A little pot? Who cares? People across all walks of life indulge in it at their leisure. It's not just for the 'hip' crowd, it's not just for the young crowd, it's not just for the slacker crowd, and it's used daily by people everywhere you could take one look at and never even guess that it's one of their favorite social pastimes. It's neither cool, nor is it edgy. I don't know anyone over the age of 15 who would say any differently. It simply is. It's simply a way to move your mentality a little out of normal bounds. Which, in the right company, is most enjoyable.
Now, I'll be perfectly honest, right here, right now. I have been, so you say, "clean" in that department for about 4 months now. Well, compared to the habit I had, I've smoked less in the past four months then I would have in a day prior to that. I've been "stoned" three times in 16 weeks, whereas that would have been about 3 times daily, at a bare minimum, previous.
I have noticed an extreme change in my mentality since cutting back so drastically. It's not like a haze has lifted, or that I feel more intelligent, no, nothing of the sort. It's more like a certain black cloud that hung like a pall over my disposition has suddenly lifted away. I was tense, I was irritable, I was occasionally mildly paranoid. Huge anxiety. That has, for all intents and purposes, faded away, and left me enjoying being alive more than I have for years previous.
Despite all this, though, I still do not see the harm in using it, if one uses it responsibly. I did not. I abused it. I paid for that abuse with my very happiness. The occasional smokes I have had since losing the abuse of it have been more profoundly powerful than I've felt in years. I actually enjoyed those couple of occasions, not doing it because it felt like an obligation, and not being disappointed in the results to the point of smoking even more. Tolerance is a *****. Expectations and routine, perhaps moreso.
I might be rambling, so I'll go ahead and get to my ultimate talking points, here.
Yes, pot is downright fun, relatively safe, and most enjoyable in social situations with friends.
Yes, there is the capacity for abuse, just like everything else in life. It's up to the individual to recognize themselves and understand their limits, to realize an error and enact control. To use responsibly is to use most intelligently, and with grace.
No, pot is not physically addicting. I have experienced nothing remotely like a withdrawl since my major cutback. However, it is very psychologically compelling. I became convinced that certain activities just weren't enjoyable without it. There's still a certain sense of longing from time to time (which crop up when I catch certain aromas drifting from the neighbors next door...) , but I am glad to discover I was wrong about my favorite hobbies no longer being fun without it.
Should it be legal? Absolutely. I can't think of one positive aspect of the war against pot that's accomplished anything worthwhile. The government throws billions of dollars a year at it here in the states trying to combat it, to no effect. We The People throw billions more at violent Mexican drug cartels, because that's where the goods flow from. These are excessively brutal groups who are on the verge of imbalancing their country completely, and we're beginning to feel the overflow. We expend billions more keeping non-violent offenders behind prison bars for no worse offense than simply possession. It's entirely ludicrous.
Pot is nothing more than a plant, a plant with some pretty neat effects on the brain. It's time to regulate, tax, and establish it as part of our real economy. Flat-out truth.
It's far safer than alcohol, I know that for certain.
Sure, there's room for abuse, and I know that all-to-well, myself.
But what can't be abused?