Sikachu said:
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If there is plenty of space there usually isn't a problem, because the smoker will usually not stand close to me while lighting a cigarette, so mostly there isn't a problem in that sense. However, one time I was sitting on a bench waiting for the train. Two girls comes and sits down on the bench, starts talking - no problem. Then they light up a cigarette each, completely ignoring that there's another person on the bench.
This is what I can't stand. Because there were plenty of other spaces(and benches) for them to light a smoke on - what they did was just plain rude. I actually told them this, and with some snarky comments they moved. It's no big deal, but I wish people wouldn't be this rude.
Another situation. I'm waiting at the bus stop, sitting on the bench there completely alone. A lady walks up and sits on the bench. She lights a cigarette, and I cough, she then turns to me and apologizes very politely, then moves away.
This is decency. She realised that I was there and respected me by moving away and having her cigarette a bit farther away.
Do you see my point? All I'm asking is decency, of course from both people, but the situation is in fact more dependant on the smoker, because they're the one lighting the cigarette - I don't know if you're a smoker most likely, and they don't know I'm not. So why not just be decent and light the smoke a bit farther away?
That's basically my point.