I'm not trying to start another long running flamewar thread here...this is just a thourght I had and I'm wondering what everyone else thinks...
see I was thinking...[b/]in very very VERY general terms[/b] when I think about all the males I've seen in all kinds of fiction/media..and all the females. it feels like in regards to females there less.."variety"
its been said before that males are often seen as the "default", which it does feel like that somtimes, when I think of a charachter and he happens to be a guy people don't get hung up on his gender...you see a whole spectrum of charachters, handsome, short, unatrrative, serious, funny, crazy...hell "steve buscemi" has a career..which to me kind of shows that theres more depth and variety to how men are portrayed...
now OF COARSE all the usuall stuff applies to men as well...Buscemi wouldnt be your leading man in an action flick anytime soon...or the love interest in a romantic comedy...hollywood and other media is still as sterotypical and shallow as ever
but anyway when I think about women...to me the whole spectrum feels alot more limited in the kind of people you get, apearancewise its pretty standard, you don't find a whole range of body types "generally" persoanllity wise I find it hard to generalise though...when were talking about the (rom com) type stuff they are always femine type ladys who are devoid of any interestign personality traits and are always looking for "mr right" or some bullshit ..anyway
take a film like bridesmaids...I actually like it..I thourght it was hilarious..also when I think about it its charachters are all pretty good...and then theres that charachter Megan...
I admit I laughed because she was funny as hell...but when I think about it (and read in an article) they really draw attention to the fact that she is "fat" short and "butch"...now of coarse its a comedy, thats to be expected, but when you think about it the reason they point and laugh seems like [i/]the Idea[/i] that a women is like this rather than the image hollywood has shown us is [b/]so ludacrous[/b] that its hilarious...
..another way of looking at it is that if a man is butch, or less butch, or short, or funny or serious, or is the subject of physical humour, or is smart, or a physisist, or a mechanical genious, or a violent badass......it just is
of a women is any of those things then its a big deal...[b/]if a women deviates from a certain image we have of what a women is..its a big deal[/b] I mean where do you supose the term "girls dont play games" comes from?
the fact is weather we know it or not we are influenced by the media around us.....women...hell [b/]51% of all people ever[/b] are a diverse bunch..and I get the feeling that (as I said) generally speaking media does not reflect this [footnote/]YES I know media always goes back on sterotypes and such for men as well....but I still maintain my point[/footnote]
like say I'm a PC gamer...for some reason this would surprise people..why?...what do girls do?...how do we know what anyone likes to do in their spare time?
which makes me wonder if that in turn influences peoples Ideas of women..not just blatant sexism...but other more subtle things
they say that doing female charachters is hard.....no, no it isnt...we have all heard a million times before that "charachter first, gender second" which rings true
take Comander Shepard..she's a strong female charachter and interchanglble with a guy..
part of the problem is any notable female charachter all of a sudden becomes a "benchmark"...a judging point, which isn't good at all because then people complain if she is not what they think the Ideal female charachter should be...regardless of how it fits in the story
but thats another issue...
this tunred out more "wall of text" than I intended...essentially my point is [b/]we seem to have a narrower varety of women than men in all kinds of media[/b]
see I was thinking...[b/]in very very VERY general terms[/b] when I think about all the males I've seen in all kinds of fiction/media..and all the females. it feels like in regards to females there less.."variety"
its been said before that males are often seen as the "default", which it does feel like that somtimes, when I think of a charachter and he happens to be a guy people don't get hung up on his gender...you see a whole spectrum of charachters, handsome, short, unatrrative, serious, funny, crazy...hell "steve buscemi" has a career..which to me kind of shows that theres more depth and variety to how men are portrayed...
now OF COARSE all the usuall stuff applies to men as well...Buscemi wouldnt be your leading man in an action flick anytime soon...or the love interest in a romantic comedy...hollywood and other media is still as sterotypical and shallow as ever
but anyway when I think about women...to me the whole spectrum feels alot more limited in the kind of people you get, apearancewise its pretty standard, you don't find a whole range of body types "generally" persoanllity wise I find it hard to generalise though...when were talking about the (rom com) type stuff they are always femine type ladys who are devoid of any interestign personality traits and are always looking for "mr right" or some bullshit ..anyway
take a film like bridesmaids...I actually like it..I thourght it was hilarious..also when I think about it its charachters are all pretty good...and then theres that charachter Megan...
I admit I laughed because she was funny as hell...but when I think about it (and read in an article) they really draw attention to the fact that she is "fat" short and "butch"...now of coarse its a comedy, thats to be expected, but when you think about it the reason they point and laugh seems like [i/]the Idea[/i] that a women is like this rather than the image hollywood has shown us is [b/]so ludacrous[/b] that its hilarious...
..another way of looking at it is that if a man is butch, or less butch, or short, or funny or serious, or is the subject of physical humour, or is smart, or a physisist, or a mechanical genious, or a violent badass......it just is
of a women is any of those things then its a big deal...[b/]if a women deviates from a certain image we have of what a women is..its a big deal[/b] I mean where do you supose the term "girls dont play games" comes from?
the fact is weather we know it or not we are influenced by the media around us.....women...hell [b/]51% of all people ever[/b] are a diverse bunch..and I get the feeling that (as I said) generally speaking media does not reflect this [footnote/]YES I know media always goes back on sterotypes and such for men as well....but I still maintain my point[/footnote]
like say I'm a PC gamer...for some reason this would surprise people..why?...what do girls do?...how do we know what anyone likes to do in their spare time?
which makes me wonder if that in turn influences peoples Ideas of women..not just blatant sexism...but other more subtle things
they say that doing female charachters is hard.....no, no it isnt...we have all heard a million times before that "charachter first, gender second" which rings true
take Comander Shepard..she's a strong female charachter and interchanglble with a guy..
part of the problem is any notable female charachter all of a sudden becomes a "benchmark"...a judging point, which isn't good at all because then people complain if she is not what they think the Ideal female charachter should be...regardless of how it fits in the story
but thats another issue...
this tunred out more "wall of text" than I intended...essentially my point is [b/]we seem to have a narrower varety of women than men in all kinds of media[/b]