Um, Im going to go ahead and say that the realistic violence is the best. If executed well, it gives a great sense and experience to the game/player. Excessive blood and gore is okay but it has the same effect as the cartoony violence honestly.
Stylized violence is better for most games( see DMC3) but for games like heavy rain the more realistic is better.
Stylized violence is better for most games( see DMC3) but for games like heavy rain the more realistic is better.