That's not immersion. Immersion should be afforded even if you are playing a game where the protagonist is a mandated female (Metroid, Tomb Raider series).
Also, that doesn't make it ROLE PLAYING, whether it's a "good thing" or not.
because I don't know what being a female is like, I don't think like a female and overall, I am non-female in every way.
Do you know what it's like to be an elf? an alien? Hell, do you know what it's like to be an atheist, jew, muslim or any other belief that might not apply to you? Do you know what it's like to be left/right handed (pick whichever one you're not)?
I guess what I'm asking here is: Is your idea of "ROLE PLAYING" and "IMMERSION" only applicable as long as you're only playing a person of your race, gender, sexuality, religion, handedness, ability/disability, etc?
That's not ROLEPLAYING. It's POWER FANTASY and SELF INSERTION. And that's fine, but don't play the "ROLE PLAYING" card.
So I feel disconnected from female characters. Not necessarily a bad thing, when playing an actual character like Jade in Beyond Good and Evil, where I watch the stuff happening to Jade and Jade is a character of it's own.
But you are not immersed by that. If immersion is good, what is lack of immersion?
However, when I am asked to create my own character, Gender, looks, charasteristics, hobbies, interests, personality, in games like The Elder Scrolls, I obviosly ( to me at least) make it look, feel and act like I would in the situation.
Which is fine, but it's just playing yourself.