Okay, so your list is sort of odd, because you seem to like mostly shows with lots of the things you say you don't want.
Anyway, I recommend you take a look at:
Fantastic Children (great character-driven mystery, excellent soundtrack, some music, great art style)
Gankutstuou (retelling of The Count of Monte Cristo, looks like nothing else ever made)
Patlabor (mostly slice of life comedy about the police tasked with handling giant robot crime. Mostly slow, character-driven humor. Occasional action, and some dramatic arcs in the TV series and movies. Directed by Mamoru Oshii.)
Jin-roh (morose mystery-drama with some amazing action at the end)
The complete filmography of the late Satoshi Kon (Perfect Blue, Millennium Actress, Paprika, Tokyo Godfathers, Paranoia Agent, Magnetic Rose)
Anyway, I recommend you take a look at:
Fantastic Children (great character-driven mystery, excellent soundtrack, some music, great art style)
Gankutstuou (retelling of The Count of Monte Cristo, looks like nothing else ever made)
Patlabor (mostly slice of life comedy about the police tasked with handling giant robot crime. Mostly slow, character-driven humor. Occasional action, and some dramatic arcs in the TV series and movies. Directed by Mamoru Oshii.)
Jin-roh (morose mystery-drama with some amazing action at the end)
The complete filmography of the late Satoshi Kon (Perfect Blue, Millennium Actress, Paprika, Tokyo Godfathers, Paranoia Agent, Magnetic Rose)