Relationships! Please do tell....
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Horror story? Hmm...
My ex, in an attempt to ensure that she maintained the friendship with our mutual friends whilst alienating them from me so we wouldn't inadvertently hang out with each other if we both saw our friends invented an elaborate story to make them hate me. I was apparently going around our entire town saying that they were complete druggies and all they did was sit at home snorting coke all day. It took me about a year to rectify everything that she messed up.
By pure chance I was telling this story to a friend who went to the town college (whilst myself and those involved stayed on at 6th form, ergo who had absolutely minimal ties to "gossip" from our 6th form) and even SHE'D heard that I was going around saying all of this crap.
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I was over at a girl's house one night watching a film with her, after a while I leaned in to kiss her to which she accepted and kissed back quite passionately. After about 10 seconds she jumped back and burst into tears saying 'no, no, I can't, I'm sorry, I can't, I'm sorry, no, no, no'.
My ex, in an attempt to ensure that she maintained the friendship with our mutual friends whilst alienating them from me so we wouldn't inadvertently hang out with each other if we both saw our friends invented an elaborate story to make them hate me. I was apparently going around our entire town saying that they were complete druggies and all they did was sit at home snorting coke all day. It took me about a year to rectify everything that she messed up.
By pure chance I was telling this story to a friend who went to the town college (whilst myself and those involved stayed on at 6th form, ergo who had absolutely minimal ties to "gossip" from our 6th form) and even SHE'D heard that I was going around saying all of this crap.
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I was over at a girl's house one night watching a film with her, after a while I leaned in to kiss her to which she accepted and kissed back quite passionately. After about 10 seconds she jumped back and burst into tears saying 'no, no, I can't, I'm sorry, I can't, I'm sorry, no, no, no'.
Me and relationships don't exactly have the best track record. I've had one relationship that quickly dissolved into sex, so I ended that. I'm a romantic and need a great deal of support to get through the day without getting depressed quickly, so that would've been terrible should that have continued.
[sub]And now for something completely different and not emo.[/sub]
I find it hilarious that my current group of friends at the new school I attend came to be because a girl hit on me and asked me out on a date. I'm gay, so that was a rather awkward movie. But now that group of friends has come to include two other groups that I came to be introduced to in the exact same way.
Apparently I'm a chick magnet. And it's annoying. xD
[sub]And now for something completely different and not emo.[/sub]
I find it hilarious that my current group of friends at the new school I attend came to be because a girl hit on me and asked me out on a date. I'm gay, so that was a rather awkward movie. But now that group of friends has come to include two other groups that I came to be introduced to in the exact same way.
Apparently I'm a chick magnet. And it's annoying. xD
Here's my horror story.
Long distance relationship, guy comes over 200 miles to see me. He proceeds to spend more time on MMO's and with my guitars than he does with me. Guy is thoroughly inappropriate when he thinks I'm sleeping. I tell guy to get out of my house.
The End.
Long distance relationship, guy comes over 200 miles to see me. He proceeds to spend more time on MMO's and with my guitars than he does with me. Guy is thoroughly inappropriate when he thinks I'm sleeping. I tell guy to get out of my house.
The End.
Oh my relationships... I've had 3, and only 1 of them was with someone I actually cared about.
First one was when I got to high school. We eventually just broke up since neither of us were really interested in each other.
Second one was the good one. We had similar interests, we got along, and we were happy together. The relationship ended because she moved, and we decided not to bother with a long distance relationship since it wouldn't work out.
Third one... oh my the third. I have many stories from this one, and very few are good... Most bad moments of my life came from this one.
Well pull up a chair!
A month into the relationship I found out she was cheating on me. Now I always suspected, and she was basically using me for things (money, food). Well after a series of planned situations and moments, I got her to leave me, break up with the person she was cheating with, and beg me to take her back. Before this we broke up and I did take her back, mainly out of pity. But this time, I didn't. It ended at the end of school, in a big crowd and her begging me to take her back. She kept going on about how I was the only one who could help her and blah, blah, blah (she pulled this same shit before). I just looked at her squarely and said "Quite frankly my dear, I don't give a damn." and walked away.
Never before have I felt so powerful and awesome.
First one was when I got to high school. We eventually just broke up since neither of us were really interested in each other.
Second one was the good one. We had similar interests, we got along, and we were happy together. The relationship ended because she moved, and we decided not to bother with a long distance relationship since it wouldn't work out.
Third one... oh my the third. I have many stories from this one, and very few are good... Most bad moments of my life came from this one.
Well pull up a chair!
A month into the relationship I found out she was cheating on me. Now I always suspected, and she was basically using me for things (money, food). Well after a series of planned situations and moments, I got her to leave me, break up with the person she was cheating with, and beg me to take her back. Before this we broke up and I did take her back, mainly out of pity. But this time, I didn't. It ended at the end of school, in a big crowd and her begging me to take her back. She kept going on about how I was the only one who could help her and blah, blah, blah (she pulled this same shit before). I just looked at her squarely and said "Quite frankly my dear, I don't give a damn." and walked away.
Never before have I felt so powerful and awesome.
Hmm Interesting fact. I have a buddy who is the exact opposite. He could get any man he wanted, but he is straight as the day is long. And i'm talking an Alaskan day. One of those "the son never sets days".9NineBreaker9 said:
But man. Why is it that the Homosexual/gay what ever the proper term is get the ladies and we straight guys are SOL.
I haven't the foggiest, but apparently I was hitting on the latter two. I know I wasn't, and, if anything, I was simply being nice to them and just talking to them. It's put me in a bind where I don't want to talk to anyone now - girls for fear that it might turn into another "flirtatious" situation, guys for fear that my friendliness could be misconstrued as hitting on them, and gay guys I'd actually want to talk to because... well, I'm shy and afraid of talking to them. xDRareDevil said:
I guess it's because of the gay man's master plot to kidnap all of your women! To kidnap them and proceed to do absolutely nothing with them! BWAHAHAHA!
Now this one, it just makes the most sense...Cookiegustav said:
As for my relationships... well they don't exist, yet. But give me a chance, I'm only young.
BASTARD! I knew it! All your scented candles and basic hygene skills! your trying to kill the human race by taking all the cute and smart chicks and leaving us with the dumb ones!9NineBreaker9 said:
Two can play at this game. . . wait. . . we already lost.
I know this will probably offer none- to minimal help with your problem.vampirekid.13 said:
And I don't even know if you want to get over this girl, or if you want to keep pursuing her.
(or seeing as you hate her now, try to destroy her life.)
But in case you are trying to forget her, i suggest you try to find someone or something who knows what you are going through, and understands what you are feeling.
I can't offer you this kind of support, but i know a song that sounds like what you're feeling.
Well I'm in a wonderful relationship right now. 
With Tom aka AzureSupernova. He's my everything and he helped me get out of an emotionally, verbally abusive relationship that lasted a little over 3 years. A lot longer than it should have, that's for sure. Tom and I are so great together though. Tom and I have been together for a year and 3 months. I love him so much. :3 <3
With Tom aka AzureSupernova. He's my everything and he helped me get out of an emotionally, verbally abusive relationship that lasted a little over 3 years. A lot longer than it should have, that's for sure. Tom and I are so great together though. Tom and I have been together for a year and 3 months. I love him so much. :3 <3
Ok time for a horror story. I went to berlin on an exchange trip. I met this girl who was absoloutely beautiful who was one of the other pupils on the exchange trip. We bond really well and over the space of a week we grow really fond of each other. On the last day of the trip she asks me if I want to f**k her. I say no because I like her alot and dont want to anything bad to happen. So 6 months pass before I see her again. Over those six months I turn down several girls who were potential girlfriends because of the simple thought of her. WHen she finally comes over. She doesnt feel anything for me anymore. The girl id fallen in love with basically crushed my heart and soul.
Well, I've never had a GF, and I cannot currently get a GF for 2 basic Reasons: 1) I am so socially awkward that if I tried to get a GF in Real Life, it would become a big deal not only in the school but at my house! and 2) Based on how I date on the internet, I am a bit clingy, a bit of a flirter, I usually break up with internet GF's who don't do me in a week (I am trying to fix my perversions) and I usually end up with a lot of internet Girl's who are friends liking me, and that puts me in an awkward situation, cause I hate to be the guy who's like "Sorry, I am not into you like that, I was only being friendly"... And I am thinking that that's what would happen in Real life.
I did have a crush on a girl from Kindergarten to First Grade though, but she moved away and I haven't had the same feelings for a real girl since.
I did have a crush on a girl from Kindergarten to First Grade though, but she moved away and I haven't had the same feelings for a real girl since.