Paksenarrion said:
Being heterosexual is kind of like being Undeclared in a college major.
So, I guess I'm still Undeclared.
I would disagree, unless its something you have never thought about.
My stance on sexuality is the same as mine on religion (though my religious opinions are much more harsh): It's okay not to change your position, so long as you know why you are there and have considered all alternatives.
In religion I am an atheist, having found that, all things considered, that appears the most reasonable position.
In orientation I am heterosexual. I never really questioned it until I met friends who are gay; and after contemplating that and the way I feel about both genders I realized I am still attracted both romantically and sexually to women.
It is not that I see this as the only option; in fact I admit that there are extremely specific circumstances in which I could be attracted to a man, but I consider those circumstances so unlikely as to be negligible and in any case cannot imagine a sexual relationship of this nature; whereas I am very attracted to women.
Nearly any opinion or position is acceptable, so long as you understand why you are there and believe that is best for you.