that, it seems more lustful that loving. I suppose that's why it's so reportedly good.
Sex is just something thats fun to do. Its meaning is entirely what you want it to be. I choose to see it as something pleasurable I do with females I enjoy the company of. that being said, I have rules, like you, though just less robust.
1. One sexual partner at a time (A period of time, not at one sexual encounter)
2. If I really do love someone, then yes, only them.
But really, sex is sex. You go on dates because their fun, and you do BDSM because its fun.
If your the sort who finds the 'hopeless romantic' type a pain in the ass, you wouldn't like me at all.
I love hopeless romantics. I usually get them drunk, drag them to titty bars, and watch them go positively wild as they lose control and forget about romance in there drunken state, helpless against the onslaught of booty gyration and exposed nipples.
Of course, I never let them make any life changing mistakes, return them to their beds at night, unmolested (Well, maybe molested, but never pantless).
You guys a re a fun bunch to be around, and I admire you. Long ago, I thought like you, and a good portion of me wishes I still did. But, alas, God plays tricks on us all, and tiny events eventually change you. It changed me into the foul mouthed, hopelessly crude individual I am.
No problem.McCa said:
First time: 3 some. I had been dating this guy for a few months. We were hanging out with a female friend and a male friend. Someone asked "so, what shall we do now?" and the female friend said "we could all have sex" - which everyone laughed at and that was that. Later, my boyfriend and I were alone with the girl and (having talked it over) I said "earlier, when you made that joke... if the other person hadn't been in the room, we'd have said "yes". She said "oh" and a few minutes later we went for it. This was a dorm room, so the bed was easily at hand.
It was really fun. Unfortunately, afterwards she started stalking me. Later she told me she loved me and it was really awkward cause I had absoutely no feelings for her. So that went bad long-term, but it was great at the time.
My only other experience was more recently, and much more positive.
My partner and I were friends with another couple of fairly open sexuality. One day, they came up to both of us and said "we're not sure how to ask this, so we're just going to do this" and my partner and I got kissed by both of them. We said "oh, that was nice" and a week later we arranged to all get together. It was good, and we repeated the arrangement four or five other times before everyone sort of got bored with it. My partner and I are still friends with that couple - we game with them on the weekends. Haven't had sex with them in several years, though, and aren't really interested in them again. We've "had" them - my partner and I are interested in trying someone else now. Either another mutual friend or another couple, whichever.
yes, i havent recieved oral, but i have preformed it on my ex girlfriend.
yes i have had sex, i lost my virginity at age 15 though.
the first time was actually a great expireince, she wasnt a virgin, but i was, and i discovered i had some.."hidden" talents *wink*
yes my dad found out 2 days after it happened, let me tell you, in all my 19 years of life, ive never been as embarassed as i was when my dad found the condom that i had just carlessly thrown in my bathroom trash! the funny part was when he just laughed and then said, just dont do it in house.
ive only slept with 2 people. some guys may just be after a nother notch in there holster, but im after somthing completely diffrent.
causual sex? well i guess it would be okay, i mean what else would brighten your day then random sex with some one you dont have ties to! but this is only for the people that have already lost there virginity. those who havent lost there's yet, i suggest you keep it until you find the one, no, this dosent mean some girl you think your in love with in highschool, i mean an actual woman that you have fallen head over heels for, as long as she feels the same way. other wise, if you just waste it on some girl in highschool, then you may get attached, and you will be left clueless and heartbroken after she breaks it off.
as for the condem question, the first time i had sex, it was bare back. but she was on the pill. but i strongly consider wearing a condom, just one of those, rather safe then srry.
i find that (im just come out and say it, no sugar coating) eating a girl out, is actually enjoyable to me, cause i know im accomplishing a goal to make her have the orgasm. remeber, always give the girl what she wants. i have never recieved oral myself, but im sure it is quite pleasurable.
as for the masturbation question, i quit the childs play after i had had sex.
i have no comment toward anal sex, except for, exit only.
a 3some would be nice, i dont care if another man is in the room, im to focused on the girl to notice anything else.
i guess that pretty much raps it up. im sure no one will take the time to read this, and if someone does and decides to report me, then so be it. srry for the long ass post.
yes i have had sex, i lost my virginity at age 15 though.
the first time was actually a great expireince, she wasnt a virgin, but i was, and i discovered i had some.."hidden" talents *wink*
yes my dad found out 2 days after it happened, let me tell you, in all my 19 years of life, ive never been as embarassed as i was when my dad found the condom that i had just carlessly thrown in my bathroom trash! the funny part was when he just laughed and then said, just dont do it in house.
ive only slept with 2 people. some guys may just be after a nother notch in there holster, but im after somthing completely diffrent.
causual sex? well i guess it would be okay, i mean what else would brighten your day then random sex with some one you dont have ties to! but this is only for the people that have already lost there virginity. those who havent lost there's yet, i suggest you keep it until you find the one, no, this dosent mean some girl you think your in love with in highschool, i mean an actual woman that you have fallen head over heels for, as long as she feels the same way. other wise, if you just waste it on some girl in highschool, then you may get attached, and you will be left clueless and heartbroken after she breaks it off.
as for the condem question, the first time i had sex, it was bare back. but she was on the pill. but i strongly consider wearing a condom, just one of those, rather safe then srry.
i find that (im just come out and say it, no sugar coating) eating a girl out, is actually enjoyable to me, cause i know im accomplishing a goal to make her have the orgasm. remeber, always give the girl what she wants. i have never recieved oral myself, but im sure it is quite pleasurable.
as for the masturbation question, i quit the childs play after i had had sex.
i have no comment toward anal sex, except for, exit only.
a 3some would be nice, i dont care if another man is in the room, im to focused on the girl to notice anything else.
i guess that pretty much raps it up. im sure no one will take the time to read this, and if someone does and decides to report me, then so be it. srry for the long ass post.
Yes.
Yes.
I was 16 the first time, and arguably the worse decision I have ever made ever. Ever.
They know about my ex, the girl I lost my virginity to, but not my current girlfriend. If they knew, they'd admittedly probably shit a brick.
2, and I intend to stop here.
Casual sex is fine by me. Feels good, therapeutic, sure there are risks, but there are risks in waking up in the morning, aren't there?
I refuse to have sex without a condom now, given what happened with my ex. My gf constantly tries to get me to (she's on the pill), but I refuse.
Oral is pretty nice, I'd much rather have sex, but I'll take some oral action if my girl is down for it, and I love giving it, because apparently I'm godlike at it.
And of course I masturbate, everyone masturbates more or less.
Anal is fine by me, so long as the receiving party is willing. It certainly shows that the people participating trust each other.
I would love to have a 3some... The only problem I have is sharing my gf. I love her far too much to let someone else take her physically like that, she has the same problem with me. And I'm bi, so I'd be okay with having someone of the same sex participate, given I found them attractive. But again, having another man in the equation would not fly by me, no one sticks their Johnson in my girl but me.
Yes.
I was 16 the first time, and arguably the worse decision I have ever made ever. Ever.
They know about my ex, the girl I lost my virginity to, but not my current girlfriend. If they knew, they'd admittedly probably shit a brick.
2, and I intend to stop here.
Casual sex is fine by me. Feels good, therapeutic, sure there are risks, but there are risks in waking up in the morning, aren't there?
I refuse to have sex without a condom now, given what happened with my ex. My gf constantly tries to get me to (she's on the pill), but I refuse.
Oral is pretty nice, I'd much rather have sex, but I'll take some oral action if my girl is down for it, and I love giving it, because apparently I'm godlike at it.
And of course I masturbate, everyone masturbates more or less.
Anal is fine by me, so long as the receiving party is willing. It certainly shows that the people participating trust each other.
I would love to have a 3some... The only problem I have is sharing my gf. I love her far too much to let someone else take her physically like that, she has the same problem with me. And I'm bi, so I'd be okay with having someone of the same sex participate, given I found them attractive. But again, having another man in the equation would not fly by me, no one sticks their Johnson in my girl but me.
Well, with my boyfriend (oral/ manual, I'm not going anywhere near his arse) And that was age 14 -lost track since then, but I've been faithful so far
As for out-of-relationship intercourse, I feel that a relationship is but a socially acceptable vessel for two people to express their love for one another, and I'm definately for it.
As for out-of-relationship intercourse, I feel that a relationship is but a socially acceptable vessel for two people to express their love for one another, and I'm definately for it.
I had my first sexual encounter when I was 13, I lost my virginity when I was 14, I used to wear the boxers I was wearing the first time I a girl performed oral sex on me to school when we had gym because I was so proud of myself.
I don't really remember the first time, I had sex because it was a long time ago and it was one of the first times I had been drunk at a party.
I don't know how many sexual partners I've had, but I've had 4 when sober, and a good deal of casual sex partners.
I always wear a condom when with someone I don't know, but I had a lot of unprotected sex while I was in a long term relationship. Neither of us had any sexually transmitted diseases and she never got pregnant.
I haven't enjoyed sex as much since that relationship, I will usually get bored before I finish.
Oral sex is fun, but it usually isn't enough.
I've had anal sex, it was exciting because it's kinda taboo.
I've had 2 threesomes, both with two girls, but I would probably consider it with a guy and a girl, I'm pretty open sexually, but I'd advise anyone else to be safe if they are going to follow in my footsteps
I don't really remember the first time, I had sex because it was a long time ago and it was one of the first times I had been drunk at a party.
I don't know how many sexual partners I've had, but I've had 4 when sober, and a good deal of casual sex partners.
I always wear a condom when with someone I don't know, but I had a lot of unprotected sex while I was in a long term relationship. Neither of us had any sexually transmitted diseases and she never got pregnant.
I haven't enjoyed sex as much since that relationship, I will usually get bored before I finish.
Oral sex is fun, but it usually isn't enough.
I've had anal sex, it was exciting because it's kinda taboo.
I've had 2 threesomes, both with two girls, but I would probably consider it with a guy and a girl, I'm pretty open sexually, but I'd advise anyone else to be safe if they are going to follow in my footsteps