Poll: what attracts you most to a girl/guy?

[saoirse13]

Pretty self-explanatory. Is it looks, personality, sense of humour or something completely different? And if it's soething completely random, do tell.

Oh and a guys laugh. I love if a guy has a weird laugh. Mines pretty weird and I get laughed at for mine.

 

[Goofguy]

Personality (which I consider to include sense of humor), for sure but there has to be a physical attraction there as well.

 

[Vault101]

I honestly dont know

when Im out in public I tend to notice guys who I suspect might be of the "nerd/geek" variety and I think

"I wonder if they play games?...what games do they like?...what games would they talk about?...do they like oher stuff?..."

then again I knwo the world does not consist of walking steryotypes..mostly

 

[Loop Stricken]

See now, this is... a trap!

We can't say looks anymore even when it's generally the most obvious thing, because that's objectivist, isn't it? Mm.
... I'm going to vote laugh. Generally there is no one thing that immediately... no, that's not right.

Are we talking initially, or what we're looking for in a long-term partner? Because the latter is obviously personality, and the former is obviously looks (for the most part anyway; if you meet someone over the 'net without knowing what they look like then it'll be personality again, wouldn't it? But how often does anyone pursue a relationship without knowing what the person in question looks like? Sure, it shouldn't matter if everything else is perfect, but it does.). Could there be anything worse than living with someone with whom you couldn't gel with whatsoever?

 

[MrTub]

well I would have to say personality, since if I cannot trust the person I would have to assume that I would not be able to be in a relationship with her..

 

[krazykidd]

Her ass . I like big butts and i cannot lie . Seriously i love women with huge booties . But not just big booties . I like fat women . But i look at her ass first , the bigger the better . Oh but she has to be white or it's a no go.

 

[Dreiko_v1legacy]

I'd say "cultural uniformity" but I guess the closest thing there is "personality" so I voted that. If you don't get me and my cultural background, you're instantly less attractive than someone who will follow my "atatatatata!" with "omae wa mou shindeiru!" without being prompted.

 

[Special_Agent_Goodwrench]

Definitely personality, which I'd also say includes sense of humor. I might add smile and voice as well. I'm a sucker for accents.

 

[StriderShinryu]

Hmm.. it`s a tough call due to the wording of the question. Absolutely, looks first and foremost. If a lady doesn`t have curves and at least shoulder length hair, it`s fairly rare for me to give a second or third look. But that`s just a first site kind of thing. Once I get to know a girl a little, even if I didn`t initially find her particularly attractive, things can change and at that point attraction is much more about the little things like personality or finer appearance details like eyes. I love me a beautiful pair of eyes.

 

[thomaskattus]

Personality. As in they actually have to have one.

A person can be utterly gorgeous, great in bed, and want to buy me Armani suits but if they have no personality or wit then the relationship swiftly becomes boring.

 

[Zhukov]

Elbows.

Can't resist dem shapely arm joints.

 

[Eusebius]

Sense of humor, if a guy can make me laugh, I'll always enjoy being around him. Of course looks matter too, I'm not going to be attracted to a guy no matter what if I don't like what I see, but it's not like there's one particular physical feature I require and that's not what catches my interest the most.

 

[thomaskattus]

In second place however, a set of wide, deep, vibrant eyes will always catch my attention.

 

[Loop Stricken]

Once I get to know a girl a little, even if I didn`t initially find her particularly attractive, things can change and at that point attraction is much more about the little things like personality or finer appearance details like eyes.

Quite true.
ANECDOTE!

Started talking to a girl in WoW. Hated her, played the same class so were were in direct competition. Argued all the time and she was so goddamn terse, and I'm keyboard-rambler extraordinaire.
For the good of the guild I make an effort to bury the hatchet, try being nice. We talk more and more though she's still terse, unless drunk in which case more rambly.
Now I like fairly tall girls with dark hair and small-to-average breasts. She was a short ginger lass with massive norks. Not my type at all.
And yet... my tastes meandered a bit.

Of course it was all lies and it was some weirdo man using hundreds of stolen Facebook photos to fool many people into thinking he was a she, so after some angry and shameful crying in the shower washing the filth away with a wire brush, I just excommunicated the tosser. [http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=628460909]

But yeah. Anecdote!

 

[scorptatious]

It's sort of a mix for me. I like a girl that looks nice, but I also like it if they are nice personality wise as well.

I like big butts and i cannot lie .

You other brothers can't deny.

 

[Blobpie]

I....have no idea.... I should really think about this one of these days...