Poll: What should I do?

[q12345678901234567890]

Are you caling me a troll? See if i was one, iwould have gone to 4chan for help. But i went to a place full of smart people, not trolls

Well aren't you just a model citizen!?
Seriously though, this is just becoming rather funny. What is with that? "But i want to a place full of smart people, not trolls"
So you, as a troll, thinks not to try to troll the trolls, but rather the "smart people"? What?

You're purposefully not making sense here, troll-boy.

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[darkless]

If you care about someone as much as OP claims to you dont just dump them at the first sign they don't want exactly what you want, when you want it, patience is a virtue.

And to answer your question, Me.

Sex isn't special anymore. It's fun and good times.
Nobody saves themselves for marriage.
"I am not ready"... Then get ready fast, seriously

I can understand having patience, when you really care for somebody, but then that somebody should try satisfying your needs regardless, as they should care as much for you.

The best, along with being the most meaningfull, experience of a relationship is the sex - as with anything. Who doesn't want it?

Tell me, if it isn't too personal of a question, why you are not "putting out"? Or, if you a boy, why on earth you are the only one without a sexdrive?

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

 

[PrimoThePro]

Well i can see my self being with her forever and ever, but the thing is, its not set in stone, so anything can happen

See, you're at the exact same spot I was at! Now, if you can see it, that's pretty good. Do you want it to last forever? Answer that for yourself. If you do want it, and you know you want her to be with you forever, than I say don't go for it, and let the relationship take it's course. If you don't want to be with her forever, or if you even feel the slightest bit apprehensive about life with her, than I suggest enjoy the relationship while it lasts. And I do mean enjoy it.

 

[s0denone]

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

While there is the personal variable, obviously, I would expect to get action before 3 months have passed, which is the case with the OP.

Sex is legal for their age, so I don't see the problem at all.

I'm not saying sex is mandatory on the first date... But I am saying it should be getting close* on the third/fourth.

*should be happening.

 

[q12345678901234567890]

If you care about someone as much as OP claims to you dont just dump them at the first sign they don't want exactly what you want, when you want it, patience is a virtue.

And to answer your question, Me.

Sex isn't special anymore. It's fun and good times.
Nobody saves themselves for marriage.
"I am not ready"... Then get ready fast, seriously

I can understand having patience, when you really care for somebody, but then that somebody should try satisfying your needs regardless, as they should care as much for you.

The best, along with being the most meaningfull, experience of a relationship is the sex - as with anything. Who doesn't want it?

Tell me, if it isn't too personal of a question, why you are not "putting out"? Or, if you a boy, why on earth you are the only one without a sexdrive?

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

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[darkless]

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

While there is the personal variable, obviously, I would expect to get action before 3 months have passed, which is the case with the OP.

Sex is legal for their age, so I don't see the problem at all.

I'm not saying sex is mandatory on the first date... But I am saying it should be getting close* on the third/fourth.

*should be happening.

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?

 

[s0denone]

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

While there is the personal variable, obviously, I would expect to get action before 3 months have passed, which is the case with the OP.

Sex is legal for their age, so I don't see the problem at all.

I'm not saying sex is mandatory on the first date... But I am saying it should be getting close* on the third/fourth.

*should be happening.

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?

Yes.
Why does this surprise you?
Sex isn't revered anymore - it isn't, as stated, special anymore. It's sex. It's fun and games. Of course I want sex in a relationship. What are you talking about 4 or 5 months? I would be out of there in less than 2, excuse me.

 

[darkless]

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

While there is the personal variable, obviously, I would expect to get action before 3 months have passed, which is the case with the OP.

Sex is legal for their age, so I don't see the problem at all.

I'm not saying sex is mandatory on the first date... But I am saying it should be getting close* on the third/fourth.

*should be happening.

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?

Yes.
Why does this surprise you?
Sex isn't revered anymore - it isn't, as stated, special anymore. It's sex. It's fun and games. Of course I want sex in a relationship. What are you talking about 4 or 5 months? I would be out of there in less than 2, excuse me.

just because it's not special for you doesn't mean its not special for the girl you are stringing along just so you can into her pants god help you if you ever fall for a girl who can't have sex.

 

[s0denone]

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?

Yes.
Why does this surprise you?
Sex isn't revered anymore - it isn't, as stated, special anymore. It's sex. It's fun and games. Of course I want sex in a relationship. What are you talking about 4 or 5 months? I would be out of there in less than 2, excuse me.

just because it's not special for you doesn't mean its not special for the girl you are stringing along just so you can into her pants god help you if you ever fall for a girl who can't have sex.

What? "Strining along just so you can into her pants"? Did you just write that?
C'mon man.
It's a simple expression, a little clichéed, and quite horrible, but it fits the bill perfectly here: "You need to get out more".

I am not in the minority here. I am part of the majority.

You'd be quite surprised to see how many girls demand sex in a relationship as well, but this is all round to the reverse-discrimination. It is malechauvinism in essence, even if it does not appear so. Woman are sexual deviants too, my friend.

 

[Snarky Username]

I say you let things go naturally. If you really need sex that badly, that's what the fleshlight is for!

 

[darkless]

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?

Yes.
Why does this surprise you?
Sex isn't revered anymore - it isn't, as stated, special anymore. It's sex. It's fun and games. Of course I want sex in a relationship. What are you talking about 4 or 5 months? I would be out of there in less than 2, excuse me.

just because it's not special for you doesn't mean its not special for the girl you are stringing along just so you can into her pants god help you if you ever fall for a girl who can't have sex.

What? "Strining along just so you can into her pants"? Did you just write that?
C'mon man.
It's a simple expression, a little clichéed, and quite horrible, but it fits the bill perfectly here: "You need to get out more".

I am not in the minority here. I am part of the majority.

You'd be quite surprised to see how many girls demand sex in a relationship as well, but this is all round to the reverse-discrimination. It is malechauvinism in essence, even if it does not appear so. Woman are sexual deviants too, my friend.

I'm well aware that some woman are just as eager as men but not ALL of them are and assuming they are all up for it doesn't make it true, and that's exactly what you just said you do.

Actually real quick hope you see this edit, how old are you? this could explain a lot.

 

[s0denone]

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?

Yes.
Why does this surprise you?
Sex isn't revered anymore - it isn't, as stated, special anymore. It's sex. It's fun and games. Of course I want sex in a relationship. What are you talking about 4 or 5 months? I would be out of there in less than 2, excuse me.

just because it's not special for you doesn't mean its not special for the girl you are stringing along just so you can into her pants god help you if you ever fall for a girl who can't have sex.

What? "Strining along just so you can into her pants"? Did you just write that?
C'mon man.
It's a simple expression, a little clichéed, and quite horrible, but it fits the bill perfectly here: "You need to get out more".

I am not in the minority here. I am part of the majority.

You'd be quite surprised to see how many girls demand sex in a relationship as well, but this is all round to the reverse-discrimination. It is malechauvinism in essence, even if it does not appear so. Woman are sexual deviants too, my friend.

I'm well aware that some woman are just as eager as men but not ALL of them are and assuming they are all up for it doesn't make it true, and that's exactly what you just said you do.

That's not at all what I said... Stop putting words in my mouth.

I stated that I, personally, would get out of a relationship if the one I was with did not "give" me sex. It is quite obviously implied that I know some may not do so(even though not in my country) which is why I start off by making it clear that I would get out of there.

Having a desire for sex just means you pair up with someone who has that same passion, and it works out fine. If you, as a male, would rather not have sex, you should just court a celibacy-practitioning christian. Why not?

 

[antipunt]

*DANGER* Will Robinson....*DANGER*

 

[himemiya1650]

Go for it the worst she can do is say no, if you feel she'll stay with you.

 

[darkless]

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

 

[q12345678901234567890]

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

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[darkless]

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

you got a point, but from what hes saying, hes probly 18, mabye hes 20, but i dont think so

Actually I would guess older around 21 and up and he's actually being reasonable.

 

[s0denone]

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

How is there any relevance, and why are you not replying to my post?
Unlike you, however, I don't dance around things that I can't come up with an answer to. (You're forcing me to make that assumption)

I'm 23, but again, what is the relevance? I'm older than you are, as far as I can see.

 

[Luke Cartner]

Three very important things I have learned in regard to women as I grew up, got married and then had kids:

1) Women love physical intimacy (that is assuming what you do rocks her boat, and if it doesn't sorry but your relationship is doomed to failure) as much (some times more) as guys do
2) No one can read minds, so while she might sense something is wrong she wont know what until you talk to her. For all you know she is wondering what she has to do to make you jump her.
3) And this is the most important and applies to all aspects of life: If you don't ask, you don't get

 

[darkless]

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

How is there any relevance, and why are you not replying to my post?
Unlike you, however, I don't dance around things that I can't come up with an answer to. (You're forcing me to make that assumption)

I'm 23, but again, what is the relevance? I'm older than you are, as far as I can see.

There is relevance and yes you are 2 years older than me.

The relevance here is unless you are breaking the law you are dating older mature woman so what you have been saying is perfectly reasonable (I must apologize at this point this whole time I was assuming you where the OP's age) you date woman who have been there and done that so sex is nothing new to them, but in the case of the OP they are 17 and 18 and since he's on the internet asking advice it's safe to assume he's a virgin and that she may be too, as such she should not be expected to hop into bed at just 3 months, while after the first time sex may become fun and games a girls first time s not and being as old as you are you should at the very least realize that.