Perhaps. I'd say yes if it was just me and a couple of girls but not too sure about sharing with another dude.
Poll: Would You Participate in Group Sex? (mature)
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There are plenty of girls here! I'm one.
And to answer your question: No.
Resisting the urge to post repetitive and drawn out negative responses, I can basically sum it up and just say I don't see the appeal. I mean, I can't figure out why a person would want to.
Not just for the whole jealous ***** I'd become having to share my guy. I'm single and a virgin... and I still wouldn't find it an enjoyable thing to do.
And to answer your question: No.
Resisting the urge to post repetitive and drawn out negative responses, I can basically sum it up and just say I don't see the appeal. I mean, I can't figure out why a person would want to.
Not just for the whole jealous ***** I'd become having to share my guy. I'm single and a virgin... and I still wouldn't find it an enjoyable thing to do.
Having group sex would mean that someone would want to have sex with me in the first place. And since no one wants to have sex with me in the first place, then I guess we can easily rule me out as someone who would ever be able to do it.
Now if we are speaking hypothetically, then I would think about it. Wonder how well I knew everyone in said group, how I stand with them and how they think of the notion of having sex with me would be.
But that's just speaking hypothetically.
Now if we are speaking hypothetically, then I would think about it. Wonder how well I knew everyone in said group, how I stand with them and how they think of the notion of having sex with me would be.
But that's just speaking hypothetically.
Provided there were no guys involved. Not for some homophobic fear of 'the taint' or something, but seeing a naked guy thrusting away too would be an instant turnoff. If it were all women and I then I would be ok with it, provided my girlfriend was. Preferably the other people would be almost or complete strangers, because otherwise it would be odd to me.
Pretty much this. Yes, sometimes I'm an out-of-control horny bastard, but the immense potential for STDs and/or other unwanted consequences is enough to put me off (my little brother, for example, was slapped with a paternity suit a few months ago); as Dr House put it, "The problem with having sex with strangers is... well, they're strange."geldonyetich said:
It depends on the people. If a bunch of close friends proposed it, it would be highly considered. However, if strangers propose it, I would be extremely cautious.
Being a straight male, I can only do two things at once at most. Because of this, the male to female ratio is very important. Giving oral is something that I enjoy and an ideal situation would involve it. However, if there's only one girl with a bunch of guys, having sex with her would make me feel both used and like a user at the same time.
EDIT: One thing that bothered quite a few guys in this thread is if other men would be there. I'm comfortable enough with my body and my sexuality to not mind it as long as they make minimal noise. Nothing is more of a turn off than a bass voice saying, "DO YOU LIKE THAT?"
For the record, I haven't had sex yet. I would prefer my first time to more intimate than group sex but still keep it casual enough that it's not love. The only experience is with foreplay and in those situations I find myself to be sexually selfless.
*note: all of this is in theory. If the situation actually arises, my thinking will most likely differ.
Being a straight male, I can only do two things at once at most. Because of this, the male to female ratio is very important. Giving oral is something that I enjoy and an ideal situation would involve it. However, if there's only one girl with a bunch of guys, having sex with her would make me feel both used and like a user at the same time.
EDIT: One thing that bothered quite a few guys in this thread is if other men would be there. I'm comfortable enough with my body and my sexuality to not mind it as long as they make minimal noise. Nothing is more of a turn off than a bass voice saying, "DO YOU LIKE THAT?"
For the record, I haven't had sex yet. I would prefer my first time to more intimate than group sex but still keep it casual enough that it's not love. The only experience is with foreplay and in those situations I find myself to be sexually selfless.
*note: all of this is in theory. If the situation actually arises, my thinking will most likely differ.
Hehe, it's cool, I can understand your position. Some people like the girl that invited me have had enough sex in their lifetime (we're both a little older) that it can be a casual device for fun, and not just an instrument for love. In this case, a group instrument.game-lover said:
I find it interesting to hear "as long as there were no other guys" in the replies. HMM! Interesting!
I selected other for a few reasons. I'm a picky fellow and quite straight, so obviously I have to be forewarned of what may happen to me. Second, having a higher female to male ratio would make things more comfortable for me. Maybe it's just the kind of stuff I watch but the amount of bisexual girls seem to outweigh the amount of bi guys, which I have no problem with.
Yeah. Of course, I would have to beg my boyfriend for permission/ to drag his sweet ass over here to join in.
Of course, it helps that I'm already a massive perv and most of my female friends are geeky as hell (Thumbs up from me there.)
I'm kinda particular about my guys though. My entire list of guys I'd say yes to is three people. My list of girls I'd say no to is shorter than that.
Of course, it helps that I'm already a massive perv and most of my female friends are geeky as hell (Thumbs up from me there.)
I'm kinda particular about my guys though. My entire list of guys I'd say yes to is three people. My list of girls I'd say no to is shorter than that.
Also female, and answered yes. I would need to know and trust at LEAST one person there, and would prefer no strangers (as in strangers to everyone involved) in the mix.
And protection, of course.
And protection, of course.
There are a hell of a lot of factors in play before I would do it, but I don't see anything fundamentally wrong with it, and would like to try it. The more, the merrier, right?
Though TBH I don't really see the point of it if you're a guy, I mean, you only have one penis. Girls have a lot more options, and if I were a girl I would definitely pursue it. And if I liked guys then that would open up more options as well, but as a heterosexual male my options are kind of limited. Yes, the more women the better and it's not like I'd hesitate doing it, and I would love it. I'm just saying that one on one is perfectly fine. Not sure if I'd feel the same way if I were a girl.
Though TBH I don't really see the point of it if you're a guy, I mean, you only have one penis. Girls have a lot more options, and if I were a girl I would definitely pursue it. And if I liked guys then that would open up more options as well, but as a heterosexual male my options are kind of limited. Yes, the more women the better and it's not like I'd hesitate doing it, and I would love it. I'm just saying that one on one is perfectly fine. Not sure if I'd feel the same way if I were a girl.
Men don't think about sex 24/7, we're not Sex In The City characters.Ellen of Kitten said:I realize I'm asking a group of largely men, and, well, I'm pretty sure I know the average answer already.
Uh, I suppose I would so long as I wasn't feeling terrible at the time.
I tend to get a bit moody on my off days.
I have participated in some group sexings in the past, but I definitely wouldn't in the future.
The first few times I did, I was single it was mainly with a friend and his girlfriend, and they did that kinda thing a lot, and I guess more power to them.
At the time I was young and horny, and in a period where I was experimenting with everything I could get my hands on including sexuality, it seemed like the thing to do because to why not. I eventually opted out, because after a few times out and I thought about it in a more sober fashion it started to creep me out. The guy turned out to be a lot of a dick, and treated his gf like crap, and I didn't want to be a part of that.
Outside of that, I once had some pretty good fun with some semi-friends, and that sat a whole lot better with me. No-one was attached, and one night we just kinda went at it. That was ok, but it couldn't really have happened again. It was totally unexpected and unplanned, and thus I think we were all much more accepting.
Now I am on the verge of getting married I'm totally ruling it out. I have never been the kinda guy who spends all day dreaming about being serviced by multiple women anyway. I also know that my fiancee definitely wouldn't be happy about it. She makes me happy and sexually fulfilled, and frankly I think its fucking weird for couples to invite other people in. Some people find it works for them, but IMHO you will eventually have problems with your relationship. If your partner alone doesn't fulfill you, then find someone who does.
The first few times I did, I was single it was mainly with a friend and his girlfriend, and they did that kinda thing a lot, and I guess more power to them.
At the time I was young and horny, and in a period where I was experimenting with everything I could get my hands on including sexuality, it seemed like the thing to do because to why not. I eventually opted out, because after a few times out and I thought about it in a more sober fashion it started to creep me out. The guy turned out to be a lot of a dick, and treated his gf like crap, and I didn't want to be a part of that.
Outside of that, I once had some pretty good fun with some semi-friends, and that sat a whole lot better with me. No-one was attached, and one night we just kinda went at it. That was ok, but it couldn't really have happened again. It was totally unexpected and unplanned, and thus I think we were all much more accepting.
Now I am on the verge of getting married I'm totally ruling it out. I have never been the kinda guy who spends all day dreaming about being serviced by multiple women anyway. I also know that my fiancee definitely wouldn't be happy about it. She makes me happy and sexually fulfilled, and frankly I think its fucking weird for couples to invite other people in. Some people find it works for them, but IMHO you will eventually have problems with your relationship. If your partner alone doesn't fulfill you, then find someone who does.
That was the case for me. Knew two participants, and protection was a must. No one wants junk-germs.Stasisesque said:
