Text wall! (If this needs to be broken up, let me know, I'm just trying not to comment spam)
First let me say I think clearer definitions of the subsets of furries would help the love-it/hate-it debate. It?s hard to deal with something that is so amorphous?
Lenoh said:
bdcjacko said:
What ever they do in the privacy of their own home is fine. But it isn't something that needs to be public.
This. So very, very this.
I don't care if you [censored] your [censored] inside her [censored] while [censored] [censored] [censored] a clown's [censored] while [censored] and an apple pie. It's just that I don't want to know about it.
TOTALLY made me think of this.
On topic...
Generic Gamer said:
Not got a problem with sexual fetishes as a rule, but I have to admit furries piss me off.
I've posted about it before so this may be a little copypasta if I get quoted but the fact is that a majority of furries view it as a sexual thing, surveys prove it and all. That under consideration do I really need to read about someone's sexual fetishes online? Like, right in the middle of my Escapist?
Generic Gamer said:
nickyv917 said:
Generic Gamer said:
...the fact is that a majority of furries view it as a sexual thing
Incorrect, sir. I know a furry, and he has let know that it definitely isn't a sexual thing. In fact, he also said that you don't need an animal costume to be a furry.
What you did there, do you see it?
Me: "statistically a large proportion of this group are X."
You: "I know one person who isn't X (or says he isn't) and thus none of them are."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Furry_fandom#Sexual_aspects
As per every time I argue this, I have figures that back me up. Looks like out of every 5 furries 4 are jacking it, weird huh? Looks like maybe they don't want to admit to it but also want their fetish pubic.
The only studies I found (yes they were the ones on Wikipedia) had a ridiculously low sample size (300 and less), and even within them only 33% were heavily into sex and 0% saw it as purely sexual. Maybe if there was a larger sample size generalizations could be made, but not with so few.
http://www.furrysociology.net/report.htm
Besides (and no this isn't a "it's not sexual" rant, quite the opposite), for most of the furries I know it's only sexual as a side thing between them and their partner. Fursonas are an alternate persona, who happens to be anthro, and sex is bound to come up at some point because it's human nature. Sex is a part of life, so of course it would crop up in ANY lifestyle and it's unsurprising that parts of lifestyles become incorporated into someone?s sexuality over time because you're steeped in it so much. None of those in the survey were in it for the sex, sex just happened to be something that many felt was a factor of their fur-dom.
I don't mean to go too "OMG! Someone is wrong on the internets!!!11!!1!1!," but seriously, don't say things without backing them up when you've got the internet at your disposal, Google is right there.
Also,
CM156 said:
Generic Gamer said:
Oh, also they're fun to troll for drama, their community has a load of defectives in it.
I will say they are fun to annoy, because all you need to do is say a few negative things for them to start shouting about fursecution,
I dislike the community because they have one of the largest persecution complexes I have ever seen. Grow up!
EDIT: What you do on your own time is your own business. However, make it public, and I reserve the right to judge/laugh at you
Did you ever think maybe the reason they say they're persecuted is
because you won't stop trolling?
As with a lot of things on the internet the vocal minority and weirder fringe groups come out because they can and seem much more prominent than they are.
Also-also,
Furry =/= Beastiality
There's probably overlap somewhere, but most furs I know draw a line with things that aren't sentient. Plus I know a few who think that's downright wrong. I have yet to meet one who's turned on by their pet.
Gralian said:
Is social identity really that important to you, even if it can lead to discrimination and hatred?
Short answer, yes. No matter how you define yourself someone, somewhere, will hate you for it. Why not be as true to yourself as possible as long as it causes no one harm?
