Poll: Your opinion of your family members

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DesiPrinceX09

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This topic hasn't come up in a while as far as I can tell.

So escapists, how well do you get along with your family and what do you think of them? And for more detail, how well do your family members get along with each other? (like mom's side vs dad's side)

Coming from an Indian/Pakistani/Hindustani family on dad's side and a Mexican American family on mom's side, my family is insanely huge and though I know many family members I have not even met half of the total family members I have. My family is always interesting and awesome. I grew up with my cousins and uncles/aunts in Zambia so I knew them well and always hung out with them, so we have a great relationship. Even now as I sit here in America with my immediate family I still talk to them whenever I can. Though unfortunately I don't know my mom's side of the family very well. And both sides don't really care to know each other; I can't imagine what it would be like to mix a bunch of Shia Muslim Pakistani/Indian Africans with a bunch of hardcore Catholic Texas Mexicans, I think the world would explode.

As for my immediate family: My sister is like a second mom, my dad is like a hero who I can look up to, and my mom is a strong and pure of heart woman who always kept us together even in the toughest times. So needless to say I have a high opinion of family, which is strongly emphasized by the culture I was raised in. But I understand not everyone is into family or even likes their family. If you just want to ***** about your family and rip them to shreds that's fine with me, I will allow bitching. I am not expecting everyone to be subtle about their opinion of their family, whether you praise them like Gods or insult them it's perfectly fine.

EDIT: So it seems majority vote goes to those who think their family is pretty cool, which is nice. Followed closely by meh (ok I guess) and totally awesome. I see not many voted on the "what family?" option. That option is aimed at those with no real opinion on their family because of either not caring much about them or them not playing much of a role in their life. And the kittens option is for random ridiculousness; but also for those who either don't want to vote, don't know what to pick, or really like kittens like I do.

EDIT 2: I am glad a lot of you are going into detail about your family. There are a lot of interesting and well thought out posts, keep it up escapist!
 

Marter

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Father: Best person out of the people I live with. He's actually there for me, cares about me and is actually a parent. He'd do anything for me, I wager.

Mother: Alcoholic, but I do still care about her, somewhat. She's not all that smart any more, and is in a relationship that isn't good for anyone, but I pity her.

Stepfather: I hate him. He's brought nothing good to our lives, except for money, and would have already succumbed to alcohol poisoning if he wasn't so large.

Sister: Eh...she's 13 (14 come May) and female, of course she's going to be a little witch.
 

Radeonx

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Dad: Awesome. Worked 2 jobs throughout my childhood and always looked out for me.

Mom: She's an abusive *****, who, if I had the chance, I would punch in the mouth.

Brother/Sister/Other Sister: They are good enough. We have the sibling rivalry now, but I was a bigger parental figure considering that my dad was never around and I had to raise them, being 7 years older. Once my dad got a lot of money though, he was able to keep 1 job and we all have a better relationship because of it.
 

kittii-chan 300

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what?! im the first person to pick kittens are adorable?! this is madness!

(now lets see whos smart enough to answer my rely with the correct answer. the winner gets a cookie.(figuratively speakin))
 

DesiPrinceX09

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omnimon300 said:
what?! im the first person to pick kittens are adorable?! this is madness!

(now lets see whos smart enough to answer my rely with the correct answer. the winner gets a cookie.(figuratively speakin))
Madness!? THIS IS SPARTA!!! *kicks random person into bottomless pit*

(Did I win?)
 

Katherine Kerensky

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Eh, family...
I love my family. For the most part.
Mum, dad, sister, step-mum, step-dad, assorted grandparents, nephews, etc.
I would happily die to protect any of them <3
I love them all dearly, and I know that I am a damn sight luckier than a lot of other people, when it comes to family.
I'd say I have the best family in the world, but then people would either argue, or try to say they aren't in some other way.
So for me, best family in the world. Supportive, loving, and there when you need help <3
 

VaudevillianVeteran

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My dad only wants to provide for us, he's very sickly and I love him dearly even though we've grown really far apart since I was young.

I see my mum the most, we don't really have much in common, personality and interest wise, she's overworked but makes me laugh and we care about each other.

My younger brother is...a pleb. For lack of better word. He gets upset/angry easily and takes things out on me, but at the same time we can really get along well.

But hell, I love em' all even if they upset me from time to time.
 

baconsarnie

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omnimon300 said:
what?! im the first person to pick kittens are adorable?! this is madness!

(now lets see whos smart enough to answer my rely with the correct answer. the winner gets a cookie.(figuratively speakin))
Madness ... THIS IS ... not surprising, only being the fourth commenter you can't expect a ton of votes.

OT: Dad: Total legend
Mum: Nag nag nag nag nag nag nag nag nag, good cook though
Brother: Quite incredibly competitive and can be unbelievably patronising (he's 2 years older and therefore sometimes assumes i know nothing)
 

Rinji

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I love my family, they're all loving, caring, funny and strong people and I wouldn't trade them in for anything in the world. :)
 

kittii-chan 300

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DesiPrinceX09 said:
omnimon300 said:
what?! im the first person to pick kittens are adorable?! this is madness!

(now lets see whos smart enough to answer my rely with the correct answer. the winner gets a cookie.(figuratively speakin))
Madness!? THIS IS SPARTA!!! *kicks random person into bottomless pit*

(Did I win?)
WINNER! DINGDINGDING! MEOW! KITTENS! HERE IS YOUR COOKIE! BUT NOW YOU MUST FIGHT OMNIMON TO THE DEATH FOR A CHANCE TO WIN A FERRARI (your dead btw)
 

Harlemura

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Mum and dad are probably the two people I care about most in the world, through what they've done for me rather than just because they're family. We have occasional disagreements which are usually, I'll admit, from me being wrong.
My sister can be a *****, but I'm an equal amount of a jerk to her, so it all balances out. It's more just sibling rivalry than anything, I think. At the end of the day, we're probably just like best friends.

This post sounded a lot less soppy in my head.
 

Sun Flash

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My family is freakin' awesome. Seriously. You know Dog the Bounty Hunter? We're like his family. But without the mullets. Or inbreeding.
 

Realitycrash

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Why even have the kitten-option? Gives people reasons to post nonsensical comments like this and not contribute to the topic at hand, even though they still do it, because you have it as an option.
 

kittii-chan 300

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baconsarnie said:
omnimon300 said:
what?! im the first person to pick kittens are adorable?! this is madness!

(now lets see whos smart enough to answer my rely with the correct answer. the winner gets a cookie.(figuratively speakin))
Madness ... THIS IS ... not surprising, only being the fourth commenter you can't expect a ton of votes.
votes?
 

Slenn

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I don't want to be too discrete with the details, however I do admit that I love both my parents very much as they have supported me in the most troubling of times. My sister isn't someone that I hate, however I do admit that she's made some critically bad decisions in the past and I hope that she comes down to Earth sometime soon with reality staring at her.
 

Geeky Anomaly

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All my cousins and my paternal side(German Catholic) are awesome. My G-pa is big into drinking beer and telling crude jokes.

MATERNAL side...all a bunch of Bible-thumping religious weirdos. I avoid them. But my grandfather on my mother's side is a millionaire, so I could be shooting myself in the foot.
 

Palademon

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My brother's very relatable but is more emotional than me.

My mum is ok, but gets tired easily and worries too much, but doesnt worry in momkents where my brother is.

My dad was always working, like my mum was, until I was 11. But his work involved travelling so I barely saw him up to age 7, where he then left my mum and got married to a woman who left their husband and also has two children.

My family are ok, but I don't understand why I should care about them based on the idea that I'm related to them.