Poll: Why are you Single?

[Lonator]

I can't get over some girl who rejected me, that I liked for 5 years...

 

[FightThePower]

I have a very bad attitude.

I'm generally pretty grumpy, reserved and lazy as fuck. I'd like to change, but I honestly find it too hard to. I'm a bit defeatist as you can see, that doesn't help.

 

[jebus4you]

not too many options since im in a high school full of stuck up whores. Its not just me either since ive gone out with the chill girls.

 

[zungerman090]

Stuck in school with ugly and rich people. Besides, I am too "uncool" for them. By uncool I mean that blowing 200 $ on trainers isn't my idea of having a good time

 

[Nullphantom]

kind of a mix of a few. I am a bit picky and would prefer to only date someone that plays games or watches anime, or at least doesnt mind me playing or watching them. Also, when your friends come by and complain about how their GFs are shit and a waste of time, kinda makes me happy I'm single and dont have drama coming from me

 

[Commissar Sae]

I'm either a combo of too picky or by choice. I like being single and while female companionship would be nice sometimes I don't want to settle for someone I don't really like.

 

[FightThePower]

Oh yeah, and I'm a short, skinny little fucker who hates exercise, which also doesn't help.

 

[Jonathan Petersburg]

The reason I'm single is because I just don't like being tied down. I see all my friends with choke chains around their neck. It's sickening. Then they always complain to me about having to go to stupid events that they don't want to go, so I tell them, " THEN DON'T GO". Seriously if someone makes you do stuff all the time and you don't enjoy it , either tell them and hopefully they'll understand , and if they don't then they're jerks and should be dumped anyways.So yeah my /rant is off , I just love the freedom of having every choice I make, made my me and only me.

 

[firedfns13]

Because if I dated any of the girls I've thought about dating recently I know I'd probably cheat on them. Since I really don't want to date them, I just want to have a girlfriend/girl to make out with.

I guess I'm still hung over on someone.

 

[Stryc9]

Pretty much all of the above. Except the never asked\been asked one, I've had a couple of relationships neither one really lasted all that long though.

 

[pedroREE]

By Choice.

It takes a lot for me to trust someone emotionally so I usually avoid getting into anything serious. When I do get into something serious I open completely and end up getting squashed like a bug.


It's great, let me tell you...

 

[mrhockey220]

Low Self Asteem and General Lack Of Confidence.

Im slowly getting better at dealing with people though, I have always used solitude as protection when I was younger to distance myself from idiots and bullies. (I make it sound worse than it really is I have a job and I am a good working member of society just a little shy is all).

Plus most of the girls that I interact with on a daily basis are complete airheads so me being alone is my choice aswell, it is mostly the Low Self Asteem.

Dude I feel your pain, I'm the very same way. Everytime I want to talk to a girl that I like but dont really talk to that much I get this feeling that I'm not good enough for her or that there are other guys that she could get with who are better than me. No matter how hard I try I cant seem to shake this mindset. Dont get me wrong I am a very likeable person but I just have a problem with finding a certain comfort zone with people.

 

[PunchClockVillain]

Right now, I am actually working up the balls to ask a cute girl I know to coffee. We'll see how that goes. I don't want to start anything too serious because I'll be graduating in May and I'm not sure where I'll be ending up yet.

 

[MonkOfDoom]

Well...after a field of rejections i have currently decided to postpone further efforts, while keeping an eye out for opportunity...but lets just say...my friend is a dick, i have bad timing, and the other one is dating a championship wrestler, some im glad i figured that one out prior to asking her...

 

[magicman4443]

The reason I'm single? Well, it's mainly due to low self-esteem which leads me into never asking anyone. I've also never been asked. And I'm kinda weird. And a little bit by choice too. But that might just be me rationalizing my status due to the other reasons.

 

[tthor]

but- i'm not single D:
i've got a gorgeous sweet girl

 

[Abedeus]

Choice. I much rather prefer having 2-3 female friends than 1 girlfriend you must talk to all the time, keep in touch with, then explain that "she's just a friend, honey, don't be jealous".

Also because I'm 17 and 5/6, and I don't know anyone who would still be in a relationship with someone from high school.

but- i'm not single D:
i've got a gorgeous sweet girl

I'm giving you a year, two at most, till you finish high school too.

 

[Craftybonds]

As a bi-sexual male in his early 20's, it's by choice. I'd rather move from person to person (in a safe manner) than commit to another girl/guy. I'm not saying that being in a relationship is bad, it's just not my thing at this current time.

 

[Klarinette]

While I was, it was a combination of the fact that I'm picky (which is odd, because I definitely don't have high standards, in terms of looks), and I had a bad habit of pursuing love interests who did not return my feelings. That was lame, and a huge waste of time. I could probably stay single and be alright with it if I actually tried, but I tend to get bored and lonely, and end up looking for a companion anyway.