Poll: Would You Participate in Group Sex? (mature)

[Joshimodo]

Honestly, it depends who is involved. My previous experienced were good fun, as long as you know half of the people there and protection is used (and stocked up - Having one of your group have to get dressed and run down the shop to buy more halfway through isn't a good thing, trust me!).

No, that's not the kind of thing I would go for. I would prefer a real relationship with one other woman...

"Real" relationship? Most threesomes and onwards are happy couples.

 

[Irridium]

Man here, and my answer is this:

No

All it does is add to the amount of people you wouldn't be able to look in the eye anymore.

Plus, it just doesn't do much for me. Doesn't matter if its all women, all men, or a mix of men and woman. I'd like the people I have sex with actually matter to me. So yeah.

Also, doubly no if my significant other is involved, then I would have to watch my significant other get pleasured/pleasure others. And that would really make me feel... well lets say "sad".

That is, if I even had a significant other in the first place...

 

[CosmicSpiral]

Like a Craigslist kind of thing?

Or a "let's have dinner, hang out, then screw" kind of thing?

 

[Weslebear]

No, I love the feeling of it being special, about 2 people in love making each other feel like the only people in the world at that moment in the most intimate way. That feeling you can't get from purely physical attraction, without the love it doesn't feel worth it for me.

 

[Paksenarrion]

Would I participate in Group Sex?(mature) So...everyone else is like...65 years or older? Uh...I guess I'm not as..."brave" as all you guys who said yes...

 

[Riobux]

There's a lot of factors in it, but I most likely wouldn't. Sex just holds too much meaning to me.

 

[ProtoChimp]

Lets see, still a virgin myself. Have a self rule that 1st time would be with someone I actually love. If for some unknown reason I get dumped in the future, yes I would....though I am a bit of a sadist at heart so don't know that would appeal to the group.

Don't be surprised if you find yourself SUPER attached to the person you lose your virginity to. It's inevitable. It happened to me, and a bunch of my friends, male and female (and everything in between). It's surprising how much it'll blindside you. If you go into your first time thinking it's the person you love, you'll definitely fall for them after sex. It'll break your heart when you break up.

Even though that was directed towards someone else completely I just have to say thanks for the advice to all us virgins.

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

I wouldn't have ANY sort of sex under any circumstances.
Someone could hold a fucking gun to my head and say "do these two girls/guys/whatever RIGHT THIS INSTANT" and I would reach up and pull the trigger myself.

So that's a big no.

 

[Thumper17]

I say maybe.. I kind of think of it as something you should try once.

Also, it sounds like it would be incredibly awkward, would you just all dog pile on each other and see what happens or... Actually, I'm not sure if I want to know...

It's more like a tag team thing I think.

 

[Serenegoose]

Yeah - I think I prefer group sex to one-on-one sex. It's less pressure to perform, and you can get as involved or uninvolved as you like, which offers me more choice, which I appreciate.

 

[baseracer]

Depends on who asked me and what we are "doing". If its fairly straightforward and doesn't get too crazy, I'll say yes.

 

[Nimcha]

Hmm, I don't think so. I have had a threesome which was pretty great but more than three surely is too much.

 

[Safaia]

I don't plan on having sex ever so yeah. If I ever decided to actually be intimate with someone I don't think I could. I'm too shy and paranoid about my body as it is.

 

[Beffudled Sheep]

A few years ago I would have said yes. Hell a few years ago I participated in group sex quite often even when sober! But now? No I feel too old to participate in such things. I'm done with parties, insane sex drives and such. They just don't appeal to me anymore. I'm also in a relationship with a women who only ever participated to get close to me and now that we are together I don't believe she would consent to it and if there is one thing I don't do and would never do it is cheat. I feel that even with permission I would be cheating on her and if I lose her... Once again, far too old. But I don't have negative feelings for anyone who does enjoy or do such things.

 

[babinro]

In real life, I'm very much opposed to the idea of group sex and would have no part in it.

From a fantasy standpoint it's awesome.

 

[warprincenataku]

First off I'd like to state that I think this is a very good topic.

I personally would never engage in sexual activity with more than one other person, but I don't judge people who do. It's not something I would find, for lack of a better word, stimulating.

 

[YouBecame]

To be honest, it all depends on the odds. If theres a lot of girls for the number of guys... then I can't say I'd immediately turn it down. But it's a hard question to answer, I honestly dont know!

 

[Gruevy]

so long as it's all mostly sexy bitches then FUCK YEAH

If it's like an Eyes Wide Shut kinda thing that's even better, 'cos it'll be just like the internets! With boobs!