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Most JRPG's tend to focus more on story and character development whereas western RPGs have always sought to actually have you play a role in a much larger enviroment. That being said, most JRPG characters follow the same goddamned archetype and basically never really develop at all leading to strange and illogical choices and decisions the characters end up making simply for an attempt at showing their character "grow". Most western RPG's on the other hand, have absolutely no real character development (for the main characters that is) and basically give you a world to take your drab soul less character out to explore (but you get to customize his appearance!). Bottom line for me, if you're a whiny 14 year old who has no time to devote to making a character they might actually want to play as then JRPG's should be right up your alley (minus a few of the true classics like chrono trigger or the more recent lost oddyssey). If you're into living in a fantasy world vicariously through somebody who doesn't speak or whose actions are squarely dictated by you (but still not amounting to much in the way of affecting the story) then Western RPG's are the way to go. Personally, I prefer the older JRPG's, before the square enix merger, before the forming of mistwalker studios, and before the only good modern JRPG's were part of the MEGATEN series (again, lost odyssey not withstanding), but on modern consoles generally play Western RPG's (Mass effect, and FALLOUT 3 come to mind). Also, japanese pop culture is to0 insanely sugary sweet for me, I live in japan, it permeates EVERYTHING, and is really nothing more then an excuse to cover up their blatant perversions (as westerners perceive it anyway). That being said, japanese classical culture is probrably the most beautiful thing any society has ever produced.