I'm not the leader just the one who has too do all the rubbish jobs also i either die first or last out of my team.
Hey, every group needs a good leader and they are hard to come by. I play the supporter so i don't have to lead, and i'm way to laid back to be a proper leader at times.Candidus said:The leader. A good heart, endless patience and a strong back. Everyone's pillar, nobody's burden. I'm not saying I've reached the pinnacle of that state, but I know what it is and I do my best to be in that place every second of every day.
People have started counting on it- they *started* a while back. I'm deferred to, although I've never used it to impose my way on anyone; because I don't think that's what a leader does. A leader shores his friends up where they're weakest, and takes everybody in his fold on the path of least resistance (If there is no path of least resistance, you make one).
Your BF left you and your shared friends have gone with him. You tell me you're lonely; "you feel as empty as your house"?. I'll organise a LAN fest at your place. You'll meet a tonne of people, I'll be there to stop anybody getting out of hand, I'll (buy and) handle the food, the hardware, the setup. Just take it easy.
And so on.
Definately feel like the leader. Actually, I might as well say honestly that... I want to be the leader! xD Whether that makes me bad or makes what I do invalid, I don't know. I do what I do because it comes naturally, but I *like* where that puts me in a group. I'm not sure I've explained it well there. '\_()_/` :shrug: