Poll: Your Social Status and Video Games

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Tears of Blood

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HarlyHellbender said:
Tears of Blood said:
HarlyHellbender said:
I find dating someone who also likes games balances things out. You still have a social life, and you still get to play games... and maybe a few video games too =P
Oh good grief, those people are hard to find, let alone get interested in you.
Yea, I was flirting with this one guy for 4 hours and he never realised that was what I was doing >_< Sometimes you just gotta say it out right.
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Oh, sorry, I thought you were a dude. (Maybe you are, just write me off as ignorant if you are)

Anyway, I was saying that women who play games regularly and are open about it are hard to find. I know plenty of people who play games, but they're all guys.

Glefistus said:
Tears of Blood said:
*Roots for option 5, with only my vote*

... Terrible of me, isn't it? XD
Don't worry, way things are looking for me, I'll be joining you there soon. But what does that matter when you have Biology?
Or Chemistry.

Damn you, pre-med...
 

Iskenator67

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When my gaming goes up my social status drops. I have about 3 real life friends that I haven't seen in months because we play games online now.
 

QuirkyTambourine

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I had a lot of great friends, then I went off to college, some shit changed, and literally just in these past 3 weeks I've lost nearly everyone I can talk to anymore for various reasons. I'm a pretty popular guy, but I don't really have that many close friends (the ones I can tell everything to) at the moment. More on that at 11

I'm more of a guitar with headphones right now, and that's. about. it.
 

LooK iTz Jinjo

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I have a few "close friends" (3) and then upwards of 15 that I consider a friend. Alter the question to be specifically at school? You would get 1 and 3.

I have a lot of friends that I met through my football club and then a lot that I met directly through playing games, if it weren't for school I would answer with the first one I am really popular. Nobody cares that I play games! but due to the fact that people at school are superficial cunts I spent 13 years of my life getting shit because I played games and because I am slightly more intelligent than the average moron.

So I guess I will answer I am somewhat popular. It rarely gets in the way. because I see school as a minor part of my life and seeing as I finish year 12 in 4 weeks (plus exams) I don't see it as ever causing much of a problem for me ever again - except when I manage to drive every female away from me when I drunkly describe how good I am at Guitar Hero and Gears, but what can you do?
 

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Glefistus said:
What a BEAUTIFUL example of a bell curve in the poll at this time of posting.
Looks like a Maxwell-Boltzmann distribution now...
 

HarlyHellbender

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Tears of Blood said:
HarlyHellbender said:
Tears of Blood said:
HarlyHellbender said:
I find dating someone who also likes games balances things out. You still have a social life, and you still get to play games... and maybe a few video games too =P
Oh good grief, those people are hard to find, let alone get interested in you.
Yea, I was flirting with this one guy for 4 hours and he never realised that was what I was doing >_< Sometimes you just gotta say it out right.
...

Oh, sorry, I thought you were a dude. (Maybe you are, just write me off as ignorant if you are)

Anyway, I was saying that women who play games regularly and are open about it are hard to find. I know plenty of people who play games, but they're all guys.
OH! LOL XD Yeah I'm a chick. Yeah we are a rare breed, the ones who are open about it anyway. I can see what you mean. Girls who game are hard to find, there are usually casual gamer girls who play games on facebook and such. The best way to find gamer girls is at conventions and game related events. Well, in my experience anyway =P
 

Low Key

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I have a bunch of friends. I'm sure they all know I play video games, but I only really talk about them with one or two. If all I talked about was video games with people, I'm sure I'd be just as unpopular as anyone else who only talks about one subject.
 

Tears of Blood

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HarlyHellbender said:
OH! LOL XD Yeah I'm a chick. Yeah we are a rare breed, the ones who are open about it anyway. I can see what you mean. Girls who game are hard to find, there are usually casual gamer girls who play games on facebook and such. The best way to find gamer girls is at conventions and game related events. Well, in my experience anyway =P
Oh man, I hate conventions... When I was in high school, people would cosplay to school and I would throw up a little in my mouth. I just can't understand being that obsessed.

But, maybe I should give that a try...
 

HarlyHellbender

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Tears of Blood said:
HarlyHellbender said:
OH! LOL XD Yeah I'm a chick. Yeah we are a rare breed, the ones who are open about it anyway. I can see what you mean. Girls who game are hard to find, there are usually casual gamer girls who play games on facebook and such. The best way to find gamer girls is at conventions and game related events. Well, in my experience anyway =P
Oh man, I hate conventions... When I was in high school, people would cosplay to school and I would throw up a little in my mouth. I just can't understand being that obsessed.

But, maybe I should give that a try...
Yeah... there is a time and a place for cosplay... Sometimes what happens at a convention should stay at a convention.
 

Aedrial

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Tears of Blood said:
HarlyHellbender said:
OH! LOL XD Yeah I'm a chick. Yeah we are a rare breed, the ones who are open about it anyway. I can see what you mean. Girls who game are hard to find, there are usually casual gamer girls who play games on facebook and such. The best way to find gamer girls is at conventions and game related events. Well, in my experience anyway =P
Oh man, I hate conventions... When I was in high school, people would cosplay to school and I would throw up a little in my mouth. I just can't understand being that obsessed.

But, maybe I should give that a try...
Cosplaying is fun somethings, having random swords fights in food courts is great for shits and giggles.
 

SnowCold

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I admit that I have very few friends, but I dought that it's cause of video games, I'm just a dork.
 

SonicKoala

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I have a few good friends, and then a bunch of people that I'm friendly with at my job. Overall, though, I'm just not that social a person, and I enjoy just staying in and playing video games. I go out once a week or so with my friends, and that's satisfactory to me.
 

Mythbhavd

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I've played games for years and it has never hurt my social status. It's just a hobby. I don't think anyone cares one way or another.

The only way I think it would hurt would be if you placed a computer game over time spent with your friends. I'm married. I generally play when my wife is at work and sometimes when she's at home. But, she always comes before the game. I'll put the games aside to spend time with her hands down. I have friends with whom I game and we always have a good time, but I make sure I invest time into them outside of the game so they know they're appreciated.
 

Tears of Blood

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I've played games for years and it has never hurt my social status. It's just a hobby. I don't think anyone cares one way or another.

The only way I think it would hurt would be if you placed a computer game over time spent with your friends. I'm married. I generally play when my wife is at work and sometimes when she's at home. But, she always comes before the game. I'll put the games aside to spend time with her hands down. I have friends with whom I game and we always have a good time, but I make sure I invest time into them outside of the game so they know they're appreciated.
That's the funny part of the whole thing with me, I never put my games before others. I try to hide that I play games at all, in fact.

I am surprised at the responses so far. I read an article, I don't know what issue it was, about a guy who hid his Wii behind his TV and that sort of nonsense... It seems the two have always had a negative corelation.
 

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I game. Actively. In fact I'm playing "Fantastic Contraption" right now. But I'm very social as well. My ex invited me to a party tomorrow and I'm going. Plan on getting wasted, turning down drunk chicks, then losing horribly at Rock Band. Gods, I'm terrible at rythm games. Between friends, surfing a flooded industry, personal recreation, work, games, sleep has been a rarity. I heard on TV recently thus: "You were goth? How does that work out?" You act depressed; you get depressed chicks." That seems plausible with all things. You act antisocial, you attract the antisocial. Normally following the biggest phallic-hat in the group. A hunt in packs kind of way. Just natural. All I can say is be yourself and you'll attract people who understand you, mainly because you understand them.

The main problem I'm having now is: if I use words with an excess of three sylables rapidly, my frieds start to fade out. I'd get smarter friends but everytime I try they're just so pompous and selfinvolved, that it makes for the difficult times. I understand genious has an unfortunate side-effect of introversion, but come on! But then I look at my frieds who have developed a drinking game around listening to one of my tirades and taking a drink/hit everytime I say something they don't understand. Clowns to the left of me, Jokers to my right.
 

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I'm a gamer, and I have a highly active social life. Video games do not inhibit your social life, you make that choice yourself.

I try to make friends as often as I can, I make conversation with strangers, I throw parties, and I don't judge people.

Perhaps you just lack the confidence to go out and meet people? Or maybe you alienate yourself on purpose?
 

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I went for option 2, "I am somewhat popular. It rarely gets in the way."
I know practically everyone in my year level, and most people know me. Everyone knows that I'm a geek/nerd/gamer, no one really cares, and most of them like me...
A large majority of the "jocks" I know play games (such as CoD 4) as much as I do, and a few are considerably good. So, for me and my close friends, letting people know who we really are hasn't been a problem...

To the OP: Sorry to hear that this isn't the case for you too...
 

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Tears of Blood said:
Mythbhavd said:
I've played games for years and it has never hurt my social status. It's just a hobby. I don't think anyone cares one way or another.

The only way I think it would hurt would be if you placed a computer game over time spent with your friends. I'm married. I generally play when my wife is at work and sometimes when she's at home. But, she always comes before the game. I'll put the games aside to spend time with her hands down. I have friends with whom I game and we always have a good time, but I make sure I invest time into them outside of the game so they know they're appreciated.
That's the funny part of the whole thing with me, I never put my games before others. I try to hide that I play games at all, in fact.

I am surprised at the responses so far. I read an article, I don't know what issue it was, about a guy who hid his Wii behind his TV and that sort of nonsense... It seems the two have always had a negative corelation.
I don't really have any issues. :shrug: People like me plenty and they regularly see me reading PC Gamer and Fantasy/SciFi novels.

Have you ever thought that it may be that you actually try to hide it that gives it a negative conotation? If you go into a situation thinking negatively of it, many times people will pick up on that through body language and you sub-consciously avoiding the subject.

When I meet new people, it generally doesn't take long for them to find out that I play video games. I treat it just like any other hobby and most people respect that. Sure, there are the ones who will joke about "a grown man playing games" and I just shoot a barb right back at them with a grin on my face.

Being light hearted about the situation may be one of the reasons why people tend to not take it too seriously with me. It could also be that I read quite a bit so I have at least a smattering of other interests and can quite often bluff my way through a conversation about topics I readily don't care about or know very little about.

Edit - Oh, and #2.