It's obviously the N word. ****** is offensive because it has the old slavery connotations, and hence is offensive (although that's being degraded by black people calling each other it anyway.)
**** is offensive because... Well because we arbitrarily designated it as being such. If I call someone a vagina or a ****, I am still saying the same thing, in a slightly different way, and we just decided the latter is a more vulgar term.
It's the same thing with "polite" swearing. For instance, using "fudge" as an alternative to fuck. We all know what we really mean is fuck, so what's the difference?
**** is offensive because... Well because we arbitrarily designated it as being such. If I call someone a vagina or a ****, I am still saying the same thing, in a slightly different way, and we just decided the latter is a more vulgar term.
It's the same thing with "polite" swearing. For instance, using "fudge" as an alternative to fuck. We all know what we really mean is fuck, so what's the difference?