Poll: Should I worry?
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You are just 17Hellskull said:
That's basicly all there is to say...don't worry about it as long as you are happy the way it is..if not see what you can change and don't give a sh**t what your friends say about it go at your pace, as i said you are only 17 the are a lot more years ahead of you than are behind you with a whole lot of bigger problems so don't worry to much about the little ones.
Just tell the voices to stfu, & go back to your hobbies; they're the only happiness that still puts out & doesn't get boring overtime. Heheheh.
You might wanna cut a little down on the otaku part, but hell... I'm sixteen, goth, geek and on second week of my first relationship...
I've just finished reading the first volume of School Rumble in Japanese, starting Welcome to the NHK light novel (Eng), and I've seen quite a bit of anime - FMA is OK, S&W and Higurashi are good. Prefer NHK, Elfen Lied, Bakemonogatari... etc.Greyfox105 said:
Where does this girl live?
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I am frankly shocked and disgusted by the numbers of people telling you to leave it be and that your life will work itself out, that's not how the world works people, you need to get out there and live a little, go to some of these parties, hang out with your mates (stop masturbating, that way you end up with more testosterone in your system and you'll feel more manly and confident and ready to go out and live)
the only way life changes is if you get out there and change it for yourself
and for all those who voted for: lost cause, you guys are just as bad, that simply gets rid of any hope tis man may have if he knows people think he's a lost cause, there is no heap of shit that anyone with sufficiant will power can't pull themselves out of,
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I am frankly shocked and disgusted by the numbers of people telling you to leave it be and that your life will work itself out, that's not how the world works people, you need to get out there and live a little, go to some of these parties, hang out with your mates (stop masturbating, that way you end up with more testosterone in your system and you'll feel more manly and confident and ready to go out and live)
the only way life changes is if you get out there and change it for yourself
and for all those who voted for: lost cause, you guys are just as bad, that simply gets rid of any hope tis man may have if he knows people think he's a lost cause, there is no heap of shit that anyone with sufficiant will power can't pull themselves out of,
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Work out, keep healthy, be confident, go out, meet new people, be outgoing.
It's not hard to lead a happy life, so do you want to be one of the impressionable teens who goes out with someone for the sake of it? Destroying the poor girls(already)low self esteem in the process, or do you want to work on yourself and be the best person you can possibly be for whoever it is may fall for the hard working, good looking(due to working out), confident and outgoing guy it is so easy to make yourself into?
I had my first gf about a year back(was 19)up until then I hadn't spoken to girls, had barely interacted with them, in other words I was like most of the socially inept young people on here who makes these silly relationship threads. I met a great group of friends in college who began to "mold" me into something great but I wasn't entirely perceptive to it, I was(like many guys)saying the silly words I hear all too much now "If a girl can't accept me for who I am then she's not worth bothering about", no, you're not worth bothering about with a negative attitude like that. Work out the kinks in your personality, your character. My ex breaking up with me was the final "push" I needed to finally be me. I took up something I now consider a big part of my life(Parkour), I started hardcore working out(bodyweight not weights), grew some balls and a backbone to boot and I haven't looked back since.
I have four girls who are actively interested in me at the moment, I'm just hanging out with all of them, if it ends up we have sex or get together then so be it, but I don't NEED a girl to validate my life bceause I lead such a great life now that to depend on someone(like I pretty much did with my ex)would be a massive leap back.
So I'll say the same thing to the OP as I do to every young, horny individual, work on yourself first, you're the only constant in your life, improve yourself, "change" yourself, the person who's right for you will come along when they want to, not by forcing it or looking for it, it comes off as desperate. Just enjoy your life each day.
It's not hard to lead a happy life, so do you want to be one of the impressionable teens who goes out with someone for the sake of it? Destroying the poor girls(already)low self esteem in the process, or do you want to work on yourself and be the best person you can possibly be for whoever it is may fall for the hard working, good looking(due to working out), confident and outgoing guy it is so easy to make yourself into?
I had my first gf about a year back(was 19)up until then I hadn't spoken to girls, had barely interacted with them, in other words I was like most of the socially inept young people on here who makes these silly relationship threads. I met a great group of friends in college who began to "mold" me into something great but I wasn't entirely perceptive to it, I was(like many guys)saying the silly words I hear all too much now "If a girl can't accept me for who I am then she's not worth bothering about", no, you're not worth bothering about with a negative attitude like that. Work out the kinks in your personality, your character. My ex breaking up with me was the final "push" I needed to finally be me. I took up something I now consider a big part of my life(Parkour), I started hardcore working out(bodyweight not weights), grew some balls and a backbone to boot and I haven't looked back since.
I have four girls who are actively interested in me at the moment, I'm just hanging out with all of them, if it ends up we have sex or get together then so be it, but I don't NEED a girl to validate my life bceause I lead such a great life now that to depend on someone(like I pretty much did with my ex)would be a massive leap back.
So I'll say the same thing to the OP as I do to every young, horny individual, work on yourself first, you're the only constant in your life, improve yourself, "change" yourself, the person who's right for you will come along when they want to, not by forcing it or looking for it, it comes off as desperate. Just enjoy your life each day.
Is being this ignorant, as blissful as people say it is?thepj said:
You see, the world don't move...too the beat of just one drum. What might be right for you, may not be right for some.
OT: Don't worry about it, kid. You have a good sense for who you are at 17, if you don't like parties now...you probably never will. Having said that, 1 on 1 socialising is far more rewarding...and doesn't feel as fake as it does at a party. If girls are interested in you, you might want to consider at least going for a walk or something with them...you might find you like them more when there are no friends around.
No, don't worry. Your only 17 for god's sakes. Seriously, I don't understand the obsession with having a girlfriend by middle school in this country. I have purposely AVOIDED such a thing for reasons of my own, but no don't worry.
Ok, first thing, it's /thread, not thread/ and second thing, no one cares about your uber testosterone rants because you've completely missed the point. He should do what makes him happy, he shouldn't live his life according to the way you, or anyone else thinks he should, all he needs to do is evaluate what makes him happy and if he's happy at the moment then who gives a shit if he's not the most social person, I'm frankly disgusted by your ridiculous attitude.thepj said:
And learn punctuation.