Hmmm... I'd probably go for Windhelm or Riften.
Windhelm is a pretty nice place with the few main let downs being the racism encountered from the start (The 2 guys insulting a Dark Elf when you first enter) and the
Riften seems quite cozy but its let downs are the theives running around the place and the whole "May get targeted by the theives guild at any point" thing... I suppose if I tried to get friendly with the thieves guild it wouldn't be a problem. Also if the mead is as good as the cart driver keeps saying it is I wouldn't care.
I think I may have to choose Riften purely for the mead...
Windhelm is a pretty nice place with the few main let downs being the racism encountered from the start (The 2 guys insulting a Dark Elf when you first enter) and the
Murderer that lives there which may or may not be a problem if you'd done that sidequest
Riften seems quite cozy but its let downs are the theives running around the place and the whole "May get targeted by the theives guild at any point" thing... I suppose if I tried to get friendly with the thieves guild it wouldn't be a problem. Also if the mead is as good as the cart driver keeps saying it is I wouldn't care.
I think I may have to choose Riften purely for the mead...