Poll: When did you lose your virginity?

[Bara_no_Hime]

............you sound interesting

Thank you.

I was going to add a few more, but I figured that was probably enough all ready.

And, to be honest, I think I may have had my first experience with bondage when I was 19. Not positive - I know it was that year of college, but I'm not sure which side of my birthday it was.

 

[DreamaSkylar]

You should get tested for STIs after every sexual partner anyway. Some people have them and are unawares.

Welcome to American health care system.

Planned Parenthood is great if you have access to one.

Everything but AIDS and HPV is pretty much self evident

False. -Loads- of STIs are asymptomatic: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/std-symptoms/ID00053

I mean, I have a hard enough time getting girls to talk to me. I can't add, "I have an uncurable STD" to that list. I'd almost rather not know.

I'm sure you'd want to know if you had a curable one.

 

[soren7550]

Was 19 when it finally happened. In all honesty, I'm not sure it went well. -_-'

Love ya Mr. Boyfriend! X]

 

[crudus]

Thank you.

I was going to add a few more, but I figured that was probably enough all ready.

Now you have just got me curious.

Agreed! Someone I'D like to get to know lol

My philosophy is that you can't know enough lesbians.

 

[Grey Day for Elcia]

14, and i regret it every day.

Because it was with a girl, I'm guessing?

It was a girl, but that's not why i regret it, i regret it, because i was so young, i wished i would have waited.

I was abused as a child and never got to experience sex the normal way, so regret in this area I understand. My words of advice: don't regret it or wish you could change it. Know that it's done and you can be a better person for it--be it smarter, wiser or stronger.

The only things in life we have to regret and those we refuse to grow from.

 

[SuaveSalarian]

Mine was at 14. But, I turned 15 this May 19th, I actually lost it on April 13th.

 

[teebeeohh]

17 it was kinda a strange relationship because it was my first one that I could see lasting longer but it did have a fixed expiration date from the start. I
Oh and I don't regret a thing, despite the fact that it was my first real opportunity for sex and I went for it right away. Which in hindsight sounds more pathetic than it was

 

[zelda2fanboy]

You should get tested for STIs after every sexual partner anyway. Some people have them and are unawares.

Welcome to American health care system.

Planned Parenthood is great if you have access to one.

Everything but AIDS and HPV is pretty much self evident

False. -Loads- of STIs are asymptomatic: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/std-symptoms/ID00053

I mean, I have a hard enough time getting girls to talk to me. I can't add, "I have an uncurable STD" to that list. I'd almost rather not know.

I'm sure you'd want to know if you had a curable one.

According to this, it's not that simple. http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/std-testing/ID00047
I don't fall under the criteria for any of the STD testing, except for HIV/hepatitis (which seems, I know, seems very unlikely given the circumstances). For some reason, most of the testing is recommended for women and gay men. Herpes and HPV can't even really be tested if there aren't visible warts or lesions. And the classics like gonorrhea and chlamydia can be found in simple urine tests, which I'll probably get anyways at some point between now and the next time I have sex.

Women really get the shaft (unintended pun) when it comes to STDs. There don't seem to be too many complications when it comes to men and these things, whereas women can get really messed up if it goes untreated. With guys, either it burns or it doesn't. Everything else is uncurable.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Thank you.

I was going to add a few more, but I figured that was probably enough all ready.

Now you have just got me curious.

Agreed! Someone I'D like to get to know lol

My philosophy is that you can't know enough lesbians.

Friended.

Although, I'm not technically a lesbian. I'm bisexual - hence the straight sex.

 

[Relish in Chaos]

You guys are killing me *points at heart* right here, you know that?

?Forever Alone?-type guy, no hope of losing it in the future, stupid hormonal teenager, piss-poor social skills, never made out with a girl, have a bunch of crushes on girls that are out of my league, go to the occasional party (without bringing a condom) where I get drunk and fail abysmally at flirting, only find out later that the same girl I?d been flirting with gave my friend a blowjob...AND HE WASN'T EVEN GOING AFTER HER!

So, just the usual. Fuck me (pun intended), I need to get my shit straightened out. So does society, but I can?t do anything about that. *tries to cry in corner, fails, then returns to laptop and watches porn for another unsatisfying wank*

 

[templar1138a]

18, six years ago. Actually, I've only had full-on intercourse twice (done plenty of oral though). Complicated reasons I won't get into.

You know how some people will say that they're technically a virgin? Way I see it, I'm technically not one.

 

[CellShaded]

Holy, I actually forgot when that was. 17? Yeah, I think it was 17. I'm still in a relationship with her and very much doubt I'll regret a thing.

 

[Lonan]

11 to my 16 year old neighbour in her backyard.

She was a bit of a "loose" lass but she taught me things so she has my gratitude.

fuck i dunno, probably about 9 months before you were born

I just chocked on my coffee.

Winner.

11? Are you serious?

 

[J-meMalone]

I was 15, and was going out with the guy for a year before hand. Well I can honestly say I don't regret it at all. I think if it had of been with someone else I would have regretted it.

After a seven year split from the guy who was my first, we are not back together. So he was my first and hopefully my last.

Wait, if I read that right, you're still hoping to get back together after seven years? I suppose this isn't my place to to say and I don't know the situation, but I think you may need to move on.

On topic: 16, to my then girlfriend I'd been with for about two months. It wasn't THAT great, but it wasn't too bad. We broke up about 6 months later. Haven't been with anyone in the 3 years since though.

 

[ToxicOranges]

Uh, OP? Where is the "I have not" or, "I will not" options here?

I haven't lost it yet - 17, only had a couple of short relationships, and I'm not one to rush these things - but I know people who are actively planning to declare celibacy at 18, or simply don't want to have sex.

Thanks for sufficiently making me feel bad about my poor love life again, man. Good job.

 

[Nimcha]

17. I think. It wasn't bad. But the second time was a whole lot better.

 

[crudus]

Friended.

Although, I'm not technically a lesbian. I'm bisexual - hence the straight sex.

Huh, maybe I am over thinking this friend making thing. I count it all the same, just as long as you are into girls.

hehe so very true... I NEED to know more

I have learned today that it is apparently easy. Who knew?

11? Are you serious?

If I remember right the youngest parents were 8 and 9. I am willing to believe 11. Actually a friend of mine lost his at 11 or 12.