School problems!

[blaberer6]

Hello Escapists! Your valuable input is once again called to serve!
So, here's the story: Me and a classmate of the opposite gender are at disagreement! She then decides to have me shunned by the entire female student population of the class as she refuses to realise her mistake that I tried to have her understand! My efforts to be nice and gentle to her have come to ruin as she barks back with verbal and physical aggression! Now, I teeter on the brink of being a victim of wrongful undeserved further aggression from her and friends (traitorous scum!) that she turned them against me! What do I do?
(Exclamation marks are the efforts to make the subject light-hearted)

 

[Metal Brother]

Walk away.

If she wants to act like that, there's little you can do to change her mind. She'll get over it. Or if she doesn't, you will.

 

[Doctor What]

You get prepared for dealing with this for the rest of your life.

Women, amirite?

But seriously, there really isn't much you CAN do. Women stick together, and there is almost no way you're going to be able to make them reevaluate the situation. I'm sure that you will get some good ideas, but be sure to have these words in your head as well.

 

[Fooz]

first off, what is the disagreement?

and secondly, she sounds like a lovely person. /sarcasm

 

[tahrey]

If I may be sexist for a moment, but in a way that many women might actually back me up on

as she refuses to realise her mistake that I tried to have her understand!

That was your first mistake, right there.
Women can be irrational. Teenage girls? Shitstorm of conflicted emotions and mind altering hormones. Even the sensible ones.
And that particular track of discussion will rarely end well even with the most astute guy, let alone anyone else. Let it go. Maybe point her at a relevant wikipedia article or something, but defeat is the most likely result. Embrace it.

To paraphrase, now: Sit the fuck still, shut the fuck up, and hope that tomorrow said disagreeable female won't put you on her list of things she wants to fuck up. Be as dull and unresponsive to her / her friends' stimulus as possible. Wait for her/them to move on to a new, more interesting target of her/their aggression and it will eventually blow over. In the meantime, get on with your life.

Or you could try to get your bros to put in good words for you amongst their girlfriends and hope to swing the tide of opinion in your favour, but... lol good luck with that.

 

[DirgeNovak]

first off, what is the disagreement?

and secondly, she sounds like a lovely person. /sarcasm

This. We need more details. Also, have you considered that you might be the one who's wrong?

 

[Jasper Jeffs]

Spread a rumour around that she fingered a cat.

 

[Toshiooh]

If all the other girls are against you then there is not much to do.What on earth did you say anyway? Just admit you were wrong (even if you are obviously right) and then try to work on finding out why she over reacted anyway (there might some painful memory/experience somewhere in there).

But really it all burns down to the person is.

 

[Angry Camel]

We'll need to now what you're disagreeing over. You also have to consider that she may be going through a tough time in another aspect of her life or is starved for attention.

Those, or maybe she like you and wants all attention off you for herself. Unlikely, but if you can keep your head, you may come out better for it in the eyes of others.

(Or PMT. In that case, be thankful your not walking away cradling your damaged spuds in your hands.)

 

[Cavehybrid]

could just give up and accept she wont accept it.

 

[Metal Brother]

If I may be sexist for a moment, but in a way that many women might actually back me up on

as she refuses to realise her mistake that I tried to have her understand!

That was your first mistake, right there.

Words of wisdom, all around.

 

[Womplord]

WHAT are you in disagreement about!?
We can't really help you if we can't make our own decision on it.
It would also give this thread some discussion value.

 

[Trolldor]

I don't get it.

 

[blaberer6]

I gave her something to patch a rather serious wound on her leg as she did not have anything to help it, hoping to achieve friendship (as I have with the many other friends I have, including those who got turned). She took it as if I liked her by jumping to conclusions and then started the shunning.

If I may be sexist for a moment, but in a way that many women might actually back me up on

as she refuses to realise her mistake that I tried to have her understand!

That was your first mistake, right there.
Women can be irrational. Teenage girls? Shitstorm of conflicted emotions and mind altering hormones. Even the sensible ones.
And that particular track of discussion will rarely end well even with the most astute guy, let alone anyone else. Let it go. Maybe point her at a relevant wikipedia article or something, but defeat is the most likely result. Embrace it.

To paraphrase, now: Sit the fuck still, shut the fuck up, and hope that tomorrow said disagreeable female won't put you on her list of things she wants to fuck up. Be as dull and unresponsive to her / her friends' stimulus as possible. Wait for her/them to move on to a new, more interesting target of her/their aggression and it will eventually blow over. In the meantime, get on with your life.

Or you could try to get your bros to put in good words for you amongst their girlfriends and hope to swing the tide of opinion in your favour, but... lol good luck with that.

(Thank you for your valuable input!)

I am more like, "I help you, you help me, we are friends", so it quite surprised me that the turned ones aren't helping me. (Maybe gratitude is overrated.)
And I could wait for it to blow over if I was not threatened!

 

[Anjel]

Spread a rumour around that she fingered a cat.

Am I the only person wanting to give Jasper Jeffs +internets for this?

OT: As other people have said, not enough info to comment.

 

[lemiel14n3]

Hello Escapists! Your valuable input is once again called to serve!
So, here's the story: Me and a classmate of the opposite gender are at disagreement! She then decides to have me shunned by the entire female student population of the class as she refuses to realise her mistake that I tried to have her understand! My efforts to be nice and gentle to her have come to ruin as she barks back with verbal and physical aggression! Now, I teeter on the brink of being a victim of wrongful undeserved further aggression from her and friends (traitorous scum!) that she turned them against me! What do I do?
(Exclamation marks are the efforts to make the subject light-hearted)

What happened? In my experience people, regardless of how irrationally female they may be. don't simply flip out for no reason. (Well, all too often we men won't know the reason). Did you do something?

Otherwise, well, she can't have total influence over the entirety of the female population at your school. Find someone who isn't within her circle.

 

[Trolldor]

How old are you?

 

[blaberer6]

How old are you?

Can't tell ya good sir!

 

[blaberer6]

Hello Escapists! Your valuable input is once again called to serve!
So, here's the story: Me and a classmate of the opposite gender are at disagreement! She then decides to have me shunned by the entire female student population of the class as she refuses to realise her mistake that I tried to have her understand! My efforts to be nice and gentle to her have come to ruin as she barks back with verbal and physical aggression! Now, I teeter on the brink of being a victim of wrongful undeserved further aggression from her and friends (traitorous scum!) that she turned them against me! What do I do?
(Exclamation marks are the efforts to make the subject light-hearted)

What happened? In my experience people, regardless of how irrationally female they may be. don't simply flip out for no reason. (Well, all too often we men won't know the reason). Did you do something?

Otherwise, well, she can't have total influence over the entirety of the female population at your school. Find someone who isn't within her circle.

Of course, there are also those not against me, but don't know what's going on as like what you said, she does not have influence over them.

(Thank you for your kind input!)