Poll: Which is worse: Rape or Murder?

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Treeinthewoods

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Even when it's really, really bad rape can potentially be recovered from. Murder is impossible to recover from unless you have a really infuential parent in the deity business (in theory).
 

Kakashi on crack

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Both at the same time?


Saelune said:
Murder. Cause you can always recover from rape, long as you survive.
Not saying its easy or anything, but you just plain cant recover from being dead in the non DnD world.

Edit: Thats not to say EVERY murder is worse than EVERY rape, but if we talk worse case scenario...
This guy kinda sums it up.
 

bushwhacker2k

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Bearjing said:
bushwhacker2k said:
Damn, I'm surprised so many people picked murder.

Murder can be justified, rape cannot.
Now what point of view are you answering that question from? Cause I don't care if it was justified or not, I'd rather be raped than murdered.
I'm not really referring to what is worse according to people, but a lot of people believe some people should die, and murder happens accordingly (btw if you consider killing in warfare to not be murder then please just disregard my comments) (not approving of it btw) but I can't think of too many circumstances where rape is ever ok.

Adremmalech said:
From a psychological and societal standpoint, rape does much more damage than murder. Rape and molestation effect mental development and start a chain reaction of intimacy and relationship problems that can span many generations. Women who are raped and don't seek treatment remain victims, and are much more likely to be raped, with their instinct to freeze up when someone is touching them inappropriately. These women will most likely pick abusive men to be in relationships with, and these abusive men will abuse their children who will then be more likely to choose abusive partners, and so on...

So while murder is tragic, it ends with the one life lost. Rape is one of many forms of abuse a young girl can be damaged by in here development which can send her on a devastating spiral.
Plus the chances of pregnancy, STDs, and so on.
He explains it fairly well. If you're murdered then... you're just dead, if you are raped you suffer from it. Once again not saying murder is a-ok.
 

Arluza

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quite easy. Murder. A rape is a horrible crime, but at the end of the day, the person who was raped was alive (though they were hurt and traumatized probably). With a murder, the person murdered is dead. FINISHED. No way for the murdered to come back to life.
 

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I'm not big on the sanctity of human life, and I'd take reasons for murder on a case by case basis, I can totally see myself agreeing with some of them.

Rape? I that I can't ever see being justified.
 

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There are countless reasons for a murderer to do what he does. Watch any action movie you own and show me one where there is no murder. The viewer cheers for Bruce in Die Hard. Most men want to be like 007. The expendables had obvious good guys and bad guys. Beverly Hills Cop had obvious protagonists. they save the day!

I have yet to hear a single good reason to rape another person.
 

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bushwhacker2k said:
Bearjing said:
bushwhacker2k said:
Damn, I'm surprised so many people picked murder.

Murder can be justified, rape cannot.
Now what point of view are you answering that question from? Cause I don't care if it was justified or not, I'd rather be raped than murdered.
I'm not really referring to what is worse according to people, but a lot of people believe some people should die, and murder happens accordingly (btw if you consider killing in warfare to not be murder then please just disregard my comments) (not approving of it btw) but I can't think of too many circumstances where rape is ever ok.

Adremmalech said:
From a psychological and societal standpoint, rape does much more damage than murder. Rape and molestation effect mental development and start a chain reaction of intimacy and relationship problems that can span many generations. Women who are raped and don't seek treatment remain victims, and are much more likely to be raped, with their instinct to freeze up when someone is touching them inappropriately. These women will most likely pick abusive men to be in relationships with, and these abusive men will abuse their children who will then be more likely to choose abusive partners, and so on...

So while murder is tragic, it ends with the one life lost. Rape is one of many forms of abuse a young girl can be damaged by in here development which can send her on a devastating spiral.
Plus the chances of pregnancy, STDs, and so on.
He explains it fairly well. If you're murdered then... you're just dead, if you are raped you suffer from it. Once again not saying murder is a-ok.
Murder and killing are not the exact same thing

Murder

noun
1. Law . the killing of another human being under conditions specifically covered in law

Verb
5. to kill or slaughter inhumanly or barbarously.


Killing can be justified. You attack me with a knife in my home, I am justified in putting two shotgun shells in your brain. But if I decide to kill you in any other circumstnace, it is not justified.
 

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Shapsters said:
Rape. They both have horrible effects and are both awful things but there is never any justified reason for rape. There are a few reasons for killing someone but really what reason is there for rape?
I came up with an answer, but I don't really want to say it because I would feel like a dick if I justified rape.

They are both very made, and it usually takes a unique form of human in this modern age to murder or rape an innocent person. But I am slanting more to the murder side being worse, with rape it is a terrible thing but it can be recovered from through years of therapy and professional help. Rape in most cases is over very quickly and rarely lasts longer then a few minutes, due to the rapist's own fear of being caught in the act. Murder however, can be over in a split second, but in quite a number of cases it can be over in hours days or even months. Torture and maximum pain are often used before the final murder so I would say murder is worse, due to it causes the most physical pain, and you end up dead.
 

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bushwhacker2k said:
I'm not really referring to what is worse according to people, but a lot of people believe some people should die, and murder happens accordingly (btw if you consider killing in warfare to not be murder then please just disregard my comments) (not approving of it btw) but I can't think of too many circumstances where rape is ever ok.

He explains it fairly well. If you're murdered then... you're just dead, if you are raped you suffer from it. Once again not saying murder is a-ok.
Murder to me is just killing someone illegally (i.e. warfare doesn't really count to me).

And if you look on a macro scale, murder can and has started (or at least helped to start) wars.
 

EvilPicnic

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Whilst none of this should be dismissed flippantly; sufferers of abuse are more likely to grow up to become abusers in the future, a cycle potentially more damaging to a society than a single murderous act.
 

Womplord

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Murder is worse. When someone gets raped, they get hurt and humiliated, thats about it. I don't understand how someone can think this is worse than getting killed.

I'm pretty sure if you asked a rape victim if they would rather have died, they would say no.
 

Kolosus

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Murder can be Justified

Rape on the other hand, Can not!

Some might deserve to die (As cold and inhuman it may sound to some)

It's a greyzone. Depending on the circumstances, the act of Rape is much worse than the act of Murder. The physical and mental torture that rape is, can long term seem much worse if the victim is traumatized badly afterwards.
Though ending another persons life, who might not deserve it is ultimately worse.

You can't put the two crimes up side by side, without the answerer having to give a thorough explanation of his/her choice afterwards.
 

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CM156 said:
Murder and killing are not the exact same thing

Murder

noun
1. Law . the killing of another human being under conditions specifically covered in law

Verb
5. to kill or slaughter inhumanly or barbarously.


Killing can be justified. You attack me with a knife in my home, I am justified in putting two shotgun shells in your brain. But if I decide to kill you in any other circumstnace, it is not justified.
bushwhacker2k said:
(btw if you consider killing in warfare to not be murder then please just disregard my comments)
I did actually address that point somewhat, and I didn't do it so people couldn't just prove me wrong by default. I think the action of justifying the act of killing because "the law says it's okay" or "we're in war, people die" doesn't really fly.

Perhaps you are defending yourself, but if the guy on the other end of the gun barrel isn't breathing anymore, it's the same result.

I'm not arguing this, this is my opinion and I sincerely hope I won't be persuaded to continue talking about this.
 

Dukenstein

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Rape and Murder are the same in my books. Usually murder would follow a rape, which is just horrible. The sick bastards who commit these crimes need to be locked up for a long time.
 

Kortney

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I think this whole "rape ruins lives!" rhetoric is victimising bullshit that doesn't help anyone. It really annoys me because I know girls who have been raped and they are completely happy, healthy people. I hate this stupid bleeding heart response of "Oh you poor thing! Your life is now automatically ruined!" Because, guess what? If you treat someone like they are a victim - they are going to be a victim all their life.

There's no reason why rape has to ruin someone's life. If society didn't victimise people who have been raped so heavily they'd be much better off.

Note: I'm not suggesting that people who have been raped haven't experienced serious trauma or don't deserve help. They absolutely do. I just don't like the mentality off extreme victimisation - to the point where people are brainwashed into believing it is worse than removing them from existence - because that mentality harms these rape victims in so many ways.

Murder is worse on so many levels. For starters, that person is removed from existence. Rape victims have every chance of being completely happy people afterwards - and any mentality that says otherwise is incredibly dangerous. Murdered people don't get a chance to experience life anymore.

Bocaj2000 said:
There are countless reasons for a murderer to do what he does. Watch any action movie you own and show me one where there is no murder. The viewer cheers for Bruce in Die Hard. Most men want to be like 007. The expendables had obvious good guys and bad guys. Beverly Hills Cop had obvious protagonists. they save the day!

I have yet to hear a single good reason to rape another person.
The question is obviously talking about murdering innocents. You are comparing the killing of bad guys to the rape of innocents. If you want to bend it like that, then a paper cut is worse.