Poll: Someone you like asks you out, your first reaction.
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I'd view it with suspicion, just as i view everything. I'd probably be happy too, but I'd wonder what made someone ask out a cynical, pessimistic and generally depressing person such as myself.
For me is other (normal). Girls ask me out because I don't have the time in my home town so they have to tell me for date or ells I don't care (1-2 days a week only at home so I have other things to do (helping my mom if she needs as she is a single parent and with 3 childrens)).
I can do this kind of BS only now when I have college or what ever is called in english.
I can do this kind of BS only now when I have college or what ever is called in english.
My initial reaction: ITS A TRAP! followed by me grabbing the nearest blunt instrument and chasing off anyone within 20 feet of me.
People don't ask me out. It's just one of those things. So if they do, I immdiately try to work out who the people laughing around the corner are.
Well, I can't speak for anyone else, just myself, but I'm not a mod, I'm the Senior Editor of the site. As such, I have a host of responsibilities that keep me extremely busy. When I have the luxury of a few minutes, I cruise through the forums and comment on threads I find interesting, or where I feel like I have something to add.CloggedDonkey said:
i'd be weary of someone asking me out. i think everyone finds me totally repulsive, so i'd think something was up.
What I mostly feel after I realize the person I like also likes me is... elation followed immediately by trepidation? I like dating but only people that I don't seriously consider a relationship with. The first while of "I like you, I know you like me" is just unnerving. After that it get's okay. I just like to know where I stand with people. Still it's fun and when things don't work out it's almost as good as when they do. Amusement factor and all. But in hindsight.
It's annoying because I'm pretty good at picking up. I just don't like the bit in between, asking out and in a relationship. So I tend to freak out and then people think I'm crazy because I purposefully act vague to distance myself from people and conflict.
It's annoying because I'm pretty good at picking up. I just don't like the bit in between, asking out and in a relationship. So I tend to freak out and then people think I'm crazy because I purposefully act vague to distance myself from people and conflict.
