Poll: Would you Marry a Pornstar?

[Billion Backs]

I wouldn't marry anyone. Religions can have the whole "marriage" thing, I pass.

However, when it comes to civil union or some shit like that, I wouldn't mind. The main thing that matter is compatibility, everything else is far less important.

Only if she isn't sporting some full-on fallopian fungus!

Well, from what I hear, the professional porn studios do a LOT of medical check ups.

 

[Eisenfaust]

pffffft... marriage... as if... (porn star or not)

 

[James Hueick]

Sure, why not. They're hot, sexy, and as shown on I hit it with my axe. Can be quite fun people.

 

[Glamorgan]

It depends. If I loved her undoubtably, I would. but, if she was still in porn, I might have some objections. Ex-pornstar however is a totally different story.

 

[Savagezion]

NO take backsies.

 

[Bakaferret]

From a female's perspective? No. Never. But I've always been INSANELY insecure. There's no way I could be intimate with a guy who has had women do anything and everything that he could imagine for him. I'm not a prude, but I do have my limits. I think it's a very different question for girls.

What kind of idiot would say no to that? Assuming it is regular porn and she doesn't get tied up and whipped every weekend then yeah go for it. She would have more free time, be better at sex than most and would have a good income if she was famous enough.

But why marry her? Those positives you're describing can be achieved just by dating her. I mean, I'm not even going to pretend that there's some huge "sanctity of marriage" crap to protect, but typically go the marriage route and not just extended partners or something have certain criteria that they want, such as a least a little bit of exclusiveness when it comes to intimacy.

 

[Malkavian]

If I loved her, yes.

 

[Tipsy Giant]

No, my kids would find it on online in 15 years and they would get bullied by kids showing the porn around the playground.
It's not all about what you can deal with

 

[ClunkiestTurtle]

Don't think i could either, while for sure they are probably nice wholesome people and they do deserve a loving relationship and it goes without saying that there are going to be people who are totally cool with it and thats fine but i would just find it to hard to deal with them sharing what to me is an intimate, private and meaningful part of a relationship not just with other men but for the whole world to watch them with other men at the click of a button. I don't think i could deal with that and it would inevitably be the wedge that comes between us.

With that said i would be more able to accept it if she was in just girl on girl videos, i think to be honest its probably like cave man psychology that no other man can dominate my women. Also if she was once a porn star but not any more i could deal with that if she was otherwise the perfect girl for me.

I think i'd rather just have a pornstar for one night and not have to deal with these complications....

 

[Boba Frag]

If you're an average guy, you will be PLAGUED by the idea that men with bigger and better everything have had a crack at her.

I'm insecure, yes, but that would be a major issue, or at least it would certainly become one.

And she would have to be very much a *former* pornstar and had cut all links with the porn busines.
Calling it an industry seems to be giving it a status it doesn't deserve. The exploitation of it, whether the women feel they're being exploited or not, is kind of disturbing.

 

[Bakaferret]

I don't understand why you shaved apes have a problem with this? The person copulates as part of their employment, you enjoy copulation don't you ? They are probably very experienced and that is normally a guide to their having superior abilities. Assuming the issue of disease has been satisfactorily settled, why wouldn't someone marry a porn star ?

Because what's the point? I mean seriously. I have NO problem with porn stars. They chose what they do for a living. But why marry her? For a tax break? I mean, if that's all you want, then sure, go for it. But people (even non-porn stars) have perfectly normal long-term relationships without getting married. I'm not saying don't even date a porn star. I'm just saying I don't see the point in marrying one, based on the current perception of what "marriage" means for some people.

 

[Boba Frag]

I think I'd just end up feeling totally inferior to be honest.

I mean, when a person's a pornstar, you can bet that they've experienced...pretty much everything. I'd imagine sex with little old me would just feel like an obligation.

But onto non-sex matters, I suppose I could, if I really loved her, but it wouldn't be the type of person I'd aim for.

Love makes sex much better even if its of lower physical quality. If she loved you she would rather be with you then all the gifted guys from the movies.

And mind you, Viagra is a must have for all male pornstars these days. Not just because many can't naturally have the performance they show in the movies, but also because it reduces the takes to get each scene by loads and decreases the cost of the entire movie a lot. So don't feel bad for it if apparently you can't perform as well as them.

That said, I would.

So they're slowly ruining their hearts...?

I can live with that.

 

[cobra_ky]

Absolutely. Unlike most people I don't seem to have any real hang-ups about sex and monogamy.

 

[Yeq]

It's important to remember the sex she's having on scene is emotionally unattached; I think I can live with the assumption that she finds other men attractive but not that she wants to actually be with other people in a romantic sense. Polyamorous relationships are fine with me in theory, but I just know I couldn't cut it. On the other hand, I'm saying that I'd be ok with what she does because, y'know, I don't consider it to be immoral in the slightest, to constitute emotional betrayal, or more likely to cheat on me - if anything, all it says is that she's a sexual person and she's good at it, which is hardly something to resent - but maybe if it actually happened I'd be a lot more reticent. Ultimately, if I felt OK with it while in the pre-marital relationship, then sure, I'd marry her; without anything like that for me to decide on right now, I'm not completely certain but my gut says I'd be happy to marry her.