Speaking as someone who's not cut, you'd be guessing wrong. Although I imagine you are likely correct for most. I've certainly considered it but likely never well due to the plain and simple fear of anything sharp going "down there" that isn't strictly necessary, and due to not wanting to deal with getting used to the change.Llil said:Just go ask someone who's not cut, if he'd consider doing it to himself. I'm guessing he'll say no.
But, if I could go back now and weigh in on my parents decision? Yeah, I wish they'd had it done. Not because of any medical reasons, or whatever meaningless arguments about sensation, pleasure potential and what have you, but simply because I know it had a negative impact on my self esteem growing up.
I don't really know why, as it's not like all the local kids got together, compared dicks and I was the odd one out. In fact, I have no recollection of any events that would explain why I thought of myself as different, as I had no means of comparison on that front. But regardless of the reason, somehow I got the idea in my head at a young age that the foreskin wasn't a normal thing, and it was fairly close to highschool before I realized that that wasn't true at all.
Anyways, that's just me though, and while unfortunate is not necessarily a common experience, and likely even less so in parts of the world where circumcision isn't the norm. So that personal background aside, I also wish it had been done simply because I think it looks better. And let's face it, to the common guy, most of this boils down to little more than wanting to be as proud as possible of what we've got on display when we drop our pants, and I find that much harder to manage with the silly looking flap of skin on the end.
Now, what it really comes down to... Sure, I'd wish it'd been done with me, but that's not going to be changing, so.. Would I do it to my own son if I have one? I don't know. In theory, I'm against it. Better looking or not, I still feel as if it's an unnecessary mutilation. But can I stick with that opinion knowing full well the times in my own youth, and even now, that it was a negative influence? I'm not sure.
Odds are I'd just go through with it. Cruel and unusual, maybe. But can't say I know many people who were circumcised as infants and have come to resent it, so I doubt I'd be particularly concerned about it and could at least take comfort knowing that some of my own issues might not be duplicated.