This is fairly interesting. We don't speak to my dad's side of the family AT ALL, aside from my dad, of course. His brother, my uncle, is a criminal, wannabe big-time gangster type who really ends up in the crappiest situations and such, and is generally scum. My nan on that side seems to love him more than my dad, the better son, and is generally a control freak, who tried to turn me and my brother, and my cousin, to her side and away from our respective maternal grandmothers at an early age (protip: she failed). My granddad on my dad's side, and my later step-granddad, both died before I was born.
On my maternal side, the opposite is true, the family are generally great, but it's so massive that I know very few members of my family on that side. Overall, the only real family I have, and ever see or stay in contact with, are my immediate family, my maternal grandmother, an aunt (mother's sister) in New Zealand and my cousins there, and my aunt and cousin on my dad's side who were my uncle's wife and child until they rejected him and left. I also had an uncle, my mother's brother, and my maternal granddad, who both died a few years ago when I was around 12.
Anyway, in general, all my family I see or speak to are great. We have our ups and downs, but overall they're always there for me, and me for them. Particularly my grandmother, who's been a greta help sending money and advice to me each month while I've been at university. I was kind of worried for my family in New Zealand, as they live in Christchurch where the earthquakes have hit, but fortunately they're nowhere near where the epicentre was, so they were fine. But yeah, my family who I speak to are great and I definitely love them all, though my parents can be a bit pushy at times (like before I came to university, I wanted to join the RAF, and they were the pushiest people in the world trying to get me in, until I decided against it after the RAF careers guy said I had to join straight from school, when I wanted to do university first and join the Air Squadron while here).