Poll: Should I worry?

[skywalkerlion]

Maybe you're asexual? (which, has a lot of different meanings. You might still like girls, but don't want a sexual relationship, you might not like girls or guys at all, you might be homosexual and not like sexual relationships in that way. Don't let someone tell you it means you do nothing but masturbate. Our friend wikipedia tells us otherwise. And if you base your life off of what random people over the internet tell you, life is much happier .)
If not, then don't worry about it. Seriously.

Listen to this guy, he knows what he's talking about:

1. You're 17. It's totally understandable at that age to be antisocial, dorky and pessimistic, simply because you have no perspective on life after boarding school.

2. As a lifelong pattern of behavior, this isn't gonna work. There's a reason having close friends, relationships, parties, etc. are so popular: they increase your quality of life, even if they are hard for we introverts to deal with sometimes.

3. You're missing a clear opportunity to maximize your time. If you're already at a party, sitting there wishing it were over is pretty much the worst thing you could be doing (except passing out). Why not at least attempt to have some fun? There are probably people who share some of your interests, at the very least.

4. Don't be worried that you haven't had any relationships yet. Not only are you rather young, but your pool of available girls is rather small.

 

[Chancie]

Nope, I wouldn't worry. I'm almost the same way and the way I see it, the right one will come at the right time. You're only 17. As far as I see it, any relationship you have in the teen years won't be extremely serious anyways so don't stress. You've got PLENTY of time to find the right girl.

 

[BonsaiK]

I've been roaming around for the past few minutes and I've seen how many people have problems with their love lives, so I started thinking: I'm 17 already and haven't even fallen in love let alone had a relation with anyone and I'm still not changing this or even thinking about changing this, I just keep on playing games, watching anime and manga, m4s'urbatin' when I feel like it, not attending parties or just sitting in the corner waiting for it to be over when I'm actually there, and turning down the rare occasions girls ask for my phone number.
Some people around me told me I should maybe start being a bit more conscious about my life, should I worry about what they tell me and about my life today and tomorrow?

EDIT: some clarification:
-on the parties thing, I'm talking about discos the school sometimes organizes (I'm a boarder) I live way to far from anyone or school to be actually attending their parties without having to drive to 'em for five hours, French boondocks ftl... so often I don't bother.
-Do I talk to girls? I just luv telling them crazy stories to scare the shit out of 'em! that might be negative thing though...
-I don't accept girls phone numbers 'cuz I don't ever really feel like it's going to turn out very well...
-I've had no relationship, which means no sex at all not even a little kiss. And I don't give a shit.

For all those who are shocked by me openly telling myself I masturbate: If you do it you might as well come clean about it.

I've answered your question here: http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=12#3623903

 

[DemonicVixen]

Why worry? When the time is right for you to find someone, you will find someone. Maybe your not 'destined' to have a girlfriend or a relationship. Do not sweat it. Better to wait then get hurt trying to hard and pushing yourself forward. I think sitting back and letting nature take its own course is fine, I totally agree with you there.
As for being open and honest about, well you know, thats up to you to share. As mentioned by someone in an above post (can not seem to find it at moment), its normal and i do not think anyone should care about it. If someone says you should not blurt it out, they are either just embarrased at it being pointed out or they just prefer to not know about other people doing it lol.

 

[Pimppeter2]

Well, you should get more sex and flings. But whatever makes you content


Just have fun

 

[Simalacrum]

Yes, yes you should worry. If you don't then suddenly aliens will come down to earth, take you away and torture you to death. Then they will have a disco party with all the cats on Mars.

No of course you bloody shouldn't worry. No point in going into a relationship if you don't feel the need for one. I, on the other hand, should, cause I have no particular interest in any given girl atm, yet I really miss the whole "having a girlfriend" thing pretty bad.

But, in the end, don't worry, be happy [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jyYZUhSeRYc]

 

[Julianking93]

Same here.

16 and never even kissed a girl.

I'm so lonely. Although, it would help if every girl I've ever met wasn't insane over the Jonas Brothers, High School Musical, Twilight, or were religious and weren't fucking retarded. (not being sexist, I've met plenty of [i/]women[/i] who were intelligent, just no girl my age)