Poll: Would you let your friend date your sister?
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It's not my decision, (though I dont have a sister but if I did) I really can't stand it in shows where some guy wants to date his best friends sister, the best friend is all like "oh no you can't date her but I'm not gonna say why" *cough* Saved By The Bell....I think *cough*
Why would my friends want to date her?! She is for lack of a better term a *****. she whines and yells when she doesn't get what she wants (for fucks sake she is sixteen not three!) and she refuses to do any work around the house or get a job so she can buy the things she keeps asking for herself! wow I ranted there... but yeah I wouldn't care but I would be very unsure of the mental stability of a friend of mine who would want to date her...
Depends on the person in question. Best friends and close friends get an almost immediate 'yes' because I'd know them well enough to realize they'd be a good influence in her life. 'Random friends' would be a yes purely because I don't know the person in question and wouldn't want to mingle. I'd probably do 'something' if I knew the person in question to be a complete jackass, though. Getting to know him better is a possibility.
I have no right to control her life. The most I can do if I disagree with the relationship is voice my disagreement once to her then pretend like everything's fine and dandy.
A good friend sure, but there are some people that I consider little more then good acquaintances that other might call friends. I also have a couple of friends that make horrible relationship decisions, that part of their life has no effect on me so it never bothers me, but I wouldn't trust them to give the respect I would feel is due of a family member.BonsaiK said:
Would I throw a fit if my sister decided to date a friend? No way, I might tell her about what I thought of them in a relationship but it is up to her to heed my counsel or not. I don't control her life. The inevitable break up would be a sure fire way to lose a friend however as there is little to no chance of me taking a friends side over my sisters.
Yes,because the only sister I have is a Russian step sister who I'm pretty sure hates me and is older than me.
If my best friend announced she was gay or bisexual and wanted to date my sister, I would be weirded out beyond belief, but I don't have control over anyone. And if I tried to tell either of them that they couldn't date each other, they'd laugh at me and keep dating. You don't tell those two what they can and can't do.
I don't mind. It's up to them, and things would be a lot more awkward if I didn't let them than if I did. Besides, I've dated my freind's sister before, it was ok, and also quite convenient.
But if anyone of my friends wanted to date my sister? No, I wouldn't let them.
She's 10.
But if anyone of my friends wanted to date my sister? No, I wouldn't let them.
She's 10.
Even in a worst case scenario, an acquaintance who is known to be dodgy is better than a stranger. The devil you know is always preferable to the devil you don't know.manaman said:
People who get upset about people dating their siblings are just grown-up 5 year olds who need to butt out of things that aren't their business. In all cases, the only exception being when the sibling is too young to date at all.
I think, everyone except my best friend. In general, I'm not too attached to my friends (they're made by coincidence, right?), but if it were my best friend, I'd be concerned about losing that friend (because if his relationship with her is not the most important thing on his agenda, he's not good enough for her).
That, and if he were a catch at all, I would be dating him. But I'm not.
That, and if he were a catch at all, I would be dating him. But I'm not.
Wow, the majority really says any friend? I'm shocked. As for me, not a chance in hell is that going to happen. There are very few people that I would trust with them, and considering how well I know my friends there's no way they are included in that list.
*shrugs* It's my sister's choice, not mine. But if I knew he was a prick and would most likely treat her badly, I would probably give both of them a warning about it.
