Before i even begin, can i say im soon to be training as a medical proffessional, and i shall refuse to do any circumsisions ever unless STRICTLY for a legitimate medical purpose.
Oskamunda said:
Le Sigh.
Before I even begin...against your will? REALLY?
Many people on this thread wish they havnt been circumsized. Against their will. If a choice was made for me that potentially forever changes the way i am theres a 50/50 chance ill hate it, is that really fair?
In the eyes of the law - no consent = unconsenting. Its how it works for sex, id like to think thats how it works for cosmetic surgery.
you meant the pain aspect; logically, all babies want to avoid pain, so it follows that any procedure that causes pain would be against their will (if you are going the route an infant actually has the intellectual capability to argue against any kind of "rights" he may or may not have, then...lolwhut). I guess that logically includes being ripped from that warm and comfy womb where all the sustenance you need is pumped into you by a fleshtube and traveling down the birth canal and having your head compressed as you erupt into a world of cold, bright lights, and unfiltered noises to begin that process called LIFE, right? Oh, that's right...that's not logical...
No ones arguing about pain. However simply because a child doesnt remember pain doesnt make UNNECCESSARY PAIN ok. Like a pointless operation? If it makes no difference like you said, why not just leave it for the child to decide? After all it makes no difference. I call it akin to tattooing your childs penis matt black all over. No functional difference apparently, just a pointless painfull procedure that could stay with them forever for no other reason than YOUR wishes over them.
I made that thinking one's religious views or cultural views (or even personal moral views, now that we get down to it) give them the right to dictate terms to another human being is bunk.
Are you KIDDING ME?! Is this a JOKE?! Read this again. Read it another time. So MY Cultural view CANT tell you not to cut a child... but YOUR religious view can dictate to a person that their penis shall be cut in a way you want without any input from them? At all? Can you not see the hypocracy there?! Im not sure you realise what you wrote.
You are dictating terms to a baby that will one day be a person about the status of its genetalia. Im dictating a term saying "Please dont cut peoples genetalia". Which one is worse.... hmmmmm. "le sigh"
At the end of the day ALL you are arguing is:
My right to cut my childs dong how i want > My childs right to choose how his dong looks
Its his fucking dong. Why dont you leave it alone? Since when does ANYONES opinion about the way your freaking GENITALS LOOK mean ANYTHING but yours?
Where the hell do you even get off. There is NO legitimate reason for you to want to cut someones dick because wait for it.... its not yours

unless purely medical. Its like me randomly wanting to cut some randomers dick in the street.
If the "damage" done can be reversed with a bit of diligence, and nothing else, then what is the problem after all? If you were uncut as a child, and decide you want to be cut, then getting circumcised as an adult can cost $500~$2000 (depending on the doctor and the area and the type of anesthetic) and can be a very painful process over a long period of time as the penis heals...whereas most infants won't be using the penis for urination or sex regularly, and the hyper state of growth in an infant body makes the healing process take less time. Growing your foreskin back as an adult is pain free and costs nothing...are you just lazy?
Did some research. Lets see.
"some aspects of the debate regarding restoration suffer from a lack of evidence, or are based on anecdotal evidence, and comments that "the placebo effect ... cannot be discounted." He also states that restoration procedures are "certainly feasible, but they are not without considerable risks, not least of which is loss of sensation of the penile shaft."
Also found this.
"The poll also asked about awareness of or involvement in foreskin restoration, and included an open comment section. Many respondents and their wives "reported that restoration resolved the unnatural dryness of the circumcised penis, which caused abrasion, pain or bleeding during intercourse, and that restoration offered unique pleasures, which enhanced sexual intimacy."
So you want to potentially subject your child to this? And when he complains you will yell, "DONT BE SO GODDAM LAZY FIX A PROBLEM THATS MY FAULT THAT I DID FOR NO REASON WITH LOTS OF HARD WORK OR CORRECTIVE SURGERY" You know whats easier? Not doing it at all and letting them decide

then any negative side effects are not your fault.
The birthing process itself is very traumatic and painful to an infant, perhaps we should forego all that malarkey and just give every mother a C-section for the baby's sake, regardless of cost or the mother's wishes; after all, the stomach is so customizable let's put some ritual scarification on it! Hell, we've already started with the whole belly button thing by cutting that freaky umbilical cord, why not keep going!
I love the way you try and compare birth and a C section, both neccessary and usefull mecical procedures, with something that is, in essence, an unneccessary cosmetic surgery. I love it. So that breast enlargements the same as that guys cancer treatment? No. Thats a stupid comparison. You must see the comparison between A MEDICALLY NECCESSARY procedure and what you describe as a "procedure that makes no difference" is fallacy right? That it makes no sense? If it makes no difference it is by definition pointless and as such to perform pointless surgery on an infant is dangerous and stupid. Give my kid an apendectamy doctor! Because no apendix is cool!
I know that a lot of people really don't like logic, but that's what it boils down to. Logically, it really doesn't fucking matter. If you feel it is right to do it to your baby, then do it. If not, then don't. Here's what not to do:
Im asking my doctor to tattoo my babies penis matt black and chop off the end of its little toes. There we go

fair and just! Logic is accepting a persons rights are greater than what you deem that person should be. You say im victimising your rights for victimising a babies rights to not have a chopped penis. You cant victimise a homophobe for being a homophobe. And i cant victimise you for pointlessly cutting a childs dick.
I love logic. I love the logic that any major choice in my life or about my appearance should be mine from the earliest age possible and not made for me.
Don't get on a high horse and convince yourself (and try to convince those around you) that your evaluation of the morals at play illustrate the only correct choice is the one you espouse, ESPECIALLY when you are trying to trump one person's "rights" to favor another person's "rights."
So its not ok to convince someone my preference is right, but its ok to mark someone with your preference against their will in a physical display? Uhuh.... im not trying to trump your rights. Your RIGHT to cut a child is a load of fucking bullshit. I deny you that right. You dont deserve it. Move to a country that allows genital mutilation if you want to mutilate genitals. Deal with it. Its wrong to cut a baby for no reasonable medical reason in ANY other situation, i deny you any exception because "hey i wanted it".
Just to be clear, that is not an accusation against you personally, Mr. Trouser of Biscuits, it is a general statement of advice for everyone. You may notice that it seems I am doing the very thing I argue against, but take this into account: the view I am espousing is a view of logic, not morality, which we all know can vary from one culture to the next.
I know this is getting TLDR, but one last thing I find really interesting...
Most of the anti-circumcision agents are liberals, and they use the exact same kind of human-rights arguments that the conservatives use when they take the Pro-Life stance...doesn't logically add up.
Sorry it does. A real baby and an egg and a sperm are different things. An acorn isnt a tree. We are not discussing the same topic, the arguements are the same but they apply to a completely different situation. You really need to work on comparison.
Cosmetic surgery for someone else with no input from them = medical proceadure.
Saying a living breathing human shouldnt be cut = Killing a zygote thats barely 100 cells.
Ok the above statement is bias, but from a biological point of view a zygote is a different entity to a baby. It just is. One doesnt have a nervous system. We are talking about two very different topics that cant really be compared.
Please read the above for my response.
Actually dont respond unless you have another point to make.
From what youve posted your opinion really is
"Its bad people are victimising us for cutting children"
And
"Our right to cut them is greater than anyones right to stop us from doing something to someone who has no capability to protest or decide"
It IS our right to protect children from pointless, potentially harmfull surgeries just because of your personal preference. A baby is not an object! You cannot just customise it as you want when so many side effects are possible. it isnt medically ethical and i will personally shun doctors who think it is. A disgrace for everything medicine stands for. TO preserve. To treat. To help people. Not to cut a baby because a father decides its a fun sounding idea. Thats freaking sick in the head. This barbaric process needs to be stamped out, and if i have any future say in the medical community ill be sure to try.
You also keep talking about "enforcing peoples rights on me to not cut my baby" rather than "im enforcing my personal preference onto a small child". The hypocracy is astounding. You obviously care about your designer baby more than the welfare of the child.
You might feel im some sort of neo nazi for denying you your precious god given right to aesthetically customise your baby but i dont really care. Thats fine. I feel youre some sort of hidious monster for wanting to cut a child for no real reason.
Its fine to disagree with me, lets just get out here. Admit to me your view is:
"My right to choose preference > my childs right to choose preference"
And then we can agree to disagree.
If that is your view then im sorry. I dont want to talk to you anymore.
Rodrigo Girao said:
Oskamunda said:
Plus, until we get an adult male who had an adult circumcision to tell us what the difference actually was before and after, how are we to know what the real difference is?
Oh, that'd be me. And the best description of the "real difference" may be inferred from my opinion that circumcisers should be slain like rabid dogs.
Id do anything. Anything. To stop my kid from feeling this way. No matter how slight the chance. 0.0000001% because any chance is 100% unneccessary. Put aside my petty desire for my kids penis to be slashed? Yes. Yes i would.