I went to a few of those dinner-dance/formal things, the equivalent of a junior prom and senior prom. I wasn't excited about either of them, but I went anyway. At the junior one, there were all the outgoing types on the dance floor, then the normal in-between people dancing in small clusters everywhere else, then some apathetic and/or self-conscious people sitting around talking, and some frolicking weirdos hiding behind the curtains or stealing everyone's place cards or trying on their friend's clothes. I was a mix of the latter two and took photos of anything and everything.
As for the senior one, wasting money on hair and makeup to pretend to be famous for a day left a bad taste in my mouth, it just seems kind of tacky, you know? Tacky like Christmas stuff in February because they hype is over. But I'm still glad I tried to look somewhat decent because a guy asked me to be his partner. Most of it was photos and sitting around for my group, and me taking photos of anything and everything. My friends didn't want to dance.
I left as soon as I could with one of my best friends and a couple of other friends following in another car, and we stopped at my house and then drove to the nightclub district to get alcohol with my friends obnoxious sound system (that's probably worth more than his car) blasting poppy trance-core songs and Rise Against and he was driving like an idiot and letting go of the wheel to clap to Sorry You're Not A Winner. The lights were so pretty.
The after party was at some girl's McMansion and we just sat around a fire and watched all the drunk people do stupid stuff. I had a few sips of something, but I didn't feel like sugary alcopops. Then I went to the beach to watch the sunset with three friends, and we climbed this rock and it was really really cold, and I took some homoerotic looking photos of them cuddling with a blanket. Later when the sun came up we literally piled up in the front of one of their cars and he had Beethoven CD playing. Then they took me home.
The best part of it was using photos as an excuse to hug all my cute friends :3 So yeah, make the most of that.