Poll: Why are you Single?
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Had 1 girlfriend, got all that I wanted out of the way - she was too much and too little in more ways than I care to put up with so I chose to stop it.
Not planning on another relationship anytime soon... that might change given the right circumstances, but I wouldn't know when they crop up since now I'm in a mixed uni and I've been in a boys only school for 7 years >.>
Not planning on another relationship anytime soon... that might change given the right circumstances, but I wouldn't know when they crop up since now I'm in a mixed uni and I've been in a boys only school for 7 years >.>
I'm just picky. I don't make a big deal about not having a girlfriend, but I would like one. Some of my mates say I am picky, but others say I'm fine my expectations aren't that high. Problem is, when I like someone, I either scare them off or wait too long to make a move and they've moved on
Low self esteem. How can i let anyone love me when i can't even love myself?
Getting better though. I'm in the process of working through a lot of personal issues. I don't have any money at the moment so being single suits me just fine.
Getting better though. I'm in the process of working through a lot of personal issues. I don't have any money at the moment so being single suits me just fine.
This is for everyone who say they have low self-esteem: isn't just about everyone on escapist a gamer? I haven't played against anybody whose character wasn't confident enough to try to blow me away. When I play I yell and taunt and praise the people that play against or alongside me. You just gotta take that persona out of gaming and apply it to the real world.
Mercy.
Romantic relationships are fucking awful things that hurt everyone involved. I wouldn't wish one on anyone.
Romantic relationships are fucking awful things that hurt everyone involved. I wouldn't wish one on anyone.
I call all the popular girls sluts and all the annoying unpopular ones annoyin child molesters
so that leaves only the cute-ish ones that dont date yet
so that leaves only the cute-ish ones that dont date yet
I'll go for too ugly, fat, weird and pretty shitty self-confidence too. Asking a girl out only to be told No a week later and ignored for a month does that.
There have been a couple of people interested but the feeling wasn't mutual so I said no.
Also, I seem to be considered a freak by the public at large.
There have been a couple of people interested but the feeling wasn't mutual so I said no.
Also, I seem to be considered a freak by the public at large.
Low self-confidence, lack of motivation, unattractiveness and general antisocial behavior. You know, just about everything.
A combo of a few reasons:
1. Never been asked/haven't asked because I don't know anyone
2. Low self esteem. Despite people telling me how cute I am, I always feel like shit and think I'm ugly some days while others, my confidence is through the roof.
3. I'm picky. Almost every girl in my town is a jesus freak, won't shut up about Twilight, literally says things like "OMG" and "LOL" or is a combo of all 3. In short; they're all idiots.
4. I was crushed before. Last girl I went out with crushed me in the end by telling me (after I lost my virginity to her) that she could "never love someone like me." The second time a girl showed interest in me was when she was just using me to make her ex jealous.
And you all know very well about that nutzoid jesus freak who became obsessed with me.
1. Never been asked/haven't asked because I don't know anyone
2. Low self esteem. Despite people telling me how cute I am, I always feel like shit and think I'm ugly some days while others, my confidence is through the roof.
3. I'm picky. Almost every girl in my town is a jesus freak, won't shut up about Twilight, literally says things like "OMG" and "LOL" or is a combo of all 3. In short; they're all idiots.
4. I was crushed before. Last girl I went out with crushed me in the end by telling me (after I lost my virginity to her) that she could "never love someone like me." The second time a girl showed interest in me was when she was just using me to make her ex jealous.
And you all know very well about that nutzoid jesus freak who became obsessed with me.
Huh... Well, until last year I though I am too unattractive for any girl. Well turns out, that when I finally started caring for myself (shaving yourself regularly IS a good idea, if you don't have a certain facial hair style you want to make, properly ironed clothes are really comfy etc. etc.), and stopped acting like an idiot, it turned out, I can be attractive, and the lack of girl's attention was no one's fault but my own... But after a disaster relationship, I decided to take break from this stuff. Since then, I didn't really care for a girlfriend, nor for a 'one party' relationships. Also maybe because I AM a bit picky, and I didn't spot anyone interesting around me (who is still single as well) for any kind relationship.
At least now, when I'll find an opportunity I won't be shy just because 'no girl can like someone like me' because I know for sure, at least some of them can
At least now, when I'll find an opportunity I won't be shy just because 'no girl can like someone like me' because I know for sure, at least some of them can
I've been told by many of my friends (who are women) that I am smart, attractive, funny, and an incredibly nice guy. I have no real problems with asking out women, even though I have never been asked out myself. For some reason, I'm always the "Friend" but never the "Boyfriend". Shit sucks.
EDIT: According to 4chan, most women want a dick made of chocolate that ejaculates money.
EDIT: According to 4chan, most women want a dick made of chocolate that ejaculates money.
Honest to God my button is "All of the Above". I am literally all of them which neadless to say makes me feel worse about myself (low self-esteem) so I won't ask and instead spend my money (to poor) on Ice cream and such (to fat) which makes me feel worse.
Too weird.
There is one girl who enjoys my bizarre conversations, but we're in the ROTC program and she is my Cadre, so... dating isn't an option unless we both want to get kicked out.
There is one girl who enjoys my bizarre conversations, but we're in the ROTC program and she is my Cadre, so... dating isn't an option unless we both want to get kicked out.
