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Now that I have your attention...

This thread was inspired by the discussion that started in one of DanTheBard's threads about love and sex.

I have noticed that many users here on The Escapists seem to regard sex (or at least the pre-marital kind) as something not important, needed or enjoyable in a relationship, or at least not as important as love.
While these are surely noble sentiments, it seems to me very stupid, or at least naive, to think that any relationship based on love can keep going without sex.

If in fact we can all agree that a relationship based solely on sex is doomed to fail, then surely one based solely on love is also doomed to the same fate. After all, man is a "carnal" animal.

I don't know where I'm going with this, I just wanted to know why here sex seems to be mostly looked down upon as something "dirty" and "unpure", while I for one think that it can be something beautiful.

Casual sex also seems to get a pretty bad rep, which I for one don't understand why.

/rant.
 

WrongSprite

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(deleting post cause i'm bored of the replies, my intended message wasn't understood)
 

NeutralDrow

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Who have you been talking to, OP? Is that what the Sex or Love thread was all about?

Nothing wrong with pre-marital sex. It's even advisable. I just can't see the appeal of doing that outside a relationship.
 

Jimmyjames

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If someone isn't into sex they've either never been in love, never had it and don't know, talked themselves into thinking it's bad because they never get it, or have something in their past that makes them not want it.
 

vampirekid.13

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huh? sex is somewhat important, a relationship w/o sex is doomed no regardless of love...


casual sex is fine, ppl dont like it cuz they cant get it :\
 

zauxz

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WrongSprite said:
Sex isn't even slighty important in a relationship...
I do not agree. Sex is preety important. It shouldnt become the most important thing tho.
 

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Jimmyjames said:
If someone isn't into sex they've either never been in love, never had it and don't know, talked themselves into thinking it's bad because they never get it, or have something in their past that makes them not want it.
Pretty much this.

*sigh* so ronery ;_;
 

Time Travelling Toaster

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There's nothing wrong with sex ?
Casual sex with a lot of people gets a rep but going with someone and having sex is fine.
About the "unpure/dirty" thing, sex is natural =/ how the hells that dirty or unpure ?
 

Zersy

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WrongSprite said:
Sex isn't even slighty important in a relationship...
YES IT IS !

If you had a girl ffriend that was hot and you were together for a long time wouldn't you want to have sex ?

seriously people should just accpet that the OP is right
 

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Sex is the reason we have relationships. Think about, why do we work? To get money, why do we need money? To buy stuff and have nice things. Why do we need nice things? To get respect. Why do we need respect? To get noticed by people. Why do we need to get noticed? To get a date. Why do we need a date? To get a relationship. And why do we get a relationship? To get laid.
 

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Well I think of sex as an expression of your love for someone, I don't think I'd want to sleep with a person if I didn't really care for them.
 

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Sex is a very vital part of a romantic relationship. There is no doubt about that. I personally believe, however, that when you have sex with someone, you are showing a sign of eternal love, which is why I practice abstinence. Maybe I'm just a crazy rmaontic, I don't know, but I think that only one person should have the pleasure of seeing all of me.