Let's say that you've been playing a JRPG for a long time and you like all of the characters. Early in the game they introduced your first party member and the two characters hit it off very well. About half way through the game though, the player character meets a different party member and engages in a romantic relationship with them. Would it bother you that the character chose this character rather than the first one? Let's say in this instance that both involved party members are the opposite gender to the player character, but there were no implications that the first party member and the player character where romantically interested in each other (So the player was never expected to think they were).