The poll makes absolutely no sense, and as for little jimmy...he shouldnt even be playing the game in the first place, so asking how he should play it is stupid, that's like asking how a drunk teenager should drive a car, it shouldnt happen in the first place.
But on the name of the thread:
Yes, i turn it off, i have no problem with gore (i enjoy gore movies such as Cannibal Holocaust etc..), but its just to unrealistic in games, for example: God of War 3, although it looks to be a fun game, the amount of unrealistic blood they used kinda turned me off it, i mean a normal human being does not have like 10 gallons of blood, it makes no freaking sense and is just annoying to watch, but then again i guess that game is created more for the immature audience.