I don't do them, and while at times I am mildly curious about it I always end up thinking of my brother and it kills any desire to use them. If they ever became legal i would likely be more inclined to try it.
I also do not mind other people do them. I know people who use it and they lead perfect fine lives. Go to work, attend college at maintain good grades.
What i don't like about them is the bits of crap people talk about them. The way some people act like its the most greatest thing in the world. When i hear a kid say "Oh man, i haven't gotten high in 12 hours this sucks" or "I can;t get through a day of work without getting high" when talking about there Mc job I'm sorry but I can;t help but feel disgusted. I don't ridicule them for it, because its none of my business, however it still seems pathetic to me. Care to note anyone who acts like that about anything bothers me. Be it drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, shopping, sex. Liking these things are fine, but when you earnestly start bitching about not having them for half a day or complaining you can't get through a boring job without them...
As well as the under estimation of the mental effects it has. While similar to alcohol in a way to escape bad situations pot has no real physical side effect to punish you. While a night drinking after a bad day at work might end with a hangover and feeling like shit pot won't. So while the person who drinks may become mildly discouraged to drink away problems the one who used pot has no physical reason to want to avoid pot again. So while the drinker might not drink next time a emotional problem arises the drug user is much more likely to go back to pot to medicate an emotional problem.
In the hands of a responsible, emotionally healthy person pot can be a nice way to relax without any repercussions. Then again so is alcohol, video games, sex, tv, food. We can see how all these things can violently bite your ass.
I feel the dangers of pot in particular are underplayed and ignored. When i hear "booze is more dangerous" well yeah physically maybe. However in the hands of someone who is very emotional *cough* teenagers *cough* what you can get is people who have medicated themselves every bad feeling. Who have become emotionally dependent on the drug. When the drugs effects DO start to weaken this is when people move on to harder shit. This is the gateway effect your teachers taught you. However doing pot will NOT force you into this cycle. Doing pot every time the smallest thing happens to you will. I watched as a friend of mine from school did this. She medicated every negative feeling. Then moved on to hard drugs.
Please, before you quote me and tell me how you smoked weed all through high school and your perfectly fine realize a) I'm probably not talking about you and b) i know this doesn't happen to everyone. I know more well adjusted drug users then maladjusted ones.
I however feel that if pot or anything like it is ever to get closer to becoming legal people need to start accepting the side effects of the substance. The more people deny any negative issues that are carried along with weed the more people can use it against the substance. Move for responsible use, not remaining blissful ignorant of real dangers of the substance.
Thank you.