Relationship Stigmas

[Zeetchmen]

As many a gamer my relationship/sex life has been in the toilet for most of my life thus far, but by some stroke of luck that has change and I found a girlfriend!

Sadly she is a total slut, slept with somewhere over 10 different guys regularly talks about how many blowjobs she has given to random guys she has brought to her room(some of which she didn't even know their names during said BJ), and all the places and times she has had sex.

Now I am not that picky, but if I have one thing that hits me right in the gut about women is slutiness, and she is the Queen of the Sluts. I don't know why it annoys me like it does, and I know I should be happy too even have a girl, but her slutiness is starting to get to me.

So I face the choice to end it now and (probally) losing my only chance at sex, or dealing with her cavern-vag and sluty past as it chips away at my insides.

What to do?

 

[Aunel]

Do you want to be known as (another) one of the sad bastards that does her just to get laid?

There are more ways of getting girls to like you, music (especially bass) is one way, and just being a nice guy is the other, try and exploit both of those.

 

[Distorted Stu]

The question is.. do you trust her?
Ive bene in the situation where my girlfriend had a rather.. erm, experienced sexual life. In the end i realised i just couldnt trust her so i finished it.

 

[Lord Mountbatten Reborn]

There are more ways of getting girls to like you, music (especially bass)

Has it worked yet?

OT: If you want a meaningful relationship Mr. OP, then dump her. If not, have some hot sweet sex. Heaven knows she must be experienced.

 

[Dufaunce]

Do you want to be known as (another) one of the sad bastards that does her just to get laid?

There are more ways of getting girls to like you, music (especially bass) is one way, and just being a nice guy is the other, try and exploit both of those.

Agreed. She isn't worth it, there is no point being with someone you have nothing in common with. Sex is a poor excuse to be in a relationship.

 

[Rock 'n' Soul]

If she is what you say she is, then "girlfriend" isn't a worthy title. Dump her. It's not worth it, unless you want to pick up a few souvenirs from her wormhole of a vagina.

 

[CrashBang]

Just find a decent girlfriend? It reeeeeeally isn't hard to find a girl who's not a twat. I went out with a similarly slutty girl a few years ago, broke up with her after a few weeks cos... well, the same reason you should be dumping yours, cos she was a slut. They're not good girlfriends and, let's face it, they're shit people

 

[Kathinka]

unless she made a full face turn change of herself for you and put an end to her sluttyness she's just gonna hurt you. dump her and be done with it. some might say "bone and then dump her" but i'd disagree with that on the base that said "boning" is a very personall and intimate thing and should not be done that way.

so in short:
she just was slutty and changed now (yes, it happens) - keep
she still is a whore - dump

any bets on how long until this gets answerwed in the allmighty relationship thread of bosniak?^^

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

... Why is this even a problem.
Break up with her. Do not stick it in her.
I have heard STIs are kind of lame.

If she seemed ashamed about it, I'd have advised you to stick with her, as it is possible she might be trying to turn things around.
But she doesn't. And so I will not.
Seriously, dude. Get out of there.
And tell her to grow the fuck up while you're at it.

 

[Julianking93]

Dude, do you really want to give your virginity to a whore?

I made the same mistake and got my heart broken. Don't you do the same

 

[Shapsters]

There are more ways of getting girls to like you, music (especially bass)

Has it worked yet?

OT: If you want a meaningful relationship Mr. OP, then dump her. If not, have some hot sweet sex. Heaven knows she must be experienced.

I agree, get laid then leave her, I'm sure she would be used to it anyways, she will just move on to some other guy.

 

[Robyrt]

I actually had a wonderful long-term exclusive relationship in college with a girl who had many prior sexual experiences.

The difference was that she came into it saying, I don't want to repeat my past mistakes, I'm done with those days. In your case, I'd question your good judgment, as it sounds like you'll just be Guy #12 or whatever.

 

[Zeetchmen]

I can see from a "new leaf" perspective, but I highly doubt it, from what I can tell from people who know her and her herself she is pretty much a world class hooker.

I just made the mistake of getting too attached, must be due to desperation. Although to have sex with her and leave sounds good, I think that might eat away at my insides.

I just don't want to be a virgin anymore, Ive been the butt of enough jokes because of it not to mention how it effects my self image.

 

[IckleMissMayhem]

As many a gamer my relationship/sex life has been in the toilet for most of my life thus far, but by some stroke of luck that has change and I found a girlfriend!

Sadly she is a total slut

So is she actually your girlfriend, or have you just stuck your hoo-hoo-dilly in her cha-cha? Just curious...


If you're not happy, then it's not much of a relationship.

 

[NoNameMcgee]

Let me think, how about "stop being judgemental?"

Let's be honest, the reason this gets to you is because you have a stigma against women who enjoy sex, hence why you branded your girlfriend a slut and want to dump her. The real question here is, why is she putting up with you?

But I'll bite and give you the 'is she trustworthy' answer: Just because she loves sex and isn't shy or inhibited about it doesn't mean shes going to need sex with someone else but you. If you're there, you two can have sex and if shes really into you that will be enough for her. If she tells you she needs multiple sex partners that's when you should question whether she can stay loyal and monogamous in your relationship.

 

[Bluebacon]

Unless you can trust her, get out of there. ASAP. You',ll regret it otherwise.

 

[Peanut Butter]

If you have not 'done the deed' then run, run ofr the hills.
If you have 'done the deed' then i would reccomend:

'getting yourself checked before parts start falling off of a man...' - cookie for reference

 

[Peanut Butter]

I can see from a "new leaf" perspective, but I highly doubt it, from what I can tell from people who know her and her herself she is pretty much a world class hooker.

I just made the mistake of getting too attached, must be due to desperation. Although to have sex with her and leave sounds good, I think that might eat away at my insides.

I just don't want to be a virgin anymore, Ive been the butt of enough jokes because of it not to mention how it effects my self image.

Sorry for the double post but jesus christ, stop being such a bloody child. Sex isnt everything: get it thorugh ur head, there are other things in life.

 

[Composer]

ur "only chance" at sex could land u an STD, making said "only chance" the FINAL CHANCE.