Poll: You're a virgin, would you rather your first time be with another virgin or someone with experience?
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considering when I was a virgin I lost mine to someone more experienced...I'd rather go for the one I have the better connection with. Also, that's not really a great power so to speak....just because someone is a virgin doesn't mean they don't watch porn or know anything and just cause someone is experienced doesn't mean they're any good. [sub][sub]I mean hell, you could be as unlucky as me and be with someone who couldn't care less about your feelings or anything and was just using you to meet their own needs leaving you to learn how to fake it really well[/sub][/sub]
well, i am a virgin and the experience side of things doesnt bother me if im honest. i would have to completely trust the person im with in order for things to get to the point of sexual relations. regardless of experience in the matter for either person involved.
Besides the passive aggressive response, I don't see an option for me. I don't care either way, sex sounds nice and everything, but I don't think it right to sleep with another person outside of marriage. I also don't want to get married. Ever. So I'm in a sort of catch-22. And just to make it clear, I acknowledge my Forever Alone status.
Instead of playing the catch up game I'd rather it be with another virgin. Though to be fair there's a wide gap between virgin and experienced where popping your cherry won't turn you into a sex god/goddess.
You know what, if you're lucky enough to find a girl that is truly a virgin while you happen to be a virgin, Godspeed on your magical journey.
Seriously, the likelihood of finding an attractive girl who didn't lose it around 16 is so astronomically low that you deserve all the pleasure of breaking her in. Frankly, I don't go fishing around the kiddie pool so I'll leave this to the professionals.
So whether you like it or not, your first time is likely going to be with someone who has experience. Trust me though, this is ideal because you will be terrible. You can redeem yourself sure, but it is far better to disappoint someone who knows what to expect from a new sexual partner as opposed to someone who doesn't. You could effectively ruin a virgin's expectations of sex if her first wasn't with someone who had experience. She needs something to look forward to, after all.
And so do you. Girls with experience (for the most part) will treat you right and will tell you exactly what you need to do to get the most pleasure out of their bodies. Could be something as simple as kissing, touching certain erogenous zones, and whatever else gets their freak on. Then of course, the obvious intercourse stuff.
Being that you may have achieved some success with this partner, you take what you've learned and apply it to a new sexual partner. You may not get them off right away as all girls require a certain approach, but you won't be fishing in the dark. She might even call your amateur ass experienced if you play your cards right.
Now tell me, what sort of transferable knowledge what a virgin give you?
Probably next to nothing, assuming she speaks to you again. You made the poor thing cry, after all.
Seriously, the likelihood of finding an attractive girl who didn't lose it around 16 is so astronomically low that you deserve all the pleasure of breaking her in. Frankly, I don't go fishing around the kiddie pool so I'll leave this to the professionals.
So whether you like it or not, your first time is likely going to be with someone who has experience. Trust me though, this is ideal because you will be terrible. You can redeem yourself sure, but it is far better to disappoint someone who knows what to expect from a new sexual partner as opposed to someone who doesn't. You could effectively ruin a virgin's expectations of sex if her first wasn't with someone who had experience. She needs something to look forward to, after all.
And so do you. Girls with experience (for the most part) will treat you right and will tell you exactly what you need to do to get the most pleasure out of their bodies. Could be something as simple as kissing, touching certain erogenous zones, and whatever else gets their freak on. Then of course, the obvious intercourse stuff.
Being that you may have achieved some success with this partner, you take what you've learned and apply it to a new sexual partner. You may not get them off right away as all girls require a certain approach, but you won't be fishing in the dark. She might even call your amateur ass experienced if you play your cards right.
Now tell me, what sort of transferable knowledge what a virgin give you?
Probably next to nothing, assuming she speaks to you again. You made the poor thing cry, after all.
I lost it to someone with experience, and that's the wiser move. At least, it was for me. I'm still with him, so that's something.
It wouldn't matter to me. If I could choose, then I'd like to be with a virgin, because not only would it be something new that we would both share, but we could also improve ourselves during our time together.
Apathy is apathetic. What is relevant to me is whether I have a close connection with a person before I sleep with them, not the number of partners they've had. Though I would want non-virgins to be tested for STIs, but that should be a given.