Poll: What do you do if someone doesn't like you?

[DragonsAteMyMarbles]

I'll assume they have a good reason, and quietly plot my revenge.
Preferably involving the placebo effect. That's always fun to play with.

 

[ProfessorLayton]

Not true. My best friend, a very spiritual person, was dating an atheist for a bit over 8 months.

I mean, the guy got her pregnant, but still... there are exceptions to the "atheists and religious people don't date" rule.

Well then your friend isn't as spiritual as you think I guess. The Bible says directly that you aren't supposed to date people outside of your religion. Also sex before marriage is a no no as well. There are no exceptions, there are just people who don't follow the rules.

 

[ZeroMachine]

Not true. My best friend, a very spiritual person, was dating an atheist for a bit over 8 months.

I mean, the guy got her pregnant, but still... there are exceptions to the "atheists and religious people don't date" rule.

Well then your friend isn't as spiritual as you think I guess. The Bible says directly that you aren't supposed to date people outside of your religion. Also sex before marriage is a no no as well. There are no exceptions, there are just people who don't follow the rules.

Actually, she's exactly as spiritual as I think. "Spiritual" and "religious" are too seperate things that intersect. She is Catholic, and she believes in the Catholic god and Jesus with all of her heart, but she disagrees with many things the man-made church says.

Please don't act like I know less about my friend then you. Not saying that to be a jerk, it just really irks me.

 

[zerzxes]

Somwhere beeteween 80-90% of the people at my shcool dislikes me. I don't give a shit.

 

[Professor Idle]

I usually panic a bit. I've always been a bit iffy about not being accepted. It's a stupid thing to worry about, I know.

 

[Chancie]

I really don't care too much, so I just ignore them. I'm not one of those people that has to be liked by everyone.

Though, to be honest, I've never done anything for people not to like me. I'm a rather quiet person and once you get to know me, I'm really friendly. So...I'd like to think I don't have many enemies. xD

 

[BonsaiK]

hey if you know someone who doesn't like you, but you don't know why... what do you do?

Because there's absolutely no doubt in my mind that you're having a relationship problem, I've answered your question here: http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=12#3586848

 

[Skeleon]

Ignore them unless they get in my face about it (i.e. if they actually dislike me).
There are plenty of people I don't like (not dislike, just not like) whom I also ignore.
There's no malice involved.

 

[Rhatar Khurin]

Cry!... No wait.. waits the opposite of that? Shrug?

 

[justhereforthemoney]

I wouldn't know, I have never had that problem. I'm just too cute and cuddly.

 

[El Poncho]

If they don't like me I would know what I could of done to make them hate me but if they hate me for no reason they are twats therefor I don't care.

 

[Jedamethis]

Ignore them, they must be a figment of my imagination...
After all, only my brain doesn't like me.

 

[Yeq]

It depends. If I don't like them too then we don't have an issue; I'll avoid them and they'll avoid me and we'll both be happier for it. In the cases when I like them, though, it's an entirely different thing. I'll tend to go fucking crazy over it. I won't change the way I act, which is probably less of a virtue than it's made out to be and more just being obstinate. But, yeah, I'll ask around and really try hard to figure out why. It's a little pathetic but frankly I think that ship has sailed.

 

[Caprice0083]

Not everyone is going to like you just like there are people you don't like. Don't think about them, don't care.

 

[War Penguin]

Try not to bother him or her. That person hates me enough as it is why make things worse?

 

[Xelioth]

meh. I don't much care about every little person's approval. if they have good reason for hating me, I might change that part of myself, but if they just don't like who I am I'm fine with that. not everyone is going to like everyone else.

 

[Above]

destroy them

either try and be friends (again)

or just ignore them

 

[Disaster Button]

I'd ask them why but I wouldn't be too bothered, people don't like everyone and I'm fine with it. But I'd still ask out of curiousity and for something else to obsess over but ultimately I wouldn't care.

If they were my friends previously though I'd try and make up with them.