I just had this nice big, huge explanation for why I expect life to exist outside of Earth... then I accidentally closed the window and lost it all. It took me about an hour to write up. Dammit.
But for the cliffs notes version;
In our Solar System alone, there are four potential places life might form or have formed. They are Earth, Mars (where we have found evidence for water in the past, and subsurface water presently), Titan (one of the moons of Titan), and Europa (one of the moons of Jupiter, we have much evidence to suggest it has a sub-surface ocean with enough free energy to form microscopic life). Now, our Solar System is about 0.8 light years in radius (note; this is from the Sun to the hypothesised Oort Cloud, out at 50,000 AU). 1 light year is equal to 9,461,000,000,000 kilometers or 5,879,000,000,000 miles. Now consider that to date, we have detected over 400 exo-planets (and this is only in a very small area), of which we're reasonably certain a few of which have liquid water on the surface (which is important for life, in our Earth-centric models).
Working by scale alone, we can see that it is statistically unlikely that there is no other life in the Universe, or indeed even in our own Galaxy. Intelligent life on the other hand is a bit trickier, and far less likely than other forms of life.
Now, the odds of finding intelligent life are extremely slim. The galaxy is simply too big. But microscopic life? I'd say we'll find direct evidence in the next few decades. Macroscopic life? Well, that might take a while. Intelligent life? Probably not going to happen, and if it does, not for many centuries to come.
Also, this [http://www.geeksaresexy.net/2011/02/15/beautiful-life-looks-for-life-the-sagan-series/] is definitely worth checking out. It's beautiful.